Iingcali zengqondo ziya kujongana nezibongozo zabantu abaye bangamaxhoba e-blackmail, kwaye le blackmail ayisoloko isekwe kwizibonelelo zezinto eziphathwayo - uninzi lweengcali zijongana neziphumo ze-blackmail yengqondo, enamaphi amahlakani ukuze akhe ubudlelwane njengoko bekuya kuba lula. Sigqibe kwelokuba sizilungiselele iindidi zengqondo ngokweenkcukacha.
"Ndiza kukhubeka ukuba awukwenzi njengoko ndikubuza"
Ekuqaleni, imeko engenabungozi ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa okokuqala kuphela. Rhoqo, amabhinqa aphendukela egculeleni-madoda kunzima ukuqonda ukuba 'bathabatha i-gweok ", kwaye ke basebenza ngokukhawuleza kwicala lamaqabane. Ewe kunjalo, kuyo nayiphi na imbeko kukho amaxesha apho ulwaphulo-mthetho luchazwa ngokupheleleyo, kodwa kude kube lixesha lokuba ibe yindlela yokufumana oyifunayo. Njengomthetho, emva kokuba ixhoba liqonda ukuba iphazanyiswe njani, ngoko nangoko iqhekeza ubudlelwane bobuchwephesha, ngenxa yoko ayimfuneko ukuba icinge ukuba uya kukwazi ukuhlangula iingxaki ngoncedo lwetyala elizinzileyo.
"Ndinguye, yintoni, thatha"
Ewe, akunakwenzeka ukuba utshintshe umntu omdala, evumelana nobudlelwane, samkela amaqabane kunye nabo bonke, nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba siqonde xa iqabane liqala ukuba neqabane lakho liqala ukulunga kubudlelwane kubudlelwane. Rhoqo unokuva okwisiqingatha sesibini: "Masiphene ukuba sinayo" kwaye sinokubonakala ngathi, sinobulumko, kodwa ngokukhawuleza uyakukhumbula le ngxoxo : "Savuma, ngaba uyandila ukuba uza kuthatha?" Nayo yonke into esenomoya onjalo. Kwimeko enjalo, kunzima ukuchasana nento ephunyeziweyo i-wiphailator.
ukuthuka-indlela yokufumana i-ifune
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"Ndiza kuba nawe, kodwa kufuneka /" ... "
Owona mthetho uphambili wobudlelwane obunobudlelwane - iqabane alinakwenza iimeko ezinomdla kunye namalungelo kwesiqingatha sesibini siya kubandezeleka. Ngaphandle koko, i-wipulator ifumana phantse igunya elinganamda kwiqabane-ukusuka ekupheliseni izimvo ezanelisayo apho iqabane lingakulungelanga ukuba amantshontsho asekhaya, afe ubomi besi sibini.
Njengomthetho, ngaloo ndlela iqabane elinobuchule lizama ukubiza ngenxa yeqabane elibuthathaka ngokweemvakalelo, kwaye le ibonisa elona nqanaba liphezulu elinokuthi likhutshelwe inyani. Lumnka.
Ukuba phawula ukuba ukufakelwa okunjalo kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwisibini sakho, kuya kufuneka ungazihoyi, kuba kungekudala ubudlelwane obunjalo buya kuya kwisiphelo esifileyo, ekungekho lula ukuba siphume khona. Akunakwenzeka ukuba ubize ulwalamano olunjalo, kwaye ke uzame ukubonisana nogqirha wezengqondo, kunye nendlela onokuzama ukufumana isisombululo kwingxaki kwaye ufunde indlela yokubonisa i-blackmail, ukuba ngesizathu esithile asikho ilungele ukwaphula obu budlelwane.