Uninzi lwethu lunabahlobo nabantwana, ewe, samkela iindwendwe zabantu abadala kunye nabantwana. Nangona kunjalo, ngokweMigaqo yabantwana be-Etiquette, kunokwenzeka ukuba batyelelwe kuphela ukuba ubumenyelwe kwintsapho yonke, kwiimeko ezigqithisileyo kuyimfuneko ukuze ulumkise abanini ngaphambi kwexesha. Ukuba undwendwe oluhle nomntwana okanye ukuzabalazela oku, siya kukuxelela ngephulo elinzima labahlobo abangenamdla, kwaye hayi ukuba ungabuqhekeze ubudlelwane.
Soloko ulumkisa malunga nokufika kwakho kwangaphambili
Ifoto: HARTAHH.USPUS.com.
Thatha ingqalelo imowudi
Kubantwana, njengommiselo, urhulumente ongqongqo, ukophula umthetho okungayi kuzisa nantoni na elungileyo okanye kumntwana wakho okanye abanini. Elona xesha lilungileyo lokutyelela iindwendwe kunye nomntwana kusasa okanye emva kokulala imini, xa amathuba okuba amachaphaza abantwana ancitshiswa. Kananjalo musa ukuhlala kade xa umntwana elixesha lokuya kulala.
Ungayihoyi ikhowudi yokunxiba
Xa umenyiwe kwiholide - usuku lokuzalwa okanye lomtshato, kubalulekile ukuba ungazihlanganisi nje ngesipho, kodwa siphinde sicinge ngento oyithandayo nomntwana wakho. Umntwana eneminyaka emithathu sele ekwazi ukukhetha impahla yedwa, kufuneka uncede kancinane. Usuku olungaphambi kweholide, cwangcisa izinto ngokubanzi: Ke uya kufumana umntwana ukuba aqhele izinto kwaye, ukuba kukho imfuneko, ungayilungisa. Nceda uqaphele ukuba umntwana unokuyonakalisa impahla yakhe ngexesha lomthendeleko ngenxa yokungakhathalelwanga, ukuze ulandele into, kodwa ilungele umntwana.
Thatha ithoyi yakho oyithandayo
Sithetha, ewe, malunga nezi zinto zikhululekile kwizothutho kwaye aziyi kudala iingxaki kubanini kunye nezinye iindwendwe. Umntwana uyonwabele ngokugqibeleleyo iipuzzle, umbala okanye umolini olula, ukuba uya kubantu abangabinamntwana kwaye umntwana wakho kuya kufuneka ukubazonwabisa. Akukho kwimeko apho ayiguqukiyo kubanini babanini bobusuku - abanyanzelekanga ukuba balandele kwaye balungiselele inkqubo yokuzonwabisa ye-chad yakho.
Nxiba umntwana ukuze akhululekile
Ifoto: HARTAHH.USPUS.com.
Yintoni omele uyenze ukuba umntwana wenze into engalunganga?
Khumbula ukuba nawuphi na umntwana enze iimpazamo zokwenza iimpazamo, musa ukuba sesikweni kubanini bamabinzana afana nawo: "Ndihlala ndisasasazeka." Endaweni yoko, nceda umntwana wakho afumane indlela yokuphuma kwimeko enzima. Chazela umntwana wakho ukuba oku akufuneki kwenzeke, kuyo nayiphi na imeko hlala ecaleni komntwana. Kunye nomntwana, ndicela uxolo kubanini.
Thatha iithoyi kuwe
Ifoto: HARTAHH.USPUS.com.
Ewe kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukuba abanye bathande ukuba bamthanda umntwana wakho njengoko umthanda, nangona kunjalo, ngamandla akho, ukuze inani elidibeneyo alinikeli nakuphi na ukuphazamisekileyo.