Ewe kunjalo, ukuzikhusela kuhlala kunceda ekufezekiseni iziphumo apho uzabalazela khona, kwaye nokuba yeyiphi indawo oyikhulisayo. Nangona kunjalo, ugqatso lwempumelelo ngamanye amaxesha lunokuba nefuthe elibi kakhulu kwi-psyche yethu - abanye abantu ukuba bachithe iyure, bajonga ividiyo evuthayo ngenxa yokuthanda, kodwa akuchaphazeli i-hance Uphuhliso lomntu - ngokungafanelekanga kwaye lungabi nantsingiselo yokutshisa ixesha. Indoda iyavuma ukuba ifune into. Sigqibe kwelokuba sifumanise ukuba kutheni kufuneka sizame ukukhuhla, kodwa kungcono ukuba ungabi njalo.
Wonke umntu uthetha ngayo
Siphila kwihlabathi lokhuphiswano olungapheliyo, ngakumbi le ndlela iqhelekile kubantu abahlala kwizixeko ezikhulu. Sihlala sisikhumbuza ukuba kwaneyure eninzi esiyichitha ebhedini ngenxa yokuzonwabisa kwakho, inokusilahla kwi-Karrunovnik, "xa ulele, mhlawumbi uliphumelela ngakumbi". Yima kwaye ucinge, umnqweno wempumelelo ngumnqweno wakho okanye awufuni ukufumana ukungavunyelwa kubahlobo noogxa bakho?
Impumelelo ibalulekile kuwe okanye kwindawo ohlala kuyo?
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Sifuna ukuba ngcono kubo bonke
Kwaye kukho ingozi yokuphulukana nembono yalonto, eyahlula ingqibelelo ephilisayo kumnqweno obuhlungu ukwala. Ngokutsho kwezengqondo uqikelela, malunga nesiqingatha sabathengi babo basebenza kwiinkampani ezinkulu, kwiminyaka embalwa emva kokufumana indawo, bahlangabezana nengxaki ebukhali, ngamanye amaxesha abaqeqeshi be-Inter ngokuchaseneyo, okukhokelela ekugxothweni ngokweemvakalelo umntu osebenza, kodwa akafumani siphumo, ngaphandle kweziphumo ezibi kwi-psyches yakhe.
Kufuneka sazi into esiyithandayo
Ukuhlala eluntwini, kunzima ukutyeshela iminqweno yakhe. Ngamnye wethu uyayazi loo nto okanye hayi, kwinqanaba lezinto ezingenaxabiso lifuna ukufumana imvume yabantu abanegunya kuye kwiindawo ezithile. Kwaye njengoko sisazi, kuphela imali enokuthanda wonke umntu. Ukuba awuyeki ukuzabalazela ukufumana imvume engapheliyo, emva kweminyaka embalwa yemozulu enjalo, uya kuwa kwisitulo sesigulana kwiofisi yengqondo.
Sizabalazela ukubonakala kuphumelela kwaye awufuni ukulinda
Rhoqo, iimbono zethu malunga nazo azihambelani nenyani, kwaye oku kunokukhokelela kwidiski enzulu. Xa singafumani mpendulo esinokulindela ukuba senze nantoni na, umnqweno wokwenza into elandelayo inokuthambisa ixesha elide, yile ngxaki ihlala iphambili, xa umntu efuna ukuphumelela kwicebo lakhe, Kodwa iziphumo zobomi zidanile. Umntu uyayeka kwaye ayeke ukwenza into, ngokungathi akasondeli kwimpumelelo. Akufanele ulinde abantu ukuba baqonde ngokukhawuleza imizamo yakho - bonisa unyamezelo ngakumbi kwaye uza kubona iziphumo.