E-United States, ngokwemiphumo yokufunda kweZiko le-Williams, malunga ne-4.5% yabantu abakwiphova yophando loluntu baxelelwa ukuba uluntu lwe-LGBT lweluluntu lwe-LGBT. Kude kudala kudala waqonda ukuba uyathandana ngokwesini esifanayo nesiqhelo kwaye wavumela izibini ezizezezinye ukuba zitshate, zamkela abantwana kunye nabanye abantu. Sichaza ukuba kutheni kubalulekile ukwamkela umntu kunye nabanye kwiimbonakalo zakho kunye nendlela yokwenza ngayo.
E-US kunye namanye amazwe yinto eqhelekileyo
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Ukuqhelaniswa nokungasebenzi
Akukho mfuneko yokuba uqaphele ukunqwenela umntwana kubantu ababelana ngesondo sabo njengesifo okanye isiphumo semfundo ehluphekayo. Eli linqaku nje lakhe, ngokuchanekileyo kanye njenge-freckles kwimpumlo okanye umbala othile wamehlo. Kuphela yinto esele ibekwe kuthi, hayi i-ofisi yosapho, inqanaba lemfundo, okusingqongileyo, njl njl. Kodwa ukunyamezelana kuluntu lwe-LGBT kuphela komkhwa wentlalo, olungachanekanga kwinto enkulu: Akukho mntu ulungisa ukugweba abo babebangqongileyo.
Nceda umntwana avule
Ukuzikhusela kwi-storriarchal Society kunye nembono ethathiweyo yokungeniswa kosapho, umntu onesifundo esingaqhelekanga kusoloko kunzima ukuyithetha inyani. Kufutshane apho ayixabisayo kwaye ngubani othanda ngokunyaniseka. Ukuba ubufutshane nomntwana ngaphambili, akukho nzima ukuqonda utyekelo lwakhe kwaye uthethe ngobunono ngayo, echaza ukuba bayamthanda umntu kwaye wayengenanto. Akudingeki ukuba uluthile ukuba uya kuba mnandi kweNyaniso kwaye ungathanda ukunyanga ". Qinisa nje ukuba umntwana wakho ukuqhubela kuwe, kodwa hayi wena. Mnike ithuba lokuphila ubomi obuzimeleyo.
Uthando luhle nakweyiphi na indlela
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Ungayi kuthuka
Ewe, uya kuba nzima ukuyithatha le nyaniso, ngakumbi ukuba awuzange uveze ezi zinto zinjalo ngaphambili. Nangona kunjalo, qiniseka ukuba uzigcine ezandleni zakho kwaye ungavumeli intando ngeemvakalelo, ilandelwe ngokuzisola ngokuzalwa komntwana okanye isoyikiso ukumsusa kwagqirha. Chaza ukuba akunzima ngoku, kodwa uya kuzama ukujamelana nee-nerves kwaye usebenze kuwe. Makhe andixelele ukuba wakufika njani kulwazi ngeempawu zakhe nokuba wayenamava obudlelwane nabantu besini sakhe.
Lumkela abanye
Nokuba kwaba lula kuwe emva kokuthetha, musa ukukhawuleza ukuthetha ngayo macala onke. Kwilizwe lethu, ngelishwa, hayi imfundo eyaneleyo kule ndawo. Uninzi lwabantu aluchanekanga kuluntu lwe-LGBT kwaye ungafuni ukubona abameli bakhe ecaleni kwabo, ngaphandle kwezizathu ezivakalayo zoku. "Hlula umhlaba" ngaphambi kokuba uxelele malunga nokuthanda komntwana kwizalamane nabahlobo bakho. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, abanye bayingqonga kwaye kuphela abamthandayo ngokwenene ukuba umntwana wakho aqhubeke kwaye amaxabiso anxibelelana naye - kufanelekile.