Ubomi kwidolophu enkulu bufuna kakhulu, kubandakanya iimpawu ezithile zendalo esisweleyo. Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokubakhulisa kukubukeli abo basikhuthaza. Ixesha elingaphezulu kwaye lizenzele umsebenzi ofanelekileyo, unokufumana ukuzithemba okufunekayo okanye nawuphi na omnye umgangatho ocinga ukuba uswele umsebenzi ophumelelayo kunye nokuseka ubudlelwane nabantu.
Ke njani ukufumanisa ukuba umntu uyaqiniseka? Cinga ngemiqondiso eqaqambileyo.
Musa ukunika abantu isizathu sokuthandabuza
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Ukukwazi ukuthatha uxanduva
Nayiphi na into ebalulekileyo ifuna indlela enkulu. Kuya kufuneka ulungiselelwe into onokuyenza into engaphumeleli okanye uqhubeke ngokupheleleyo njengoko ucwangcisile. Eyona mpazamo inkulu eyenza ukuba abantu bathandabuze ngaphakathi kuwe njengakwinkokeli-ukulahla uxanduva. Ukuba ufuna ukufumana igama elihle kwaye ujonge emehlweni amaqabane umntu onokuthenjwa, akulungele ukuqaphela ukoyisa ukuba kuvela imeko enjalo.
Umnqweno weenjongo ezintsha
Umntu ozithembileyo akazange aneliseke koko kuyenzeka. Uyazi kakuhle ubuchule bakhe kwaye uhlala esebenza kuye ukuze abe ngcono kunayizolo. Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu - kubeka iinjongo ezintsha kunye neenjongo, ngakumbi ngakumbi, kokukhona.
Akukho ntlungu
Umntu onayo yonke into ngolungelelwano lokuzithemba, akukho mnqweno okanye ixesha lengxoxo yabanye - uxakekile. Entloko, imibono kunye neendlela zokuphunyezwa kwazo, kwaye inkunkuma yamandla kwingxoxo yobomi bomnye umntu ayibandakanyi uluhlu lwemicimbi yemihla ngemihla.
Ungathembi kakhulu ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungayisebenzisa loo mbono
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Ukuqonda amandla akho
Umntu oqinisekileyo akasoze athembise into engayi kuba nako ukuba akwazi. Kule ndawo kwaye umahluko phakathi kokuzithemba kunye nokuzithemba kunokuba uninzi lwethu lininzi lesono. Phambi kwento yokuthembisa, cinga ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba uphumeze.
Ukukwazi ukucela uncedo
Ngamnye wethu amaxesha ngamaxesha uyadingeka, kwaye akukho nto ikrexeyo. Akunakwenzeka ukufezekisa iinjongo zesukelo ukuba "utsha" umbono oqaqambileyo apho ungangekenzi ngaphandle kwezandla ezingeyomfuneko "kunye" neentloko ". Ngapha koko, umntu ozithembileyo kwaye uyabanceda abo bakuyifuna ngokwenene.
Musa ukoyika ukuqaphela ukoyisa
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