Ukususela ekuzalweni komntwana, abantu ababini abasondeleyo ngabazali bakhe. Indlu iba yinqaba yentwana, apho inokuziva ikhululekile kwaye ifihle ngokuzolileyo kwihlabathi langaphandle. Ukuba kukho imeko yethutyana ngaphakathi kosapho, umntu omncinci ovela kubuntwana bakhe bavala. Sichaza ukuba kutheni kubalulekile ukufunda ukusombulula iimeko zokungqubana ngendlela eyiyo.
I-Creek-Posche Blocker
Inkqubo yethu yengqondo kunye nenkqubo yovalo isabela kakubi kwisandi esikhulu, siyinxibelelanisa ngengozi emzimbeni. Ngesi sizathu, onke amagama abonakaliswe yitoni eyandisiweyo ayibhabhazi mbi kwiindlebe. Umntwana ubona uburharha kuphela oboniswe kubuchwephesha nakwimbonakalo yobuso, kodwa akakwazi ukuyiqonda into ebangelwa kukuba. Ukuba abazali bahlala beguqukela ngokuziphatha ngendlela yokungqubana, ngokuhamba kwexesha ingqondo benza unxibelelwano olutsha lwengqondo - ulwazelelo olunzulu kwalo naliphi na isandi esivakalayo kwaye sivingce ingcaciso yesandi. Kunokuba yingozi ukuba umntwana uza kuba kwingxamiseko xa kufuneka usabele kwangoko.
Abazali kwimpembelelo yokuzalwa ngubani oza kuba ngumntwana wabo
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Inqatshelwe
Akukho meko azibethayo abantwana kwaye ungabaphulaphuli abantu abagwebileyo. Ke uya kuzisusa iimvakalelo zakho ezimbi, kodwa ixesha elide uza kuzisola. Thatha umzekelo ovela eYurophu- umntwana uya kuthathwa ngosapho ukuba amanyathelo empembelelo emzuzo asetyenziswa kuyo. Njengomntwana, naziphi na iimvakalelo zikhunjulwa ikakhulu kakhulu - azimangalisi ukuba yiminyaka eli-10 ukuya kweli-15 kamva, umntwana ukhumbula amathokazi akho, oya kuba neentloni. Emva kwayo nayiphi na impikiswano, funda ubuncinci imizuzu emi-5 ukusuka emntwaneni: ukukhulula impuku kwaye uphonononge imeko. Ayizukuvumela ukuba wenze iimpazamo zobudenge.
Ukuzithemba konke
Isixhobo esiphambili semfundo yingqondo ebandayo. Funda iincwadi zeengcali zengqondo ukukhulisa abantwana, uqonde umntwana njengomntu olinganayo kuwe, nyula iimpikiswano zakho kwaye uvumele uMntwana ithuba lokuthetha. Ewe, isisombululo esinjalo kwingxaki ithatha ixesha elingakumbi kunokubeka umntwana kwi-engile okanye i-offles emnandi kunye neekhathuni, kodwa inika ifuthe elisebenzayo lokufumana umntwana. Ixesha elingaphezulu, uya kuyiqonda imilinganiselo yokuziphatha kwaye uqala ukulawula iimvakalelo kunye nezenzo ngokuzimeleyo. Owona msebenzi ophambili kuwe njengomzali kukuyixhasa koku kwaye unike ukuqonda ukuba uyamthanda nentlonipho.
Umntwana kufuneka afunde ukuzeyisa
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UQEQESHO-Isithembiso se-PSTATAT
Funda iincwadi ezifana "namabhunga anengozi" aze ahlukane neemeko kunye nabantwana, ahambisa umntwana azichaze ngokwabo ukuba iqhawe lomsebenzi alulunganga. Nikela ingqalelo ekuziphatheni abanye abantwana kunye nabantu abadala ukuya kubantwana. Kubalulekile ukuba uyenze ngendlela engathathi cala, ngaphandle kokuqulunqa umntwana kwisitya ngokunxulumene nawe okanye ukuziqhayisa. Kuya kufuneka aqonde ukuba ukuba akatyhafi emva kokuxabana nomhlobo wakhe kwi-kindergarten, kwaye azama ukusombulula imbambano, ayizenzi umntu owodwa, kodwa ulingana nombutho owodwa, kodwa ulingana nombutho owodwa.
Mphathe umntwana wakho njengoko ndingathanda ukukukhulisa ebuntwaneni. Phambi kokuba wenze into, cinga ngendlela yokuchaphazela ubomi buka bantwana. Alikho igama eliqengqelekayo, isikhalo okanye isaza sokudlulisela izandla ngaphandle komkhondo. Ukuqonda oku, uphakamisa ukuzithemba kunye nabantu abangqongileyo, hayi i-neurotic.