Sele amaxesha amaninzi kumaphepha ale khola, siye sahlanganisana ukuba amaphupha ethu amenzelwa ingqondo yethu yengqondo ngathi. Kwaye malunga nemixholo efuna ukuqonda. Lala, njengoko i-freud yabhala, "indlela yasebukhosini eya eRoyal." Ubonisa iinkanuko zethu, iidrama, ubunzima. Lala, njengakwithiyetha okanye kwifilimu, kwindima zidlala imibuzo esisisikileyo.
Imifanekiso yokulala yimibutho yomntu wethu, inxalenye yomphefumlo wethu, engena kwincoko, ngamanye amaxesha iye kwingxabano. "Ubudenge", "ubudenge", "ubudenge" bokulala ukuze ukuqinisekiswa kude nezingcolotho, kodwa ngemixholo yephupha.
Omnye umzekelo namhlanje:
"Ndivula umnyango kwaye ndibona ukuba amashumi amathathu eminyaka yomntwana, amakhwenkwe amabini kunye nentombazana, elungiselela i-windows ekungeneni kohlobo lweziyobisi. Bayisela ngokukhawuleza, basidenge kuye. Elinye lamakhwenkwe nentombazana, ndiyaqonda, akasasigcini. Ngengqondo yokuba ukuxhomekeka sele kuzithobela ngokupheleleyo, ukwazi kwachithwa. Olona hlobo kuphela kwembono yabo kukuba akukho mntu uthatha ubudenge kwaye akazange athintele i-kaif. Ke ngoko, xa ndivula ucango, basaba ukuba baphume emnyango.
Omnye wabafana akazi ukuba angayisela njani. Ndiyaqonda ukuba uzama okwesihlandlo sokuqala ukuba angaxhomekeki ngokuqinileyo. Ndibambe ijacket yakhe, ndinkqonkqoze ityhubhu yovavanyo kunye nesixhobo ezandleni nasekutyhafiseni endlwini yam. Ndivale ucango kwaye ndiyitshixe egumbini ukuze angasinda. Emva koko, ndiza kukhangela abazali bakhe, ndifunda ngokupheleleyo izinto zakhe kunye nesitulo sesikolo. Ndikhumbula ukuba ephupheni ndizama ukufunda iithegi kwizinto zakhe, ukuze ndiqonde ukuba ungubani na, kodwa andiliboni igama. "
"Bonke abantwana abathathu bephupha amaphupha bayinxalenye yalo.
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Bonke abantwana abathathu kwiphupha lamaphupha bayinxalenye yalo. Intombazana kunye nenkwenkwe esele ixhomekeke kakhulu, kwaye azibancedi-mhlawumbi amaqela adala kakhulu, angenako ukufikelela kuyo. Akukho ndlela yokubabuyisela kwindawo yokulahla inkululeko, oko kuthetha ukuba ezinye iimvakalelo kunye namazwe avinjelwe iphupha. Ephupheni, uyayibona kwaye afunda ngokungakhathali lo meko.
Kunye nenkwenkwana yesithathu engekafiki "yinto yento yindawo eyabelweyo ifunyenwe. Ngokudibeneyo bajoyina iimvakalelo, uninzi lwenkwenkwe ekhethekileyo, abazali bawo 'bafunyaniswa. "
Ngengozi yashiya "Abazali" abalungileyo - ngamava akhe amava akhe, azinikele iphupha. Inkwenkwe ifuziselwe ngokomqondiso kwikhaya lakhe, oko kukuthi, Wayibuyisela indawo ehlambelweni.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba amandla akhe engqondo aya kuba nokungakumbi, ngamanye amaphupha nangezinye iindlela, uya kuba nako ukubuyela ekhayeni lakhe nakwimiphefumlo yabanye abantwana.
Kuya kubangela umdla ukwazi ukuba ungaguquki ebomini bakhe ngobomi bakhe emva kobuthongo? Kodwa ukuze kungabikho eli thuba, ndiza kongeza kuphela ukuba kufanelekile ukucela ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakhe kwiminyaka elishumi. Bonke abantwana abavela ekulaleni kubonisiwe iminyaka ethile. Ewe kunjalo, sithetha malunga neminyaka yephupha.
Umzekelo onjalo wokubuya kwamazwe abalulekileyo kunye nezixhobo ekuchitheni amaphupha.
Ndiyazibuza ukuba uphupha ntoni? Imizekelo yamaphupha akho ethunyelwa ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupha kulula kakhulu ukuveza ukuba kwileta eya kumhleli uya kubhala iimeko ezingaphambili zobomi, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu - iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga zelixesha lokuvuka kweli phupha.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin