Mhlawumbi, wonke umntu unebali apho kukho inyama notywala. Kunzima ukuyithetha indlela engahambelani ngayo la magama mabini, kuba ukudityaniswa okufanayo kunezixhobo zayo. Kule nto siza kufikelela.
Ayaziwa ukuba ichaphazele njani iqabane
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Zithini izinto eziluncedo?
Utywala buphumelele
Akukho mfihlo yokuba ngesondo ezininzi yinkqubo enomdla. Ke ngoko, sihlala sitsiba iiglasi ezininzi ngethemba lokuba kuya kunceda ukuphumla.
Ewe, ukuba ayiphathwa gadalala, iwayini entle iya kukuzisela imeko oyifunayo.
Uyalibala
Kwakhona, iiglasi ezininzi ziya "kuphosela" ukusuka kwiibhiliyoni zakho zentloko, ezihlonitshwe iingxelo kunye nenkxalabo ngaphambi kokuba ziye kwagqirha. Ukwabelana ngesondo kufuna ukugxininisa kwinkqubo, kunye nezenzo zekhaya kwaye ingxaki inokubulala ngokupheleleyo wonke umnqweno.
Iqabane liba mhle
Ewe, ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isigqibo malunga nokusondela komntu osondeleyo nomntu, cinga ukuba uyayifuna. Ukuba awumthandi umntu konke konke, awuyi konwaba. Enye into, ukuba iigram ezimbalwa zinceda ukuba "uvale amehlo akho" kwizinto ezincinci zeqabane.
Umngcipheko wokuphulukana nemvakalelo
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Yandisa iimvakalelo
Kwimimandla eyahlukileyo, izenzo zotywala ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo: Umntu olala, umntu uba yinto evakalayo, kwaye enye iyimvakalelo kakhulu. Ukuba awukwazi ukwenza isigqibo sokuvuma iqabane kwiimvakalelo, mhlawumbi ukwanda kwesidanga kuya kukunceda uthathe inyathelo lokuqala.
Zithini?
Ayinguye wonke umntu onokukusela
Ungalibali ukuba abanye abantu banotyekelo kuzo zonke iintlobo zokuxhomekeka, kubandakanya utywala. Ukuba uyazi okanye iqabane elinjalo, kungcono ukubetha kotywala kuluhlu lwesidlo sangokuhlwa.
Ulahlekelwe nguMoya
Kwaye kwaphela, akuyomfuneko ukuba usele "ipetroli" ziilitha-unokuza "nezinto ezinkulu", kuba abaninzi abayazi imeko yabo. Ukuba isondo senzeka nomntu omaziyo kancinane, ukusetyenziswa kotywala kunokujika, kuba akukaziwa ukuba zinjani iigram ezingama-50.
Ingozi yempilo
Ukuba uthatha amayeza, nkqu nethamo elincinci lotywala lungabulala. Vumelani, akufani ufundile imiyalelo yamayeza ukuya esiphelweni? Sukwenza umngcipheko, umnqweno wokucinga yokuphumla unokuyiphelisa kakubi.
Isini esibi
Inyaniso edumileyo: Utywala buya kunciphisa i-libido emadodeni kwaye kunciphisa inani le-thablictor emfazini. Ibhotile enye ye wayini ikwazi ukonakalisa ukulungiswa kwexesha elide ngesondo, okuya konakalisa kuphela ngokuhlwa, kodwa nemozulu kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezizayo.
Ukwabelana ngesondo kufuna uxinzelelo
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Ukuziva ususwa
Endaweni yokuntywila ngokupheleleyo kwinkqubo, uya kuba "ungabikho," kwaye iqabane lakho aliyi kuqonda, ulithandile okanye alithandi. Ewe, kwaye wena uya kuba nakhohlakeleyo, okwenzekileyo kwaphela.