Mhlawumbi, umhlali ngamnye we-megapoli owevayo ngokubaluleka kokuziqonda, kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu oziqondayo zokomoya. Igama elithi "ngokwakhayo" linengcambu yathu:
Ayisiyo kuphela intuthuzelo yengqondo kuphela ixhomekeke ekuzifezekiseni, kodwa imeko yomzimba umntu othile.
Sukuhlala kwabanye
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Imida yakho
Nawuphi na kuthi ubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba uza kuphela imida yethu imida kwaye imida yabanye abantu iqala. Ukuba sisakwazi ukumisela imiqobo esemzimbeni, emva koko i-psychology ayilulanga. Xa umntu engenakuqonda ukuba yena ngokwakhe umele, kunzima kuye ukuxabisa imida, ayakwazi kuyo.
Ixabiso lobuntu
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzivandlakanya kakhulu kunye nobuchule babo. Ivela apha evumela ukuzithemba okwaneleyo, kungenjalo sibazi abantu abakhathazekileyo, okanye bazihlikise ngokupheleleyo iimpawu zabo njengobuqu nakwingcali.
Vula iitalente zakho
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Xhasa
Njengoko uqonda kanye intsingiselo yegama, ukuziqonda ukuba kuthetha ukuzimela kwaye, ukuba kukho imfuneko, amandla okuxhomekeka kuwe kwaye anike inkxaso xa abanye bengafuni ukwenza le nto.
Isisombululo seengxaki
Iingxaki ezininzi "zikhula" ngaphandle kokungabikho kokuziqonda. Xa umntu engazi ngamathuba akhe kwaye akaziphuculi njengomntu, uguqukela kwabanye abantu, wayedla ngokuchithwa ngokupheleleyo kuzo. Oku kwenzeka rhoqo ngababini apho umfazi enikezela ngobomi babo komnye umntu, kwaye emva kokophula ihlabathi liwile emehlweni akhe, ngenxa yokuba usukelo lobomi bakhe, uphulukana nenjongo ebomini. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukuba uzinikele ngokwakho, ukuqonde ukuba yintoni eyona nto uyithandayo kwaye yintoni onokuyiphumeza. Ngapha koko, ngenxa yokuba unethemba lakho kuphela, yenza ulwazi lwabo bonke ubuntu bakho buphephe zonke iintlobo zokuxhomekeka.
Nikezela intuthuzelo yengqondo
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