-Ngaphambi kokuba uphendule ubume bombuzo, masiyibone le nto sithetha ngayo.
"Amava adandathekileyo" ziimeko ezingathandekiyo ezibonakala ngenxa yoxinzelelo kunye nomelele "" ezingenakunyamezela ".
Kubabuhlungu babulawa, kuba ukuqonda komntu akuzange kuhlangabezana nawo. I-psyche ayikwazanga ukuphinda isebenze, igaye la mava kwaye iyazikhulisa kwinxalenye engazi nto, umntu ulibele nje ngayo.
Ngelixa ukwazi ukungakulungelanga ukubona le nto okanye olo lwazi, lihlehliselwe "amaxesha amahle", ngaloo ndlela, i-PSYCI ikhuselekile kwaye incedwe.
Kunzima ukuyiphelisa ingxaki, kodwa ungakhumbuli, awazi kwaye awuyimangalisi. I-paradox.
I-PSCHOLOLOGIST IRINA Gross
Cinezela izixhobo zenkonzo
–Zeziphi iingxaki zobuntwana ezahlukileyo kwabanye, umzekelo, iingxaki zabantu abadala?
Okokuqala, ebuntwaneni, sazi ngokwenene kwaye siyayazi indlela, siqala nje ukufumana ukuba leli lizwe lilungiselelwe njani. Asinazo izixhobo okanye izixhobo zokufumana ngandlel 'ithile kwiimeko ezinzima.
Okwesibini, yonke into eyenzekayo ebuntwaneni ngamava okuqala.
Olu luhlobo olunobubele, 'olumevayo ", isibakala sokuba sihlala sikhumbula kakhulu, sithi" isiseko "," inkxaso "," imeko "yamava alandelayo.
Asinakutshintsha ixesha elidlulileyo. Ukuba ngoku umisiwe, kodwa ebuntwaneni kwakungekho bhayisekile, ongenakubaleka ngebhayisekile ebuntwaneni kwaye akukho Merceds iya kuyitshintsha.
Ke ngoko, akunakwenzeka ukuphelisa iingxaki ukusuka ebuntwaneni, kodwa ungayazi. Ngenxa yoku, ubomi buphose ubunzima.
Obo bunzima esijamelana nabo kubudala abadala banokunxulunyaniswa neengxaki ukusuka ebuntwaneni, emva koko siye kwesona siphume 'ekulimaleni kwabantwana ", nto leyo enokusetyenzwa kwaBantwana" emva koko iconjululwe.
–Ungakuqonda njani amava okuqala kwangoko?
1. Yiya kubunzima kwaye uzibukele. Nje ukuba wenze inyathelo, dibanisa izinto zokwazisa nokusebenza.
2. Ukuqonda ukuphendula komzimba, ukubonakaliswa kunye nokucinga. Umzimba yindlu yeemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo. Inyani yile yokuba isusiwe hayi nje isiganeko esingathandekiyo, kodwa ngaphezulu kuzo zonke iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ezinxulumene nayo. Umsebenzi wethu kukubamba imvakalelo ecekeceke ngasemva komsila kwaye ufumanise ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwesilwanyana.
3. Jonga oko ukuphepha oko ukufumanayo, ukuba ngubani na ongenanto. Kwintsimi yeTV, ukuba ungakuhoyi unokufumana okuninzi okunomdla "kwasebuntwaneni."
4. Jonga iimfuno zakho. Ufunani. Apho itsala khona. Uzabalazela ntoni? Ngaphandle kwento enzima kuwe.
5. Songa ngobuchule bobugcisa: Bukela imovie, funda uncwadi, funda umculo, phulaphula umculo kwaye ubukele iimvakalelo zakho. Njengoko imisebenzi yobugcisa ichaphazela umhlaba wakho obonakalayo, ngawaphi amava anyukayo.
6. Rekhoda iingcinga zakho, Khokela idayari okanye amaphepha entsasa. Ke unokulandelela utshintsho lwakho okanye ukuqaphela.
7. Ukuba awujamelana nokodwa-funda ukukholosa kwaye ufune uncedo kwiingcali.