Okokuqala, kufuneka uphuphe kwaye ubalulekile kwihlabathi liphela kunye nehlabathi, kuya kuba lula ukufumana umntu onqwenelekayo. Ngoba? Kuba iphupha lehlabathi kunye nomnqweno wehlabathi, elincinci ukunganyangeki kwengqondo
Ukuba umzekelo, umvuzo wakho zii-ruble ezingama-30,000 kwaye uya kuqalisa ukuphupha malunga ne-50000, emva koko le nto iyodwa kwaye ingqondo iya kuqalisa ukuphupha ngenqwelomoya kunye nengeniso Kwiibhiliyoni zeedola, emva koko ingqondo iya kuyibona njengento engento eya kuqalisa ukuhleka kunye nokuhlekisa, kwaye ke uloyiko ludlule ngengqondo ebomvu kwaye iya kunika impembelelo yenyani kunye nezenzo.
Ayithethi ukuba inqwelo moya iya kubonakala kwangoko, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo iya kubomi bakho kunye neebhonasi ezilungileyo.
Kwaye kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuphupha ngokuchanekileyo, ngaphandle kwesuntswana "hayi", engabonwa ngengqondo kunye nexesha langoku, kwaye kungcono ndinibulela kakhulu ngento ofuna ukuba nayo.
Rhoqo, abantu baphila kwisikhundla sokukhanyela, ngalo lonke ixesha batsho ukuba abathandi kwaye abathethi kwaphela malunga nezinto abazithandayo. Ngokuhambelana, kukho inkathalo namandla, kukho isenzo kunye nenyani
Umzekelo:
Andifuni ukuba indoda yakhe isele ❌ ayisiyonto yokwenyani
Andifuni iibhutsi ezindala ❌
Andifuni ukuba abantwana babenzakalise ❌
Ukhetho oluthembekileyo ukhetho
Ndiyathanda ukubona umyeni wakhe ongenayo
Ndiyathanda ukuya kwiibhutsi ezintsha
Enkosi ngempilo entle yabantwana bethu.
Enkosi ngeli thuba lokuhambahamba kwihlabathi liphela.
Enkosi ngeli thuba ukuze uphumle ngenzuzo yam noxolo kwaye
Imiqobo ephambili yenze ingqondo yethu kunye nokucinga. Jonga abantwana ngelixa ingqondo yabo ivaliwe ngofakelo kunye nezithintelo, ziphupha kwihlabathi liphela kwaye zikholelwa ukuba ziyakwazi ukoyisa umhlaba uphela kwaye ziyafumaneka. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuqala ukukhetha izithintelo ngokucinga.
Ifomula yeminqweno ilula
Ukucinga okwandisiweyo = Ukunciphisa imiqobo + amathuba amaninzi okufumana oyifunayo
Xa umntu ecinga imihla ngemihla: "Andingekhe, andizukuphumelela, kwaye kuthekani ukuba ...", emva koko uzibekela iminqweno.
Kwaye xa efuna nje kwaye engacingi ukuba akukho ngqiqweni, iziganeko ezenziwa kwaye amandla akathunyelwanga kuloyiko kunye nemiqobo, kodwa kumathuba amatsha.
Ngokubanzi, njengesiqhelo, yonke into iqala kuthi kunye nokucinga kwethu.