Namhlanje ndifikelele ekutolikeni ukulala kumfazi oqhelekileyo. Uthumele nokubonakalisa kwakhe malunga nokulala, kodwa masibe no-siza kuqhagamshela kwi-Decong yephupha lakhe.
Ke, ulale malunga nezigqibo zayo ezingaqondakaliyo malunga nokuthembana nokungathembani zabanye:
"Sishiya nomakazi ekungeneni, ndiyambuza:" Ngaba uyafuna ukungena ngasemva kwevili? " Uphendula ngendlela yabantwana bakhe: "Ndiyathanda." Uhlala phantsi, ndihlala ndibukele ecaleni. Uza kuqala phambili, uyema, emva koko abuyele kuyo yonke i-Disus, kodwa hayi kwi-susus yakhe, kwaye amagqabi asemthethweni xa esondela ngasemva kwemoto, kwaye emva koko wabuyela kuyo - I-alarm ye-1st. Emva koko enye imoto iqhuba kuyo, kwaye ngesizathu esithile siqhuba nakweli moto. Apha sele ndiphumile. Imoto yokuqala indala, kwaye wafumana intwana, umqhubi uthi akafuni kwanto; Umqhubi wesibini uthi ufumana iindleko zokulungiswa.
Ngemini elandelayo wabiza wathi akukho monakalo wama-250 amawaka e-ruble. Ndiyothuka, nditsho ukuba, mhlawumbi bahlawula kwi-CTP. NdinoMkomishinara oqhelekileyo oqhelekileyo. Emva koko ndiyaqonda ukuba akukho dade kwi-osago yam. Kwaye ukuba isatifikethi sele senziwe kuyo, ayithethi. Ndicinga ukuba andikwazi ukutshintsha yonke le mthwalo kwi-aunt. Kwaye inomzimba enomsindo ithi akafumani imali, ke kufuneka undibhatale.
Isigqibo sam sokuba ndoyike kakhulu ukuba ndithethe nomntu, kuba iyandoyikisa ngezibambiso zezinto ezibonakalayo, kwaye ngokubanzi. Kuba yonke impendulo iza kuhlala ihleli kum yonke. Yintoni enye efunekayo, andikwazi ukuqonda. Ngenxa yokuba esi sigqibo silula, kwaye ndiyayazi. Ndicinga ukuba kukho unxibelelwano nento yokuba andinabasebenzi, andibathembi. Ilinde ukutolika kwakho. "
Ngokubanzi, njengoko ndithetha ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kubalulekile ukutolika iphupha, imizobo eyahlukileyo kunye neempawu. Umbuzo onomdla, uzibuza malunga nokungathembani ngokungathembani kwabantu kunye nomonakalo owugubungela, ngokusilela kwabaqeshwa kwishishini lakhe.
Ndicinga ukuba impendulo iyabonakala ebuthongweni bayo. Uyavuma ukuba imoto yakhe kweli tyala iya kulawulwa ngumakazi, engazi ukuba iqhuba njani, njengoko abantwana bonwabile. Kufana nokukholelwa kwixesha elikhulu lokukholelwa igama elinxila, ukuze angayi kusela iglasi, okanye umdlali ongumdala ongayi kuthatha indala. Iqonga liphela, elidlalwa emva, kububungqina kuphela ukuba buza ubudlelwane nabantu, busazi ukuba banokungakwazi ukunyamezela.
Akunakulindeleka ukuba ubethe umntwana wakho umvuzo wakho, abadala babuthathaka babazali - bashukumisa kwaye badlulisela ipiyano. Ekukhanyisweni kwengqondo kunye nememori eqinileyo, unikezela le misebenzi kwabo banokukwazi ukujongana, okanye bazenzele. Nangona kunjalo, ukulala kubonisa iqhawe, kuba ngokungaboniyo uyathemba ukuba ayifanele yenziwe phi. Ukuzithemba komntu okhulileyo kwahlukile kubantwana kunye nokucetyiswa komda ngenxa yokuba kufanelekile ukuba uxabise amava kunye nokukwazi ukubona, ukuba ngubani onokuphawulwa.
Ngapha koko, zonke iingxoxo ezalandelayo ziya zisibakholisa ngokwabo ukuba wonke umntu ahlawulele yonke into. "
Esi sigqibo siyayicaphukisa ekungeneni kobudlelwane be-nage okanye abangaboniyo, bayabakho, baphose yonke into enzulu kwimpazamo yabo yokucinga. Isangqa esivaliweyo. Ukuba oku kwenzeke kuphela, siyakukhanyisa ngokulula. Kodwa olu luhlobo lomntu. Ilungelo lakho lokulungileyo, nokuba kungasebenzi kangakanani, kufuna ukuba iziprofetho ezikhuselekileyo. Umzekelo, umbono oqhelekileyo wokuba "abantu abanakuthenjwa" banika abafazi iimeko ezahlukeneyo ukuze baqiniseke ukuba kwakhona: Intlanganiso namadoda atshatileyo, i-alphose okanye i-dallonses okanye utywala.
Ukuba sithetha nge-heroine yethu, kufuneka aqaphele ukuba ungayifumani njani, kodwa ukuba uChuthisa njani, kodwa indlela azicaphukisayo ngayo izithandwa zakhe. Ukuzithemba ngokungaboniyo apho kukwala ukwala okanye ukuthintela.
Sinqwenela impilo entle kuye ngeyona ndlela inomdla yokuguqula iinkolelo zethu.
Ngendlela, ezi nkolelo, okanye ukuqonda okungalunganga ngaye okanye malunga nehlabathi, kungabikho lula ukuphelisa. Iingcebiso eziHighties zentombi okanye ootatomkhulu kolu ngcelele "ungacingi ngokubi", "ngaphezulu kokulungileyo" apha akuyi kunceda. Iinkolelo ezimbi zihleli ngokuqinileyo kumava abuhlungu. Ngenxa yeziganeko ezinzima zemvakalelo ezazingamava wonke umntu kwaye wonke umntu, sifikelela kwisigqibo esingalunganga malunga nesiqu sakho kwaye abanye bacacisa ukuba kwenzeka ntoni ukuba kwenzeke ntoni. Kwiziganeko eziPhambili, izigqibo ezinjalo zinceda ukujamelana noko kwenzekayo, kodwa ngeziganeko ezilandelayo ebomini zichaphazela eyona ndlela ityhefu. "Akunakwenzeka ukukholosa" ngamadoda "akakukuphela komnye umntu owonileyo, kodwa yiprism apho abafazi bajonga khona onke amadoda. "Mna ngokwam, akukho namnye kum kweli lizwe" ngokuhamba kwexesha uphula enzonzobileni phakathi kwabantu. Ukuzithemba kwethu ngokungazi ngokungazi nto ngokwayo akunakusenzakalisa, kodwa kokukhona bangazi nto, kokukhona sithobela iimpembelelo zabo. Indlela yokuphumelela ebomini kukwaziswa kwezi zigqibo, ukuhlolwa kwabo ngokungqinelana kunye nezenzo eziyingozi ezinobungozi ukuba iziprofetho ezonakalisayo zinokulungiswa.
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UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin