Kutshanje, ingxaki yomsebenzi wokukhangela ikakhulu, kodwa iba sisikali esikhulu nangapha xa umntu ekhathaza isikhundla sakhe kwaye uyakhula kangako kwimeko enkulu "yokumiswa". Kungathandeki ukuba umntu onjalo uguqukele abe yindoda eniqwalasele "igxalabeni elinokuthenjwa" nomntu onokukhatywa. Ngamanye amaxesha akukho themba kunye nezikhubekiso ziyakwazi ukuguqula imeko. Sifumanise indlela yokwenza ukuba indoda itshintsha lonke uxanduva kulwalamano lwakho, kubandakanya nezezimali, kumagxa zabasetyhini.
Yiqondeni Imeko
Ayisoloko ifuna umsebenzi yiLena. Ukongeza, ukuba uyabona ukuba indoda isebenza kuyo yonke imizamo yokusombulula ingxaki, akukho sizathu sokuhlaselwa. UNGAYENZI IZIBHENO, kuba ukufumana indawo efanelekileyo kuya kufuneka usebenze kwaye ubonise umonde. Imeko eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo ikhula kwimeko xa umntu ehlala ekuphepha ukuthetha ngokufumana umsebenzi kwaye engakwenzi nto ukuze asondele kwinjongo. Kule meko, akunyanzelekanga ukuba iqengqele isisongo-ukuhlala "kwitafile yokuxoxa". Indoda eyaneleyo exabisa ubudlelwane bakho buya kumamela izicelo zakho kwaye uqinisekise ukuba kuya kuqala ukusombulula ingxaki engakuniki uxolo.
Sukwenza wonke umsebenzi
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Sixelele malunga neemvakalelo zakho
Ewe, ukuba iqabane lityeshela amava akho, umsindo kunye nentiyo yomntu osanda "enxiba izandla zizalwe emphefumlweni. Ukutyholwa kunye namagqabantshintshi e-caustic kwimeko enjalo akunakuphepheka, nangona kunjalo, unokuthulula iqabane kuphela. Sukuzikhulisa, endaweni yoko, ndixelele ukuba akukho lula kwaye indlela oyibona ngayo indlela yokuphuma kwimeko yangoku, umzekelo, ukukhangela umsebenzi weqabane.
Sukujika ungene kwi "Mammy"
Eyona nto ingathandekiyo onokuyenza kukuqala ukukhangela umsebenzi. Kodwa ubonelela kuphela "inkonzo yebhere" kunye nomntu wakho onyuliweyo, kuba indoda iyakuthatha ukuba ukukhangela umsebenzi kubalulekile kuwe, kutheni kufanele ukuba ahambe. Njengoko uqonde, izenzo zakho ngokuqinisekileyo azimniki. Ukongeza, nokuba ufumana indawo efanelekileyo, iqabane liya kuthi, ukuba ungakukhumbuza ukuba nguwe owamfumanayo umsebenzi, apho kuhlonitshwa / ukungabhatali / angabalinganiyo njl.
Inkxaso yokuqhuba
Ewe kunjalo, sithetha ngezo meko xa indoda izama ngokwenene, kodwa ayikaze iphumelele kule. Ukuze nawuphi na umntu, inkxaso ibalulekile, ngakumbi kwindoda ethandekayo, ngenxa yoko ungamxhasi endaweni yokuyicacisa kwithuba lekhulu xa liza kusebenza. Yiba neqhinga.