"Molo maria!
Igama lam nguTatyana. Ndinengxaki enkulu nomyeni wam. Sitshatile iminyaka emine. Ndatshata xa ndandineminyaka engama-20. Emva koko ndafunda kwiZiko. Umyeni wam mdala iminyaka eli-10. Ngoku ndiphumelele eyunivesithi, ndafumana umsebenzi. Isebenze unyaka. Ndikhulele eofisini. Ndiyayithanda ngokungekho ngqiqweni, kwaye ndiphupha ngomsebenzi ophumelelayo. Kodwa umyeni wakhe unezinye izicwangciso. Ufuna umntwana, hayi yena. Ndiyaqonda ukuba asitshatanga ukuba uneminyaka yobudala, uliphelile. Kwaye nam andinanto yokulwa nabantwana. Kodwa ngoku ayikho kwaphela kwi-cashier ngoku, ukuba ... ingxabano ngenxa yoku rhoqo. Utsho yonke into ayifunayo abantwana abo basebenza ishishini. Kwaye ndiyavuma kuye. Kwaye andifuni ukuyeka konke konke. Isayanda into yokuba nabazali bakhe ecaleni kwakhe. Ndiyaqonda ukuba akukho mntu uyakuthatha isigqibo malunga nengxaki kum, kodwa ndifuna ukuliva izimvo zakho njengengcali yengqondo. Ndiyabulela kwangoko!"
Molo, Tatiana!
Ndiza kuzama ukubonisa ingqalelo yakho kule. Mhlawumbi baya kuba luncedo kuwe.
Kwimeko yakho, kunjalo, yiba nempembelelo enamandla ye-stereotypes yentlalo. Okokuqala, ukuba indima yomfazi ekugcineni ingqalelo yekhaya kunye nokukhulisa abantwana, kunye nendima yendoda, ngokwahlukeneyo, ekwenzeni imali. Abameli bobuqhetseba "besithengo" kule meko, kunjalo, kunzima kakhulu. Ukuncama izilangazelelo zakho ngenxa yosapho, ukuphila abanye yisabelo esiqatha. Ukongeza, enye yeengxaki eziphambili zabafazi abaninzi bajoyineka apha- wonke umntu uthanda ukudibana nokulindelwe kwabanye ukuba babe nokunqweneleka. Baya kwaoko, besezinzulwini zomphefumlo, benethemba lokuba bavuzwe umvuzo wabo. Kwaye amadoda rhoqo akanamathisi amaxabiso abo kwimizamo yabo. Njenge, iyimfuneko. Ke kuyavela ukuba abafazi abaninzi baqhutywa kwi-engile. Umnqweno wokuthanda kwaye unqweneleka ukuba ube namathuba amaninzi - ukuzimela, ukuzimela, umsebenzi kunye namandla. Ngenxa yoko, ukuhlala ekuthinjweni kwemfuyo yoluntu, lo mfazi uyeza ukuzijonga, uya kude nobuntu bakhe ngokude kwaye ngokude. Kodwa imithetho ikhona ukuze iphule! Unokufuna ukuphila ngokuhambelana nawe, zama ukufumana ibhalansi phakathi kweminqweno yakho kunye neminqweno yabanye. Umngcipheko, ulahle kwaye uphumelele. Kholwa kubuchule bakho kwaye ungaphazanyiswa yinto yokuba abanye baya kucinga. Ngapha koko, ngaphandle kokuzama, awuyi kwazi, kufanelekile, kwaye enyanisweni okanye hayi;)
Kwaye, ngandlela, ngaphandle kwawo onke amadoda athabathayo kumfundisi kunye namantombazana asekhaya ...
Ngale ncwadi kukho incwadi entle ye-U. Erhard "amantombazana amahle aya ezulwini, kwaye okubi - apho bafuna khona, okanye ngesizathu sokuba ukuthobela akuvusi ulonwabo."