Udibene nendoda efezekileyo kwaye wahlala kunye ixesha elide, nangona kunjalo, ngequbuliso uyakushiya kwaye uye ekutshoneni kwelanga. Kodwa ngequbuliso yenzekile? Khumbula, mhlawumbi "iifowuni", esiya kuthini, sivele kubudlelwane bakho, nangaphezulu kwesinye.
I-gap ayihlali
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Uziphatha njengangaphambili
Ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, ngalinye lamahlakani likhwele ngaphandle kolusu ukuze sibe nembono entle kwiqabane labo lomphefumlo: Unikwe umsebenzi weentyatyambo, lungiselela izinto ezothando, kwaye ngokwenene mabathandeke ukwenza izinto ezintle ngenxa ye Ibhinqa abafuna ukubiza abalo. Ukuba kutshanje indoda yakho itshintshe kakhulu kwaye yayeka ukulawula iimpawu zokunikela ingqalelo, njengangaphambili, ixabisekile, ithini loo nto - kungenzeka ukuba ingozi ibaleke kwimpendulo embi.
Awusenayo izihloko eziqhelekileyo
Njengomthetho, xa sisondela kubaluleke kakhulu ukufumana amanqaku omfowunelwa esinceda ukuba sisazi ngakumbi umntu, umzekelo, ukuba uhlala unyamalala kuzo zonke iintlobo zesenzo, ukubakho kwenu Umntu uya kuba nomdla kwisihloko esinye. Kwelinye icala, umsebenzi wakho uya kucaphukisa kwaye ubudlelwane bakho abunakulindeleka.
musa ukunyanzela
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Uqala ukumkhathaza
Le ndoda iqala ukucaphukisa izinto awayezifumene zintle - ngoku endaweni yokutsala iimpahla zakho ngeeprinta zabantwana, iqala ukucaphuka kwaye ukutshintsha kuwe ukutshintsha iwadi. Kwaye imeko ayitshintshi ngcono. Kule meko, kuya kufuneka uhlale phantsi kwaye uthethe nendoda ngokungagungqiyo.
Ayisoloko isekhaya
Xa umntu ethandana, uzama okwesibini ukuba angahlanganisi umxholo wothando lwayo, oko kukuthi, wena. Ukulungelelaniswa okungapheliyo kwimimandla edibeneyo kwiholo, ukuhamba okanye i-TRIPS ukuya kwindawo yokutyela, kungatsho ukuba umntu akafuni kuhlala nawe yedwa, kodwa ke nokumvuma ngenxa yesi sizathu.
Lumka ukutshintsha kwimeko yayo kunye nokuziphatha-Ukungabikho rhoqo kweqabane kunokukhokelela ekuphuhlisweni, kwaye ungalindelekanga kakhulu.
Indoda ilungele kakhulu kumfazi wakhe
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Uthetha ngekamva elidibeneyo
Ngapha koko, sinokuthetha ngezinto zombini ezezayo kunye neempelaveki ezizayo. Ukuthula kwakho, umntu othintela uxanduva ngamazwi akhe: Mhlawumbi unezicwangciso, kungekuphela nje ungakuchukumisi. Eyona nto iphosakeleyo onokuyenza kule meko injalo iya kubekwa. Zama ukuya kwenye indawo ngaphandle kwayo, ngaphandle kokubeka udumo-akukho mntu unguMfazi wendlela akasayi kuva inkululeko enjalo. Ukuba waphulukana nomdla kuwe, ukungakhathalelwa kwakhe kuya kuxelela yonke into kuye.