Umbuzo wendlela yokwenza yonke into, enexhala lomntu ixesha elide. Hayi kuphela moms, kungekuphela ngo-2020 kuphela. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, unyaka nonyaka lubaluleke ngakumbi koomama abancinci, ngoku ngoku bengekazinikeli kuphela bonke ubomi babo emntwaneni kwaye bahlale ekhaya, kodwa nabo benze naluphi na uphuhliso lwesazisi sabo. Ke, bobukhali, le ngxaki "bachukumisa yonke into" iyavuka, kokukhona kuyaxoxwa, kokukhona kuya kubakho iimbono ezahlukeneyo. Kodwa ndiza kwabelana nawe kakuhle ezo zinto ndinokunceda ukuba ndikwazi ukwenza yonke into ecwangcisiweyo. Ndikwanayo nosapho, umyeni kunye nabantwana ababini. Ndinomsebenzi, i-intrugram yam, efuna ingqwalaselo ende. Kwaye iminye imisebenzi eninzi ekufuneka idityaniswe nayo yonke le nto.
Ishedyuli
Qiniseka ukuba wenze ishedyuli yosuku. Inokuba yifomathi efanelekileyo kuwe, zombini kwidayari kunye namanqaku okanye naziphi na izicelo kwifowuni. Ekupheleni kweveki, yenza iveki ngeveki yonke imicimbi ecwangcisiweyo iya kupheshelwa. Ukongeza kwinkqubo yokubonakala kwamanye amatyala, qala ukuncedisa ishedyuli. Kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu kangangokuba kufuneka ukuba ipeyinti ayisebenzi kuphela kwaye intlanganiso, nexesha lokutya, ukondla umntwana, iphumle kunye nomntwana njalo njalo. Kuya kufuneka umisele yonke into ngokweenkcukacha nangeyure. Kuphela xa yonke into ibhaliwe, imicimbi yakho ayiyi kutshabalala naphi na kwaye ayizukubhabha nantoni na.
Kuyimfuneko ukupeyinta kungekuphela nje emsebenzini kunye neentlanganiso, kunye nexesha lokutya, ukondla umntwana, ukuphumla, ukuhamba nomntwana
Ishedyuli yenyanga
Ngokufanelekileyo, ngaphandle kweshedyuli yemihla ngemihla, uxhoma ikhalenda inyanga, apho ezinye iziganeko zehlabathi kunye neeholide ziphawulwa. Kungcono ukuba uxhobele indawo kwindawo ephambili, kwaye akufuneki ibe yikhalenda yendawo yokubhala engafakwanga. Ngoku baninzi ongumyili ohlukeneyo kunye neekhalenda zodonga ezinesitayile eza kongeza kuphela umtsalane ekhayeni lakho. Ke, phawula ihambo enkulu, imihla yokuzalwa yabahlobo kunye neentlanganiso zosapho. Mhlawumbi unezinto nomntwana, kodwa kuphela kwinyanga ezayo, phawula apho. Ukuze ukwazi ukugxila kwiziganeko ezibalulekileyo zehlabathi. Kwaye wakhe izicwangciso ezisekwe kubo.
Ungalali uncedo
Rhoqo iimayile, ezifuna ukuchitha lonke ixesha lokukhululeka nomntwana, ukwala naluphi na uncedo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonde ukuba awusiyo wizard, kwaye xa ixesha lommiselo osebenzayo, uyaqhubeka, ke ungaziphepha izigwebo zoncedo ezivela kubantu ababathandayo. Ukuba abazali bakho babefuna ukuthatha umntwana impelaveki, mabathathe. Unokuzinikezela ngeli xesha kwaye uphumle, okanye ulungiselele umhla wothando nomyeni wam, iindlela ezininzi zokukhetha. Ukuba i-ntliziyo yakhe inika ukuhamba naye ukuba ingakulayishe kancinci, kodwa awuzange uthi "Hayi." Ngenxa yeeyure ezimbalwa ngaphandle kwakho ngeveki, akayi kulibala ukuba ngubani umama wakhe.
Kwishedyuli yakho kunye nezicwangciso ekufuneka ubeka izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka
Seta izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka
Kwishedyuli yakho kunye nezicwangciso ekufuneka ubeke izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka. Bonke kweli lizwe aliyi kusebenza, nokuba zintle kangakanani na ulawulo lwexesha ongazenzisiyo. Cinga ukuba ngoku kubaluleke ngakumbi kuwe, kwaye yintoni enokuhamba okwethutyana. Okokuqala, ungumama, kwaye oku kukuthatha kuqala, uyahlulahlula isiqwenga sexesha lakho. Okwesibini, wena, umzekelo, blogger, kwaye ngaphandle kokuqwalaselwa kwakho kwibhlog, abaphulaphuli bayahamba nje. Kwaye oku kukuphulukana nebhlog, kwaye ukuphulukana nomsebenzi. Ngokuhambelana, unika uninzi lwexesha eliseleyo. Okwesithathu, wena, umzekelo, kudala ndifuna ukuya kumalungelo. Kodwa ngoku awunayo imoto, ukufundisisa kuthatha ixesha elininzi. Ke inokuhlehliswa unyaka okanye ezimbini, ziya kubuyela kule kamva, kuba ngoku ishishini liphambili.
Zama ukusondela kuyo yonke into njengezazela, funda ukuziva kwaye uzithande kuqala
Zive ngokwakho
Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba udiniwe - phumla. Ukuba uyaqonda, "kukho into engalunganga", yema kwaye ucinge ngayo yonke into. Sihlala sibaleka kakhulu, sibamba iwaka kunye nomsebenzi omnye ebomini bakho, ngenxa yokuba "sidinge." Ukwenzela ntoni? Ukuba awuyithandi into, uyala okanye utshintshe. Ngaphandle kokuphumla kunye nokungakhathazeki akuyi kufezekisa iziphumo ezilungileyo kungengemithombo: nakubanye nobukumkani, okanye kubomi bakho. Ke ngoko, zama ukuzondela kuyo yonke into njengokuqonda, funda ukuziva kwaye uzithande ngokwakho.