Ukuba umntu uyakucaphukisa ... uyavuya!
Ewe, ewe, andenzanga cala-yibani nemihlali, kwaye ungakhutyekiswa. Kuba ukucaphukisa akunanto ngaphandle kovavanyo, kwaye ukuba indoda iyakwenza-ukukhathalela, unasonza umdla onyanisekileyo. Akukho mntu uya kumvavanya umfazi engathandeki.
Ngaba uyazi ukuba eyona nto imbi kakhulu?
Ukungakhathali. Xa engakhathali ukuba ungubani, xa uziphatha njani. Akadlali, akadlali, akazivumeli izitulo, kodwa akujonga ngamehlo ambalwa eentlanzi. Ke uyindawo engenanto kuye. Njengomntu, awukho ngaye.
Kodwa kutheni le nto kufuneka ayifunayo?
Ubuza. Kodwa xa uthenga imoto kwaye uyithathe kwidrive yovavanyo, awuyi kujikeleza iSixeko ngesantya se-40 km. Ufuna ukukhawulezisa ecaleni kwendlela, kwaye i-SUV ikumdaka ukuqhuba. Ukuba ufumana - emva koko qwalasele njengomgqatswa omkhulu.
Indoda ifuna ukubona indlela oza kubaphatha ngayo kwiimeko zoxinzelelo.
Kwaye hayi kwitafile ekwindawo yokutyela ethe cwaka kwinkqubo yonxibelelwano olumnandi. Ujonge kuwe ukuba ulinde ukuba ufumene ecaleni kobomi obude bomtshato kwindawo engaqondanga kunye neengxabano, kunye nobunzima obahlukeneyo. Ingqumbo-uphawu lwenzala ebaluleke kakhulu.
Yulia Lansk, ingcali ekukhetheni isibini esifanelekileyo somtshato
Ngaba akukho "itsheki" yabasetyhini "?
Masingakwazi ukuncokola: Wena ngokwakho uvavanywa ngokuvavanywa, ukujonga okhethiweyo wakho ngamanqaku amane aphambili:
-Ngabani na?
- Unxibelelana Njani noMama?
- Bacinga ntoni abantwana?
- Ngaba uyanekhwele?
Amadoda asebenza ngokunjalo.
Bavavanywa izinto ezifanayo.
- ithatha kuphela okanye inike?
-Ulwa lulwalamano lwakho nabazali kwaye nguninazala?
-Ungaba ngumama wabantwana bam?
-Krokrela kangakanani, ngaba ubomi babuyela esihogweni?
Ifumana ntoni indoda ekuvuseleleni?
Uqokelela umfanekiso wakho wenene. Le yingubo efanelekileyo yemihla ngemihla. Ngaba ungazihli, ungathathi? Mhlawumbi ilaphu elikrwada, i-PROSTUS, ukuthunga kungakhululekanga? Ukuba le jacket ekuqaleni ayithandi, akukho mntu uza kuzama ukuyizama. Ukuba awuqwalaselwa njengomfazi onokubakho, akuyi kubakho tshihlo.
Ukuba ufumana indoda ekukucaphukisayo, unemisebenzi emibini:
I-1-Iqalelo
Kuya kufuneka ubone ukuba le ayisiyonto nje yombuzo okanye isenzo, kuvavanywa ngabom okanye ukungazi nto, itshekhi yakho efanelekileyo.
2- qonda
Zibuze umbuzo: Uphumelela ntoni le nto? Uqonde iimotif zakhe. Ufuna ntoni? Kutheni ukutyhala imitya yeemvakalelo? UYAFUNA NANI?
Ukuba indoda ikujonga, emva koko unomdla
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Ukuhamba kobuxoki kukhokelela ekuphulukaneni nobudlelwane
Khange uphendule, wabonisa impendulo embi. Ukrokrelwa ukuba i-EAROSS, i-Interrics, izikhonkwane okanye i-hysteria. Kukho amaxesha amaninzi anokutyhala indoda yakho. Uyakujonga ngemixholo ephambili kuye - ungamxelela ukuba awunawo maxesha okanye umbonise uzuko lwayo. Sukubonisa amacala akho amnyama. Kwaye kungcono, ndibaphelise.
Ngentlola indalo
Akukho sidingo sokuvuma indlela eyityhefu kwinxalenye yayo. Intlonipho kunye neminye imida kubandakanya. Akukho sidingo sokuzibeka kwiNtloko yeNdawo yeNdawo kwaye uziphatha kakuhle. Jonga ukuba i-winnings yakho kulo mzuzu iya kuphendula kubo bonke ubudlelwane bakho. Kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha, ngokubanzi, qikelela isenzo sakho ngokuchanekileyo kule parameter. Iza kuba yintoni na indlela oziphatha ngayo kwindlela echaphazela ngayo umbono wexesha elide kubudlelwane?
Sukudidanisa ucaphukiso ngogonyamelo
Ezi zizinto ezahlukeneyo ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba ukhathazeke ngokwasemzimbeni, uqweng kwaye konke ukubetha ngakumbi, yiza nolwalamano kwangoko. Umntu oye wayivumela yona, ithathela ingqalelo imeko enjalo. Le asiyongozi, sukujonga ukuzithethelela. Kwaye musa ukumamela kuwe ukhuthaza ukuba uyakucaphukisa kwaye ngokwakho kufuneka tyala. Ayizukuphela, sisiqalo esibi kuphela kwesihogo.
Ibhinqa ... malini?
Ngaba unaye ixesha elincinci, iiveki ezimbalwa okanye iinyanga, okanye ngonaphakade? Indoda ephumeleleyo ihlala ingamfuni umfazi wayo. Ulungile, unikelwe ebomini, wafezekiswa. Kutheni eyifuna? Isenokungasoloko iqonda ukuba inkxaso, uthando kunye ne-cressy inokwenzeka. Ngapha koko, ukuba ngaphambi kokuba ifike kuphela kubathengi abazingcayo. Kufuneka umbonise ixabiso lakho, makabone ukuba ungamnika.
Iinoveli zethutyana
Indoda engakhangeli ulwalamano olusisigxina liza kulungiselela ngokuchanekileyo loo nto. AKUKHO BUNOKUKHUSELEKO LOLUMBULELO LOLUNTU, AKUKHO BHLE, kunye neentlanganiso ezifutshane kulo mzekelo ziphezulu. Kwaye kuphela kunye nebhinqa elibhetele kunaye, ufuna ukwakha usapho. Kunye nokuvuselela apha - inqanaba eliqhelekileyo lokuvavanywa kwendima yomfazi wakhe.
Ukulungisa ngempumelelo inqanaba lokuvuselela, kufuneka uqonde indoda.
Kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba ungubani umntu ophumeleleyo owenze, kwaye ufuna ntoni kobu bomi? Kukho izinto ezisisiseko ezisoloko zikho kubantu, kwaye ezisixhenxe:
I-1 tit: Ukuzinikezela. Wazi kakuhle into ayifunayo, kwaye uya kule njongo, engaphazanyiswa kwaye ngaphandle kokutshiza.
2 Iimpawu: Uxanduva. Ishukumisa i-fumato yolawulo eyahlukileyo kwaye inoxanduva ngokupheleleyo ngezenzo zalo.
Iimpawu ezi-3: I-PROPITION. Unendlela eqaqambileyo, eqaqambileyo, enengqondo entle. Ayibethanga i-good engathandekiyo.
Iimpawu ezi-4: Ngononophelo. Nokuba yintoni, izigqibo zakhe azisoze zibhekiswe kuthethwe kubafazi bakhe abasondeleyo, abazali, abantwana.
Umonakalo o-5: isidima. Uyalazi ixabiso lakhe kwaye ayazi ukuba azigcina njani. Uye wakhulisa kakhulu ukuzithemba.
Umonakalo we-6: Ukuzeyisa. Uyayazi indlela yokulawula iimvakalelo zakhe. Uzigcina ezandleni zakhe. Le ndoda ngokwenene ingumzi ngokwawo.
7 Umonakalo: Utshutshiso. Uphila ubomi obumnandi. Igcwaliswe yi-Azart, isibindi. Iimvakalelo zakhe ziqaqambile, zigcwelene kunye nethemba.
Luza kuza ixesha elingakanani ubudlelwane, ubukhulu becala buxhomekeke kwimpendulo yakho
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Uninzi lwe-jensi ethandwayo
Kufuneka sazi amaxesha otyhafileyo sobudlelwane kwaye sikwazi ukuphumelela ngempumelelo naluphi na uvavanyo lwamadoda. Musa ukothuka-Vavanya ngokufanelekileyo iimeko. Kukho iintlobo ezisisiseko zokuvuselela iimfuno ekufuneka uzilungisiwe:
1 UKUQHUTYWA: "Ngaba uyafuna ukunditshata?"
2 UKUQHUTYWA: "Unika ntoni?"
3 Ukucaphuka: "Yeyiphi indawo yokutyela eya kuyo?"
4 Ukucaphuka: "Sasiphi isini esidlulileyo?"
5 Ukucaphukisa: "Ngaba uyabiza ngaphambili?"
6 Ukucaphuka: "Ngubani umntu ofezekileyo?"
Izihloko ezinqatshelweyo
Kukho izihloko ekuqaleni kolwalamano azivumelekanga ukuba zixoxe. Ngophuhliso oluhambelana nobudlelwane, anifanele ukubachukumise, kodwa amadoda esaphula imida yakho, kwaye olu luhlu lwezihloko ezinqatshelwe luvotele phantse kumhla wokuqala ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Ukuba le mibuzo iphakame, oku kuyinkanuko, kwaye awukwazi ukuphendula okufanayo.
1 Umxholo: Malunga nomsebenzi
Ukuba uMnxibelelanisi wakho ubuza ngale nto, ujongene nokwanela kwakho. Ucinga ntoni kolu luntu? Ngaba uyafuna ukuhlala entanyeni yakhe? Imibuzo enjalo iphantse ihlale inamazantsi amabini.
2 Isihloko: Malunga nobudlelwane bangaphambili
Unelungelo lokungaphenduli, ayibotshwa emapoliseni. Akukho mntu unelungelo lokuthobela impumlo yakhe kubuhlobo bakho bobuqu. Ukuba ufuna ukuxelela, ungazibeki kwixhoba, ukubeka iqabane elidlulileyo, ukuba uzivelisile.
3 Isihloko: Malunga nosapho
Indoda iya kulandela indlela ophendula ngayo, ndihlalutya ubudlelwane nabazali, iya kuqonda ukuba ungayilindela ukuba uhlala kunye. Ngaba kukulungele ukuba nguyise wabantwana bakho? Ngaba usapho lwakho lwalusa? Izinto ezifanayo zezobuqu, kwaye zibaluleke kakhulu xa ziyiqonda ukuba ungubani.
4 Isihloko: Malunga nosapho lwexesha elizayo
Indoda ibalulekile ukuba uza kunika umfanekiso opheleleyo wento oyifunayo ebomini bakho. Ukuba umbuzo onjalo ovela kumfazi uvakala ngathi ngumgca oqhubayo "Ndifuna ukutshata!", Ke apha ukudibana kwakho kufuna ukuqonda ukuba uyayiqonda. Ngaba ulindelo lwakho luyangqinelana nokulungela kwakhe?
Isihloko sesi-5: Luhlobo luni lomyeni oyifunayo
Ukuba umntu obhinqileyo akazi ukuba ufuna ntoni, akanayo i-vector yokuhamba. Udala imvakalelo yokuba ukulungele ukubopha ubudlelwane kunye nakokuqala. Kwaye konke kuba akukho ziikhrayitheriya athelekiswa nazo abafaki zicelo.
Isihloko se-6: Imibuzo yefilosofi
Ukuba indoda kunye nawe intanda-bulumko kuphela, ethetha ngoNaphakade, yabona - awuyiyo indawo yomhlobo? Mhlawumbi ungumhlobo nje, kwaye awuboni mfazi. Iincoko zoMphefumlo zilungile xa zichasene nemvelaphi yomtsalane osondeleyo.
Isihloko sesi-7: Imibuzo esondeleyo
Imibuzo ayinakuba yinto engenabungozi, umzekelo, ukoyike ukukhathaza kunye nokungakhathali-malunga nokuthantamisa. Kuya kufuneka ukuba ulungele kwaye ube mhle kwaye unikele ubungqina. Ndicinga ukuba kuphela kwendlela echanekileyo kwimeko ebuqhwanayo.
Isihloko: Imibuzo malunga nemikhwa emibi
Ukuba ubuza ngale nto, uzinze ngokwakho umfanekiso woomama ofanelekileyo, endaweni yomfazi owamkelekileyo. Indoda evavanya iimpazamo kunye neempazamo. Imibuzo inokuba inkanuko ngokupheleleyo: "Usahleli wayila iwayini? .. kwaye uyathanda ukusela?"
Ukuphendula kwi-Prokocations
Kufuneka ihlale izanele. Akufanelanga ukuba ithe ikuxhoma-kufana nokukhalaza ukuba isipuni sibekek 'ukondla. Gcina imida yakho kwaye ungavumeli umntu ngakumbi. Sukumthombo oneemvakalelo, vavanya imeko ngobulumko, ungaphulukanga ulawulo lwayo. Kwaye nangaphezulu ke akufanelekanga ukuba ishukume i-fitus yolawulo kwindawo yangaphandle, komnye umntu. Uxanduva lweemvakalelo zakho kuphela kwakho.
Ungaphuma njani kwiimeko ezinzima?
Akukho sidingo sokukhubekisa kwaye sityhola umntu ngemibuzo enjalo. Uyakujonga, qhubeka unxibelelana. Qonda ukuba awunyanzelekanga ukuba ubaphendule. Unelungelo elipheleleyo. Ungancamathela kwibinzana lakhe - liya kuba yeyona nto ibalulekileyo onokuza nayo. Kodwa kungcono ukujonga kwaye ucinge ngezi meko kwangaphambili kwaye ugcine ii-billets zasekhaya kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zendalo.
I, mna Julia Lansk, ingcali ekukhetheni isibini esifanelekileyo somtshato, ndinqwenela ukuba woyise onke amaxesha omtshato kwaye ufanele ukuphumelela ngaphandle komtshato onothando nowonwabileyo.