Akunakwenzeka ukuba ugcine imozulu efanayo yexesha elide: Umsitho ngamnye ebomini bethu ushiya umkhondo wakhe kwaye unika amava athile esivumela ukuba sitshintshe. Kodwa ungaluqonda njani ukuba utshintsho lukhokelela kwicala elifanelekileyo? Sifunde imiqondiso enomdla yokuba singanikeli ngqalelo, kodwa nangona kunjalo bahlala bethetha ngotshintsho oluqinisekileyo.
Inzala kwizinto eziqhelekileyo iqala ukunyamalala
Ungaya kwiiklasi kwi-yoga ixesha elide, ufunde iilwimi okanye ufumane ibhloko, kodwa inkanuko enjalo ayithethi kwaphela malunga nento yokuba iya kuhlala ingunaphakade, kwaye nangaphezulu azizithembi loo nto ukuba kutheni Inzala kwityala lakho olithandayo liqala ukuphela, kuba unika wonke umphefumlo. Cinga, mhlawumbi, kunjalo, endaweni yakho, le ndawo ikhululwe kwinto entsha, into yokuba ungayifumana, ufumana amava afanelekileyo. Njengomthetho, utshintsho olwenzele umdla uthetha ngokukhula lwangaphakathi, olusoloko luphawu oluhle.
Awusekho
Kwabaninzi abantu, isizungu soyena mntu ubusuku bukhulu, ukanti unokufumana kunye naye kwaye ufumane i-gqali kuyo. Ebutsheni bakhe, isizungu saqokiswa njengababuhlungu kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kodwa kwiminyaka engapheliyo epakini, ukutyelelwa kwiimovie, ukutyelelwa kwiimovie kunye nemiboniso phantse yaqatshelwa. Ekuqaleni, kusenokubonakala ngathi ukunandipha ukungabikho kwabantu ngokujikeleza ngokupheleleyo kwaye kungaphezulu nje kokuphuhliswa kwezentlalo noCooneyebia, kodwa xa siqala ukusiqonda ukuba ndedwa kunye nabo, kwaye le sele inyathelo elikhulu lokutshintsha.
Umdla kwizinto eziqhelekileyo unokuhlala
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Utshisa ngomnqweno wokwenza into entsha
Njengommiselo, kanye kwiminyaka embalwa sifuna ukutshintsha into enkulu, emva koko sive ukuziva singamandla, esenza into abangakhange bacinge kwaye bengakhange bacinge. Ingqungquthela enjalo ihlala ithetha ngotshintsho lwexesha elizayo, kwaye ke ukumiliselwa komnqweno wakho kuya kukhokela, kwaye ke mamela ngokwakho kwaye ungagungqi "ngento oyifunayo.
Uthatha ulawulo lobomi bakho
Inani elikhulu labantu alizithembi kubuchule babo, ukhetha ukutshintsha uxanduva kumagxa abanye abantu. Akukho nto iyamangalisa into yokuba lo mntu uhlala eva ukungoneliseki bubomi bakhe, kuba phantse akayichaphazeli. Kuyenzeka ukusombulula ingxaki kuphela ukweyisela uluvo lolunye uhlobo lomnye umntu kunye nefuthe, ukuba ufumana umnqweno obukhali wokufumana ulawulo lobomi bakho endaweni yokuxhomekeka kwaye ukuba eyona nto iphambili iyodwa.