Malunga nemeko yeemvakalelo yomfazi okhulelweyo uqhuba iintsomi. Ukuba unesalamane okanye intombi esikhundla, uyaqonda ngokugqibeleleyo into esithetha ngayo kunye nokuba kulula kangakanani na umfazi okhulelweyo. Ke ngoko, ukuthintela incoko engathandekiyo nentombi, siya kukuxelela ukuba ngawaphi amabinzana ekufuneka kuthintelwe kwincoko nomntu okhulelweyo.
"Awunakho ukukhathazeka!"
Ndikholelwe, umfazi uyazi ngayo, kwaye isilumkiso sakho asiyi kubangela ezinye iimvakalelo, ngaphandle kokucaphuka kwaye neenyembezi. Phantse lonke ixesha lokukhulelwa, umntu obhinqileyo ukwimeko yokuvuya rhoqo kumntwana oqinisekileyo, ngenxa yoko akufuneki ukuba ube ngumthombo owongezelelweyo woxinzelelo.
Sukubuza imibuzo malunga nokuba kwenzeka njani
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"Usaphumelela!"
Thetha malunga nempilo yokuzala yinto ecekeceke kakhulu, ethi ngokomgaqo ingazami ukuxoxa, ngakumbi ngokuqhelana. Ukongeza, ukuba uyanyanzelisa ukuba uxoxe ngalo mba, ithetha ngawe ngaphandle komntu onobuchule, kwaye ithuba lokuonakalisa ubudlelwane lunyusa izihlandlo ezininzi.
Zama ukungabuzi imibuzo yobuqu.
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"Ayitsali kwiSalinia?"
Eli binzana lisingezela kwanomfazi okhulelweyo. I-stereotype yomfazi ifumana i-marinading theina yangamabanga apheleleyo, yomelele ekwengqondo kwabantu ayisosizukulwana esinye. Ngexesha lokukhulelwa okokuqala, ibinzana elinje, kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha liqala ukucaphukisa. Umngcipheko wokuqhuba kwi-arrass kwinxalenye ye-mammf yexesha elizayo okanye uya kuba uqinile. Yilungiselele.
"Ngaba ukhe wacwangcisa umntwana?"
Umbuzo ngohlobo "usenokuba unokuba nakho", kunye nengqondo. Umfazi ongumgaqo akanyanzelekanga ukuba anike ingxelo yantoni, ngubani, ukuba ucwangcise umntwana ixesha elizayo, kwaye wacwangcisa konke. Awunakuyazi into ekufuneka sidlulisele ngayo isibini, ngaphambi kokuba bakhulelwe impumelelo. Mhlawumbi uza kuphendula ngokuzolileyo, nangona kunjalo, uya kukonakalisa imbonakalo emntwini ngenye imini.
"Ukoyikisa ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana?"
Mhlawumbi owona mbuzo uphambili. Njengoko besitshoyo, umfazi okwisikhundla uphantsi kwempembelelo yeehomoni ezingazinzanga, kwaye umbuzo wakho uyaphakama kuphela kwaye unobundlobongela - kwaye kuthekani ukuba inyani iya kwenzeka! Endaweni yoko, xhasa umama wexesha elizayo, aqinisekise ukuba yonke into izakulunga, kodwa ngcono konke konke akuchaphazeli isihloko senkqubo yenkqubo yokuzala umntwana ngokwayo. Mhle kakhulu kwesi sihloko.
Iimvakalelo ezintle ngakumbi
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