Akukho nto isisigxina kunexeshana - eli binzana lihlekisa, abantu abaninzi abadala bayibiza kwaye bangabi lilize. Luthando lokuqala olupheleleyo, uhlala kwinkumbulo yethu yobomi. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngoku ukhumbule ubudlelwane bokuqala xa yonke into ibisenovelwano: Thatha umfana ngesandla, qanda okanye uthathe isigqibo sesondo. Ewe, ukuba la mava azizisela ulonwabo olunyanisekileyo kunye neenkumbulo ezilungileyo.
Uthando oluguqukayo
Uninzi lwabantu abancinci kunye namantombazana anqwenela iidrama, nangona bengaziboni koku: Bayathanda ukuba bathandane kwaye bahlupheke kuthando olungafanelekanga endaweni yokufumana iqabane lokwenyani. Thetha nomntwana weminyaka yokufikisa malunga nento ebalulekileyo kuye kubudlelwane. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba neentloni, kodwa ukuba usondele, uthi yonke into ngentetho yam. Cacisa ukuba akafanele adlule kwinjongo yomhlobo okanye umhlobo-umntu onothando uthatha iqabane njengoko kunjalo.
Uthando oluguqukayo lunika amaphiko
Ukhuseleko ngaphezulu kwazo zonke
Unokufumana usulelo ngokuncancisa ngokulula. Ukuqonda oku, umntwana uba noxanduva ngakumbi kwaye asondela ngononophelo asondela ekukhetheni iqabane, kwaye akakhuli kwiklabhu yokuqala yekhuselo. Yintoni onokuyithetha malunga nolwalamano olusondeleyo - isini esingakhuselekanga ekuzifuneni okufikisayo kuyingozi ngokukhethekileyo. Ulutsha alunamava awaneleyo kunye nokubakho kokuphatha uxanduva lwezinto ezibonakalayo kwimeko yesifo se-veneological okanye ukukhulelwa kwentombazana. Chaza indlela ekubaluleke ngayo ukusebenzisa iikhondom- kungcono ukuba le nto inyanzelekile kubudlelwane bomntwana wokuqala. Ukuba intombazana esencinci inethamsanqa nomfana onamava, uya kuphepha ukukhohlisa abantu abaphefumlelayo, bangavumi ukuzicengca.
Ukuzithemba
Emncinci, abantwana banomsindo ngokukhethekileyo: Akwanelanga kumlingane oqingqiweyo ukuba athethe intetho malunga nokubonakala komntwana, njengoko eqalisa ukuntywila. Uthando lokuqala lunokukhuthaza inzondo ngokwakho, ihla izithuko ngexesha lengxabano okanye amagama afana "Ufuna phi?" Oku kulutsha kudlala ukungabinamguli-Ukunqongophala kweempikiswano ezinentsingiselo kutshintshwa ngenkalipho. Ukuba uyabona ukuba iqabane lomntwana liyayicinezela, ngobumnene cebisa ukuya kwi-psychotherapist. Abantwana bale mihla bayabona nje ezo seshini, ziqwalasele kubalulekile ukhathalela impilo yengqondo.
Iqabane kufuneka likhulise ukuzithemba kwakho, kwaye ukungalijongela phantsi
Ngendlela, nayiphi na ingxaki kwasekuqaleni kulula ukusombulula ngogqirha wezengqondo ukuba aqhubekeke izifundo zobomi kwaye angavumeli iimpazamo kwixesha elizayo. Okwengaphambili umntwana ufunde ukuzihlaziya, kuya kuba lula ukujamelana neengxaki kwaye ufumane iimvakalelo ezingalunganga.