Umxholo ongumqobo wabazali abaninzi yingxoxo yesihloko esisenyongweni. Abantu abadala kunzima ukufumana indlela yokufikisa umntwana okanye ukufikisa ukuchaza yonke into ethambileyo kwaye ayiyoyiki. Sinikezela ngendlela yendlela efanelekileyo kwimfundo yezesondo.
Sukuthetha ngabo
Ukuthetha nge-anatomy okanye ukuveliswa kwakhona, sukujonga umntwana ngokobuqu. Thetha kubuso besithathu malunga nentombazana okanye inkwenkwe, yiza negama kubo - ke umntwana akasayi kutyibilika kwesi sihloko. Unokuthetha nabantwana beminyaka yokufikisa kwimizekelo yezalamane kunye nabantu oqhelileyo - bangabadala ukuba bagcine iimfihlo kwaye babone amabali ngokufanelekileyo.
Sukuvala amehlo akho emntwaneni
Sukutshintsha izitishi
Ukuba ifilimu ngequbuliso ibonisa imeko ye-sexy, ihlala itshintshela ijelo okanye icele abantwana ukuba bavale amehlo ukuba babukele iteyiphu de kube sekupheleni. Ke umntwana esenza ukuba abazali baqonde ukuba i-sents yesondo ineentloni kwaye rhoqo, oko kuchaphazela indlela awayeziphethe ngayo namaqabane kwixesha elizayo. I-Catherine Maibi [entloko ye-SPH [eyakho, izeNtlalontle, iMfundo yesikolo saseSokisti eLondon, ithi ukuba i-radional ivele kumabonwakude okanye kwi-radio, yisebenzise njengesizathu sencoko.
Sebenzisa "abantu abadala"
Ngokuqinisekileyo ulivile amagama angaqhelekanga amaziko abantu abanje ngabantu abadala. Imfundo kaParalic ayinakwenzeka ngaphandle kweMigaqo ye-anatomical. Xelela umntwana okwishumi elivisayo kunolwakhiwo lwendoda kwaye umfazi wahlukile apho amalungu atolikisa khona. Okwengaphambili umntwana aqhele kwikota, kuya kuba lula ukuthetha neqabane elizayo.
Inkululeko epheleleyo - Ofuna abantwana
Musa ukoyika umzimba
Ngomzekelo we-analogous kumzekelo weTV, uninzi lwabadala bawunelisa umzimba wabo ubomi obuqhelekileyo. Akukho sidingo sokuhamba ngalo lonke ixesha ukuhamba enxibe iimpahla - Ekuhambeni kwekhaya "ukonakala" kwingubo yangaphantsi kwaye unxibe umntwana ngendlela efanayo. Ebhafini, thatha kunye nani, kude kube yiminyaka eyi-4, abantwana abanazintloni ngokupheleleyo izini na kwaye bajonge ngokulinganayo kubantu abadala nokuba phantsi komgangatho. Musa ukuvumela ootatomkhulu notatomkhulu abakhuphele abantwana ukuba bathanda ukuhamba bengenanto - ukusuka kwindalo umzimba ufuna inkululeko yokugcina amaqondo obushushu aqhelekileyo.