Sithetha rhoqo kangakanani nabanye ebomini ukuba singafuni ukubandakanyeka kwinto ethile? Kwenzeka ukuba ithe cwaka umbono wakho malunga nomntu okanye into engakhubekisi abanye.
Umkhwa wokusebenza rhoqo ngokuchaseneyo neminqweno kunye nentusi-turesition ceruted nisernreen ngokuziphatha kwethu. Nangona kunjalo, ephupheni, akukho luvo lungaseluntwini, akukho zithintelo kunye nemithetho yelizwe elinesidima, ke ephupheni esinokuzixela ngokunyaniseka kunobomi bokwenyani.
Ndiyavuma ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu onjalo, nangona kunjalo, "amantombazana amahle" aya kuba nomdla wokufunda imizekelo yamaphupha kunye nohlalutyo lwabo.
Amaphupha aphupha ngephupha elinye.
Iphupha lokuqala:
"Ndizibona kwinkampu ethile okanye kwikhaya leholide nabantu abangabaziyo. Kwaye kufuneka kubekho umzuzu onomdla wentlanganiso endithatha inxaxheba kuyo. Izithambisi ezijikelezileyo zihlikiwe kwaye zithi ziya kuphola kakhulu. Ndiziva ndoyikisa ngalo mzuzu, ndisoyikisa. Ndixelela wonke umntu ukuba ndiyala ukuthabatha inxaxheba kule, njengoko ndisazi oku kuncinci ngabantu abakhoyo, ndiziva ndingakhuselekanga kwaye ndingabathembi. Emva koko, ndivuka kwangoko kwaye ndikwimeko ecacileyo, ngokungathi ndiphume kwi-hypnosis okanye bendiyinyibilikile ", okanye ndakhululwa kwinto."
Unyana wesibini:
"Ndihamba emarikeni kwaye ndifuna ukuthenga iitapile. Khetha umntu oza kuthenga aze abuze umfazi womthengisi ngaphambi kokuba ndiqhube iitapile, ndimbonise. Uyakholelwa ukuba iitapile zilungile, kwaye andiyikholelwa. Unika isitshixo, kwaye ndiqala ukucoca iitapile. Okokuqala, amabala aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, kwaye xa ndicoca iitapile nangakumbi, ke ngaphakathi kubonakele. Ndibonisa lo mthengisi weetapile kwaye umxelele ukuba nditshilo ukuba iitapile zimbi. "
Zombini ezo zilala zihambelana nesihloko esiqhelekileyo-singathembani abanye.
Kwaye ukuba kubomi obuqhelekileyo, abaninzi banokusindisa kwaye bengakhange baveze iialamu zabo, emva koko ngephupha iqhawe livakala ekuhleni kwaye ngokucacileyo luvakalisa ngokucacileyo. Kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba amaphupha ahlala abonisa imeko yokwenyani.
Ngokufanelekileyo, inokuthathwa ukuba kwelinye iqela labantu, amaphupha awenza uluvo lwaKhe athandane nabo kunye nenyani yokuba wonke umntu onwabile ngento eyenzekayo.
Ephupheni, intombazana ilawula ukuba iveze ngokwendalo, efana nokususwa kwesipelingi. Kweli meko yokucaca, apho iqhawe livukile, kuya kuba yimfuneko ukuseta iinjongo ezintsha phambi kwakho, thatha izinto ezazinokukhokelela ngokuthe ngqo ekuphunyezweni kwephupha. Kunokwenzeka ukuba yonke into ethatyathwe ngalo mhla iya kwenziwa lula, kuba bekungafuneki ukuba ucinge ngendlela ekhange ngayo emehlweni abanye. Akukho sidingo sokubonakala silungile kwaye sichanekile, sivumelane nomntu wonke - kubalulekile ukuba wenze nje.
Kodwa yintoni enomdla ngakumbi - kukho umfanekiso obhinqileyo kwiphupha lesibini, amagama abo angamagama akholwa.
Ihlala iguqukela kumbhali wamaphupha- ngubani lo mfazi?
Kuyenzeka ukuba unxibelelwano malunga "neetapile ezibolileyo" lwenzeka kubomi be-heroine.
Unokucebisa kuphela ukuba uhlalutye, impikiswano yakhe ayithabathela ngaphandle kokuzivavanya.
Ukuba kubomi obuqhelekileyo, ayiyi kuba yintombazana "elungileyo" kwaye iya kuzivumela ukuba zinde, jonga, thetha ngeminqweno kunye nokuthandabuza, kuya kuba lula ukwenza lula ukuzivocavoca.
Kwaye yintoni ephuphayo?
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UMaria Zngqoskova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wonyango kunye noqeqesho lokukhula komntu kwiZiko lokuRhweba uMarika Hazin.