Omnye umzekelo onomdla wephupha undithumelele namhlanje. Sele sithethe nawe kumaphepha ale kholamu malunga nokuphindaphinda amaphupha. Namhlanje siza kuhlalutya ngomzekelo welinye lala maphupha kwaye lincede iphupha layo ukuba liqonde ngokwakho.
Kodwa kuqala khumbula iimfihlakalo zoqobo ngohlalutyo lokulala, ophupha kanye ngelinye ixesha. Amaphupha anjalo aya kubonisa isihloko esithile kubomi bephupha, elifanelekile. Kuba iphupha limema esi sihloko okanye sivumele lo mbuzo.
Lala:
"Phantse ngenyanga ngeempelaveki (ukusuka ngoLwesihlanu ngoMgqibelo okanye ukusukela ngoMgqibelo ukuya ngeCawa), ndiphupha lomntu omnye, i-therdis yomzi ongaqhelekanga, umthambeka ogqunywe ludaka. Ushiywe apha ngezantsi, ndiphelelwe lixesha, okanye ngokuchaseneyo. Ngokucacileyo ufuna ukuthetha nam, ndizama ukuya kum okanye unditsalele kuye, kodwa bobabini bayaqonda ukuba umfazi wakhe ufanele adlule kule ndlela kungekudala, kwaye ngoku kuvela kude. Ndiyoyika, woyika yena. Kodwa ndivuka ndinemvakalelo efudumeleyo neyonwabisayo. Kwangelo xesha, incoko yam kunye nobomi bakhe bokwenyani akunakwenzeka. Njani kwaye kutheni le nto iphindisa? "
Yimfesane yokuba iphupha 'lakhe lalixambule. Ukususela kwisicatshulwa, isimelabizo sibhalwe ngoonobumba abakhulu, umngcipheko wokucinga ukuba umntu akanamsebenzi, kwaye isimo sengqondo salo mfanekiso sixabisekile, sixabisekile. Ndicinga ukuba inyani yokuba umntu othile usentabeni, kwaye umntu osezantsi usezantsi kuthetha ukungakwazi nje ukungakwazi ukunxibelelana nobomi bokwenyani. Ithambeka elimdaka lithetha ukuba le nto inokwenzeka ukuba lo uqhakamshelwano ebomini 'luthi "into ethile," uliba ".
Ngoku yeyona nto inomdla: ubudlelwane onokufumana umfazi walo mntu, oya kufihlwa.
Mhlawumbi iphupha lamaphupha ephupheni eliqaqambileyo lokunyanzelwa ukuba afihle komnye umntu, kude kuye, umxholo wenkanuko, isihloko sothando okanye isihloko sothando okanye isihloko sothando okanye isihloko sothando okanye isihloko sothando okanye isihloko sothando. Ukulala kwakhe kudlala lo mdlalo phambi komhla wakhe xa kunzima ukuphazamisa umsebenzi wabo okanye ukutshintshela kwinkqubo yangaphakathi.
Ngoku buza i-heroine yethu (ndiyathemba ukuba uyayifunda eli nqaku) Imicimbi engekho namnye, ngaphandle kwakhe, iphendulile ngokuchanekileyo:
- Yeyiphi iminxibelelanisi ebangela iphupha?
- Sisiphi isiqendu sokulala kwamava aqinileyo? Inxulunyaniswa nantoni?
-Uziva njani malunga nezithintelo nezithintelo?
- Wenza ntoni ngokuncamathisela okanye ukuthanda?
- Zeziphi iimpawu ligorha lokulala kwakho? Ngaba unazo?
Khawufane ucinge ukuba awuzukuvuka, kodwa wabona iphupha ngaphezulu. Ziza kwenzeka njani iziganeko?
-Ukuba uyazi ukuba yayiliphupha nje, kwaye ephupheni yonke into enokuthi, ungaziphathe njani?
Ukuphendula le mibuzo, iphupha liya kuba nakho ukubona indlela esi sifundo sithwala ngayo eli phupha.
Ngokwenza oko, ndingatsho ukuba kukho inani leengcali ze-hypnotherapists okwakholelwa ukuba umphefumlo wethu uyaphiliswa, uphila ikamva elininzi elininzi kunye nokuhenda kwizifundo zobomi ezahlukeneyo. Ngapha koko, kukho imiphefumlo esondeleyo kubo, esondelelene kubomi obungena ebomini ecaleni komnye nomnye, edlula ecaleni kwezifundo zentlungu okanye uthando. Ezinye zezonyango zibonisa ukuba amaphupha yimemori eyinxalenye yomphefumlo malunga neemvavanyo ezidlulileyo kunye nezicaka. Mhlawumbi kobu bomi, ukulala buxela malunga nento esele iphakathi kwezi miphefumlo. Ukuvalwa kokuvalelwa okukhoyo kwaye ulele njengesifundo sokufunda. Kodwa makhe athi umbhali onyanisekileyo wobo bunje. Ukuba le ndawo ibonakala isondele, unokufunda inani lemisebenzi ye-Michael Newton malunga nohambo lomphefumlo.
Ukuba umbono ubonakala uhlekisa ngokupheleleyo, emva koko iimpendulo kwimibuzo ngomhlathana apha ngasentla zilungele ukugqiba isimboli yokulala. Umnqweno omhle!
Ndiyazibuza ukuba uphupha ntoni? Thumela amaphupha akho kunye nemibuzo nge-imeyile [email protected].
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin