Ngamanye amaxesha ephupheni sibona umntu angenalo unxibelelwano lwenyani. Ayisihlobo, hayi umhlobo, ingekwanalo na umntu obalulekileyo kwaye obalulekileyo.
Kumaphupha kukho imifanekiso yexesha elide, ebuntwaneni, ulutsha.
Amaxesha obomi obunemvakalelo anganxulumana nabo ngaxesha lithile, kodwa, ngaphezulu kweminyaka yobudala, kodwa ngaphezulu kweminyaka, oko akuthethi nto kuthi.
Nangona kunjalo, ukulala ngoncedo lwale mifanekiso kusikhokelela kubunzulu obutsha bokuziqonda kwaye kwenzeka ebomini beziganeko.
Masiphendukele kwenye yabafundi:
"Ngequbuliso ndaphupha ngothando lwam lokuqala, indoda. Uye weza kuthi (kum nosapho lwam) ekhaya ndidiniwe. Inene kwi-jean, izihlangu zawa phezu kwebhedi. Ndimi ngokudideka. Uxolo, ndifuna ukunceda ... Ndicinga ukuba: "Uya kusabela njani ukuba yena ngequbuliso ubona ngequbuliso?". Akukho nto ifanekiselwa ephupheni lomntu olityelweyo. Sidibene xa ndandikwisikolo, ndigqibile ukubona kwiminyaka eyi-8 eyadlulayo. Ukunxulumana okokuqala ngomfanekiso wale ndoda - ulutsha, uthando, ukungabi natyala. "
Ekuqaleni ukuqaleka - ukulala kulula kwaye kuyaqondakala. Kukho iqhawe, kukho uthando lwalo lwangaphambili, kwaye kukho into engalunganga kuye.
Kodwa masizame ukugqiba ukulala ngale ndlela: endaweni yezalathiso kwindoda ethile, siya kufaka ezo zinxuluthulo apho kuxelwe khona i-dodddit.
Ndiphuphe uthando lwam lokuqala - ubutsha, ubumsulwa. Uye weza kum nosapho lwam kwiNdlu. Udiniwe wawa phezu kwebhedi. Ndimi ngokudideka. Ubutsha bobutsha, uthando kunye nokubangenatyala. Ndifuna ukumnceda. Ndiyacinga: Uza kuthini umyeni xa eyibona? "
Ke umfanekiso wobuthongo wahluke ngokupheleleyo. Ngokungathi i-uTloini ibona abantwana bakhe, i-naive, eluthandweni kunye nokuthembana nomphefumlo suble engeyiyo eyona milo ibalaseleyo. Udiniwe, udiniwe. Kwaye akufanelekanga ukuba umyeni wam.
Eli cala yimfesane, kubalulekile ukunceda. Kwaye ufuna ukuphumla.
Mhlawumbi i-heroine yethu ifanele inikele ingqalelo ixesha elingakanani uphuphe ngayo, iphinde ithandeke? Kukangaphi ivumela ukuba bangabi nakhohlakeleyo, abanamava, buthathaka?
Ngokwesiqhelo abantu abalawula izinto zabo zokugweba kwaye bobutsha babonakala bediniwe. Mhlawumbi i-heroine yethu yayinexesha lokukhulula i-Samokontrol.
Ndicebisa ukuba, abafundi abathandekayo, benza uvavanyo olufanayo ngokulala kwakho. Kuyimfuneko ukwenza le nto:
1. Bhala iphupha lakho.
2. Bhala imifanekiso ekuyolweni kunye nokudibana nale ndlela. Eyona nto ichanekileyo kukubhala into yokuqala eza engqondweni, ngaphandle kokubelwa.
3. Phinda ubhale ubuthongo bakho, ukufaka ubudlelwane obunxulumene nabo endaweni yabantu.
4. Ukuba une-insicia kwaye uvule emva kwale nkqubo - babhale phantsi.
Ndiyakumema ukuba wabelane ngezi zinto zifunyenweyo kumaphepha ekholamu.
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Ndiza kubona kungekudala!
UMaria Zngqoskova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wonyango kunye noqeqesho lokukhula komntu kwiZiko lokuRhweba uMarika Hazin.