Ngaphandle kwazo zonke iincoko kunye nezilumkiso zabantwana, ngokweenkcukacha-manani, wonke umntu wesine ulungele ukuhamba nomntu ongamaziyo. Kwaye oku akuyomfuneko kuhlaseli: Rhoqo abantu bafuna ukunceda umntwana olahlekileyo, ngaloo ndlela esenza kube nzima ukukhangela. Siza kukuxelela ukuba manyathelo mani azokuthatha kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zesixeko, ukuba udibene nomntwana odidekileyo.
Sukuthatha umntwana ekhaya
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Indawo yokuthenga
Ngamanye amaxesha uMama noTata bayayithanda indlela abangayiboni ngayo umntwana elahlekelwa njani kwisihlwele esikhulu. Ukuba ubona umntwana okuthelekisayo, kuyo yonke imiqondiso eshiye izaphulelo zentshukumo zabazali, kufuneka wenze oku kulandelayo:
-Ya kumntwana kwaye ubuze okwenzekileyo.
-Funda igama lakhe.
Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, sukuya naphi na nomntwana. Kungcono ukuya kulinda kwaye unike ingxelo yelahleko encinci. Njengommiselo, kwiimeko ezinjalo yenza intengiso kwifowuni yesithethi.
Udibene nomntwana onesithukuthezi esitratweni
Njengakwimeko yokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuba sisondele kwaye ufumane iimeko. Kucetyiswa ukuba ukuthwala umntwana, kodwa ukuba ipholile esitratweni, yiya kwivenkile ekufuphi. Khumbula ukuba ukhetha umntwana wakho ekhaya akwanelanga ukuba ukukhangela, kodwa unokuba ngumrhanelwa.
Nokuba inokwenzeka na ukuba inokwenzeka into yokuba ufunde ulwazi oluvela emntwaneni okanye hayi, biza amapolisa kwaye ulinde ukufika kwakhe kunye nomntwana, uqinisekisa ukuba akazukuya naphi na.
Fumana okwenzekileyo
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Kwibhanti yehlathi
Imeko eqhelekileyo, ngakumbi ehlotyeni: Bazali banelisekile ziipikniki, kwaye abantwana bafunda indalo, baqhubeka nokushiya abantu abadala. Mhlawumbi eyona meko inzima, kuba unxibelelwano olusezantsi lunokungabikho okwangoku.
Fumanisa ukuba umntwana uwedwa wedwa ehlathini - ukuba akukho yure enye kwaye akanakutsho apho abazali kufuneka barhoxile kwindawo eninzi kwaye banike uncedo lokuqala ukuba kukho imfuneko. Ngokubhekele phaya, njengoko sele uqondakale, kufuneka ubangele ukuphuma kwamapolisa.
Lindela ukufika kwamapolisa
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Umzali ngamnye kufanelekile ukuchitha iiyure ezimbalwa, kodwa ukucacisela umntwana ofuna ukuphathwa ngoncedo ngexesha likaxakeka: kubasebenzi, okanye omnye umbutho, apho umntwana wayeyedwa.