-Alena, yintoni entsha upheka abalandeli bakho xa ungava?
-Ndilungiselela inkqubo yentsusa. Andifuni ukuchaza onke amakhadi, kodwa iya kuba ngumxholo omtsha kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba abaphulaphuli abayilindeleyo kum. Umfanekiso wam uza kutshintsha ngokupheleleyo.
Ubuncinci icebiso liza kutshintsha. Iinwele zemibala emnyama?
-Ndingayipeyinta iinwele zakho emnyama ngovavanyo, kodwa, kuqala, ayiyi kum, kwaye okwesibini, enyanisweni, ivela engqondweni. Sele ndishiye zonke iimvavanyo ngaphambili, umfanekiso kufuneka utshintshe ngaphakathi.
-Ndivuma ukuba awudingi ukutshintsha ngaphandle. Uhlala ujonga isitayile, kwaye ndabona ukuba abanesitayile bahlala bekudumisa. Ijongeka ikrokrela. Ngaba ubabambisa ngandlel'kweni, "thethathetha nabo?
"Andazi ukuba kutheni ndindidumisa, mhlawumbi andiziphosi iimpazamo ezicacileyo, ngokungafaniyo nabanye, andinxibi endingahambi." Andifuni ukucela ukuncoma, kodwa imvakalelo yokuba mnandi ivele kum, kwaye andinanto yokukrola. Ndiyakwazi ukukhohlisa kuphela. (Uhleka.)
- kwaye iminyaka emingaphi ilawula ukuhlala kwifom yomzimba efanelekileyo. Ngaba kukho ukutya okukhethekileyo?
-Andingenalo ukutya okhethekileyo, kodwa ndenza imidlalo emininzi. Ndinomqeqeshi oqeqeshiweyo kunye nenkqubo eyakhiweyo eyandinceda kakhulu, ndizizisela imilo. Kwaye ndandinethamsanqa-andizithandi iilekese konke konke, kulungile, ngamanye amaxesha nditya itshokholethi.
Uyilo lusanceda, isusa lonke uxinzelelo, inika imvakalelo rhoqo yovuyo.
"Ndiza kwenza ukuba abaphulaphuli abalindelanga kum." .
-Ukuba kwimeko elungileyo- ngaba yimfuneko eyimfuneko ukuze ujongeke ulungile? Ngaba uyathanda ukonwaba, uzobe?
-Ndiyayithanda iholide, apho umthendeleko oqhelane nomdaniso, andikwazi kuma, xa wonke umntu ehleli etafileni, kwaye akukho mntu ubungayi kuphakamisa nabani na.
Kwaye malunga nomzobo - zonke iimvakalelo zokuhlekisa zahlukile, umntu othile unika ulonwabo kwaye uvuyo lobubi, kodwa andiyixhasi ngeziganeko ezinjalo. Ndiyakuthanda ukonwaba, ndiyakuthanda ukuba kwimeko entle, ndiyakuthanda ukuhlekisa, ndihleke, ukuba oku akukhubeki mntu.
Ngelishwa, akaze adlale nabani na - ayisebenzi. Kunzima ukuza nemizobo ukuze yayiyinto ehlekisayo, inobugqwetha, ayikhubekisiyo kwaye ayiyonakalisa ubomi.
Ndikhumbula, ebuntwaneni, mna nomzalwana wam wandibeka phantsi kwamaqhekeza aphantsi kwephepha lakhe, ndawa phezu kwabo, nditsho. Benzekala, kwaye wahleka kumnandi. Ke, nangona kunjalo, ndifumana iikhonkwane kum.
- Kutheni ungaziphindeli? Ngaba uhlala i-villine?
-Uyazi, kuyabiza kakhulu. Andikhululekanga ngokuqinisekileyo komnye umntu ongendawo, owophula umthetho. Ndizama ukuhlala ndihleka, kwaye yonke into ilibalekile.
- Le yingcebiso yobulumko kakhulu. Ngaba uhlala ubuza imibuzo eyahlukeneyo onomdla kakhulu ekuphenduleni, kwaye yeyiphi iresiphi yolonwabo loSapho? Ungawuphendula lo mbuzo?
-Ukuba ubuza izimvo zam-andazi iindlela zokupheka. Ngamanye amaxesha uya konwaba ngamanye amaxesha, ngamanye amaxesha angonwabanga. Iingcinga zixelelwa ukuba iZiko loKutsha loMtshato lingenakwenzeka, kuthi ke, ndinamabango amakhulu omtshato. Kubonakala kum ukuba kukho into ekufuneka itshintshwe kweli ziko. Kodwa kwintembelo enye-indoda nomfazi bamele bave elowo, baqonde, kwaye ekuqaleni kobomi obuhlanganisiweyo ukusombulula imicimbi yezomthetho kunye nezemali, ukuya kwisivumelwano somtshato. Zingazihoyi ezi zinto zisisidenge, ukubhala yonke into yothando. Ngaphandle koko uthando luphela, lonke ubuthongo bobuntu bubonakalisiwe buzuko lwayo, kanye kwabo bashiyekileyo, kwaye kungekho mntu ungafuneki wabantwana, nangona, yonke into ibilungile.
Kuba le ncoko yabakho ngabantu abashiyiweyo, basixelele indlela osebenza ngayo neenkedama ngexesha lomnyhadala woMthendeleko waseRussia. Ufundisa ntoni kwiiklasi zakho zenkosi kwaye kuthekani ukuba ayingabo bonke abantwana abanesiphiwo?
Ngexesha lodidi lwenkosi, ndibonisa indlela onokuthi uyibize ngayo ubuchule, ungaze ube netyala lomculo olupheleleyo. Ndinamava ohlanganisiweyo, ndifundise iminyaka esixhenxe kwisikolo somculo, ndiyazi ukuba akukho mfuneko yokuba ube ne-rumor ukuze udlale, umzekelo, kwi-com.
Ukuba akukho nto ithethwayo, kuya kubakho imvakalelo yesingqisho ukuba umntwana akakwazi ukucula, angadlala izixhobo ezilula zomculo, aqambe umculo okanye izicatshulwa. Ukuyila kunokuqala ngenyathelo elincinci, kwaye ndifuna ukubonisa ukuba asingabo oothixo. Konke oku kuyafumaneka, eyona nto iphambili kukuba woyike.
Kule minyaka mihlanu idlulileyo bendisebenzisana nolu hlaselo lukhathazayo, ndinika ingcebiso, ndifundisa yonke imithambo, kum ilula kakhulu xa ndibona ukuba bathanda kangakanani abantwana Uninama kwaye ucule, ukuba bazama njani inkosi yabo isixhobo. Ngendlela, ndifuna ukuthi ngakumbi umntu okungenani abe ndizidlala kwizixhobo ezahlukeneyo zomculo, obe mnyama kakhulu ubuchopho bakhe. Kwaye abantwana abaziinkedanti abaya kufuneka baphile kweli lizwe, oh kuya kufuneka njani ukusebenza ngamalungisa.
Ke ndiyathemba ukuba imizamo yam ayiyi kutshabalalisa ...
Andinxibanga into endingayiyo. " Ifoto: Lilia Sharlovskaya.
- Ngaphandle koko, yintoni abantwana abanokuncedwa ngabantwana?
Uyazi, bendisoloko ndikho kwaye ndiza kuqiniseka ukuba umculo awukhuthaze into entle, kodwa iyakwazi ukuthuthuzela amaxesha obunzima. Iyakhusela, inceda ekubuyekezeni ukungathandeki kwabantu abasondeleyo, ngakumbi oku kubalulekile kulutsha. Kwiminyaka yabo, kunzima kakhulu ukuyiqonda intshukumo yomphefumlo, kwaye umculo uhlala usongela isangqa esisindisayo. Ndiyazi ukuba sele ungene kule ndlela, uyakuqonda kwangoko ukuba awuwedwa, sisigidi sivela kufutshane nawe othanda kwaye uyawuqonda umculo.
-Kupholiseka kakhulu ukuba imvumi edumileyo injengeAlena Svidova, onazo ubomi bonke ebomini kwaye ayiphumeleli, ayizisoli ngexesha lakhe kwimicimbi enjalo.
-Ndikhe ndakufika kuncwadi lwesiNgesi, ndandinomdla wokufunda ababhali-mbali abadumileyo kwaye ndaqonda ukuba eyona nto iphambili kule misebenzi yityala. Abantu benza indawo yokuhlala kwilizwe labo, phambi koluntu. Ngesizathu esithile, bambalwa abanoncwadi lwaseRussia. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba namhlanje igama elithi "amatyala" kufuneka akhulele kwinqanaba elitsha. Sinonyana womsebenzi, ityala labazali, likho ityala lomtshato. Kodwa kusenzeka amatyala aphambili, kubonakala kum ukuba kufanele ukuba kubekho ngaphambi koluntu. Kwaye umntu ngamnye kufuneka angenele ibinzana lakhe "kwityala eluntwini" kwishedyuli. Kwaye, ukuya kuthi ga ngokusemandleni akhe, ukuba bawenze. Ndibongoza wonke umntu kule nto.