Ngaba uqhelene nesigidi esisigidi esihlala kwelinye ilizwe? Kwiminyaka ye-Intanethi, kunokwenzeka kwaye ungafani! Nangona kunjalo, lowo wazinikelayo ukuba abe ngumthengisi ophumeleleyo, enyanisweni usenokuba ngumthwalo, ohlala noMama. Yeyiphi enye into ethi, "Ethulekileyo" ilele kuwe kwiindawo zokuthandana, kwaye njani ukubaphepha?
1. Yihla uthando kunye notshatileyo
Unomtsalane, smart, otywina, ochithe ... kwilizwi, indoda yamaphupha! Wathandana naye kwimbalelwano kwaye ekugqibeleni waphulukana nentloko yakho kwintlanganiso yakho. Kubonakala ngathi udalwe omnye komnye ukuba ubungekho kwenye "kodwa" - isitampu kwipasipoti, awayekhathazekile ngayo. Ngokwe-classics yohlobo, unokukuqala ukuba uvile ukuba akamchasanga nenkosikazi yakhe ixesha elide, kodwa ngaba ulungele ukubambelela kwi-Mission ixesha lexesha elingenammiselo?
Indlela yokhuseleko
Sukuthandana nomntu ongomnye umtshato uya kuhlala uyimfihlo. Ukuba imeko yayo ayichazwanga kwiphepha lemibuzo; Chaza, ngayiphi injongo awabhaliswayo kwindawo, uhlobo olunjani lolwalamano olujongileyo. Ukuba ngesizathu esithile sifihlele imeko yakhe okanye sikhohlise nje, nikela ingqalelo kweliphi ixesha oya kwividiyo kwaye xa enika imihla. Amadoda osapho ahlala ehleli ngempelaveki kunye nokuhlwa, kwaye akanakwenzeka ukuba akwazi ukuchitha ubusuku bonke kunye nawe okanye ameme ekhayeni lakhe - endaweni yoko, uya kurhoxisa igumbi lehotele.
2. Ngena kwinethiwekhi ye-casanov
Hayi, akatshatanga. Kwaye ungahambi! Kwaye ngokubanzi, njengawe, une-intanethi epheleleyo. Nangona kunjalo, uya kukuqinisekisa ngokuchaseneyo. Uya kukuxelela ukuba uyinto kuphela, kwelona likhulu, kwaye malunga nokuba wayephupha ngalo lonke ixesha lobomi bakhe. Mhlawumbi kunjalo, luthando nje, njengasemfazweni, zonke iindlela zilungile. Kwaye eyona nto iphambili apha ayisiyogama, kodwa kunjalo. Ngaba ukhe wachitha ubusuku obunqabileyo kunye, emva koko wanyamalala ngexesha elingenammiselo ukuya ngequbuliso livele ngenqwelomoya yeentyatyambo kunye nezincomo? Isilumkiso: Kukho umngcipheko wokuba buya kunyamalala kwakhona, kukushiya ngentliziyo eyaphukileyo okanye i-tummy ekhulayo!
Ukhuseleko:
Indoda ejolise kubudlelwane ngaphandle kokuzibophelela, ayizami ukwazi ngcono kunawe. Ukhetha ukungachithi ixesha kwimbalelwano ende, kwaye endaweni yoko ifuna ukukubona ngokukhawuleza. Kwangelo xesha, wanyula intlanganiso kwiindawo apho kunokwenzeka ukuba ubeke ngokukhawuleza nangohlobo lomzimba wendalo unxibelelwano: umzekelo, kwi-rink yasebusuku okanye kwi-rink. Indoda ephumeleleyo kwaye ilungiselele kakhulu, ngokuchaseneyo, ayizukuzikhulisa kakhulu. Uya kuzabalazela ukwazi ukuba ngcono, uya kuba nemibuzo emininzi - kuba engafuni ngesondo ngobusuku obunye, kodwa umfazi obomi.
3. Hlala ngaphandle kwe-wallet
Kwifoto - indoda eqinileyo nethandekayo kwisuti emnyama eluhlaza emnyama, isela kakhulu i-martini kwi-veranda yeVilla. Ubhalele, kwaye nentliziyo yakho iphela: "Ngaba yeyona nkosana ndiyilangazelelo ixesha elide?" Kodwa ukungangqinelani kwemali akunancedo layo eliphambili. Unokubonakala eyindoda efezekileyo ekuqondeni kuwe ukusuka kwisiqingatha somkhalo. Ukukhathaza ukhathalelo kunye nokuthantamisa, ukuqikelela iminqweno yakho. Mhlawumbi mncinci kunawe, ngaphezu koko, ayibalulekanga, kodwa ayikukhathazi, kuba sele ekholosile ukuba akakaze anomdla wokukhwela, odinisa nabo. Ingekuko oko, mfazi, kunye nehlabathi eliphakathi elinjalo. Hayi ngaphakathi kuphela! UTHANDO ngeendlebe zakho xa ukhethwe ngequbuliso ekunibize ngequbuliso kwaye, ndichulumancile, nditsho ndinengxaki, uyayifuna ngokukhawuleza imali, kwaye kuphela onokusigcina. Ewe kunjalo, ngaphandle kokucinga, yenza iguqule isixa esijikelezileyo kwiakhawunti echaziweyo, kwaye ungafumani ndawo yakho xa usiva ukuphendula kwiifowuni zakho: "Umbhalisi akafumaneki." Sukuba nexhala: Kunokwenzeka ukuba, kulungelelwano olugqibeleleyo. Qiniseka ukuba ngokwakho, emva kwethutyana ndisiya kwindawo enye apho wahlangana khona.
Ukhuseleko:
Nika ingqalelo ukuba le ndoda inexhala kakhulu malunga nokuma kwakho kwemali. Unokucela iinkcukacha ukuba uhlala apho uhlala khona, indlela yokuhamba, ivenkile onxiba, apho usebenza phi kwaye ufumana phi? Indoda enesidima nephumeleleyo ayinakufane ukuba nomdla kwingeniso yakho, nangayiphi na imeko, ngelixa ubudlelwane bakho abunakuya kudidi lwezinto ezinzulu. Kwangelo xesha, unokufihla umvuzo wabo, kuba esoyika ukuba abafazi baya kutsala imali yakhe, hayi yena ngokwakhe. Iiprofayili zamadoda azizityebi zihlala zimangalisa, aziqhayisi ngeemoto nezindlu. Ngaphezu koko, kuya kufuneka walumkise ukuba ngequbuliso umntu ukumema kwindawo yokutyela kwaye ulibele "i-wallet. Lumka! Kwaye ungaze uvule i-wallet kwaye ungayibizi mntu, musa ukwenza uguqulo naphi na kwikhadi lakho lebhanki.
4. Galela kwi-maniacy ye-sexy okanye yabakhenkethi yesondo.
Ayengaziwa ukuba kubi kakhulu - ukuhlala ngaphandle kwe-wallet okanye ukufumanisa ukuba eyona nto iguqukayo ifihliwe i-avatar elungileyo nekati entle. Ngelishwa, oku kunokwenzeka. Ukuba kubomi bokwenyani, abafazi bahlala beqhelana namadoda ngabahlobo okanye izalamane, emva koko kwihlabathi elibonakalayo esinokujamelana namahashe amnyama azama ukuzama kakhulu.
Indlela yokhuseleko
Okokuqala, kuyacaca-hamba ngomhla nomntu ongamaziyo, hlula ikhonkco kwiprofayile yakhe kunye nefowuni nomntu omthembayo: umhlobo, dade, osebenza naye. Musa ukuvumelani nentlanganiso kwiindawo ezihlwempuzekileyo, ungahlali emotweni umntu owabona okokuqala, sebenzisa iteksi.
Ngokwahlukileyo, kufanelekile ukuthetha ngemeko yokuba wafumanisa ukuba le ndoda umelwe kukuba unxibelelane naye kwi-Intanethi kwaye udibene namaxesha amaninzi, ngequbuliso uthumela iifoto ezisondeleyo. "Maniac!", - Sitsho mfazi ofanelekileyo. Kwaye wenze iimpazamo. Ukuba sele uqhelekile ukuba ngumhla wokuqala, unokukwenza omnye komnye, kwaye sele uyiqonda kakuhle into yokuba ngale ndoda ilungile, ke inokwenzeka ukuba ikhukulise ngale ndlela. Okokuqala, icebiso elingagungqi ngokupheleleyo kangangokuba akangakhathali ukuba akwazi ukufutshane. Okwesibini, le ndoda imangalisa indlela ophendula ngayo - inokuqwalaselwa, olu luhlobo lovavanyo. Akukho tyala alinakukhubeka, lisithuka "isidima", kodwa nokubonisa ukuba uyakonwatyiswa. Eyona nto intle yenzelwe kule meko kukuseka imida kwaye ubonise uburharha. Ukuthumela ifoto yase-booting, indoda ikumema ukuba "uyadlala". Ukuba wenza yonke into elungileyo, lo mdlalo unokuchulumancisa kwaye kukunceda ukuba ninye ngcono ngakumbi.
5. Iphoxekile
Kudala ubhale kwakhona, udityanisiwe kwaye ekugqibeleni wadibana. Uqinisekile ukuba uyafana, kodwa xa bajongana naye ubuso ngobuso, iipemepe zisasazeke. Uyaqonda ukuba awuyithandi imithambo yakhe, i-gait, ivumba, uziphatha kakuhle okanye, ngokuchasene noko, kuhle kakhulu. Ngokubanzi, oku ayilulo ukhetho lwakho. Udanile ngokunzulu, uziva ungcungcutheka ngexesha elichithwe, kwaye ngokubanzi lungathandekiyo - inxalenye enethemba kunye nethemba.
Indlela yokhuseleko
Funda "ngokufunda" indoda ngeprofayile kwaye uqiniseke ukuba kufanelekile oko. Ukuba, umzekelo, uhlala eMoscow, kwaye uyithandile indoda kwilali yaseSwitzerland, cinga: Ngaba ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufuna ukufudukela kuyo? Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, esi sisingqisho esahlukileyo sobomi, enye inkcubeko kunye neenqobo ezisemgangathweni. Ukuba kwiprofayili oyibonayo ifoto apho indoda kwi-ski iswit isukelwe ngovuyo kwimvelaphi ye-ALPS, ivuma ngokunyaniseka: uyoyika ukuphakama, kwaye akunakwabelana ngenkanuko yakhe. Nikela ingqalelo kubudala (uqinisekile ukuba uya kukhululeka kwindoda enkulu kunawe kangangeminyaka engama-30?), Wayetshatile ukuba wayenokwabelana nomntu (uya kuba nako ukusabelana nomntu ( Nokuba iyahambelana nezicelo zakho?). Funda phakathi kwemigca: Indlela achaza ngayo amanye amabinzana, ikhethiwe okanye i-laconic. Ukuba kubalulekile kuwe ukuba i-satellite yakho ingumntu onomdla kwi-torlocutor, ubuchule obuthathaka, onokuthi uxoxe ngaye incwadi ye-Nobel uLauretes, ungakhohlisi. Akunakulindeleka ukuba wonwabe ngokuthi cwaka, nangona iphumelele umdlali, umdlali ophumelele kakhulu, iArsenal ngaphandle kwemfundo yamabanga aphakamileyo.
Ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi yinto enomtsalane, efuna ubuchule obuthile kunye nomonde. Kulula ukunikezela kwinkohliso, zitsale umfanekiso wendoda efanelekileyo kwaye ufumanise kamva ukuba, ewe, kude kakhulu. Kodwa ukuba awunikezeli, bonisa isilumkiso, uyakuqonda ukuba ucinga ntoni, kusekwe kungekudala okanye kamva ukudibana nenkosana yakho. Ngendlela, oko akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe neyakhe inqaba kunye nesihloko: Eyona nto iphambili kukuba iya kukuphatha njengenkosazana yokwenyani!