Nakuphi na ukhuphiswano lwamadoda, kwishishini okanye kubomi bakho, kukudibana ngqo kumadoda amabini. Yonke into yenzeka ngendlela efanayo kwindalo esilwanyana. Bayalwa. Ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokwengqondo, isimilo, isimo. Ihlala ihamba ngokuthe ngqo kwaye icacile.
Kwabafazi, yonke into ihlukile, izinto zabo ezigcweleyo, iinyawo ezigcweleyo, iinyawo ezingenamkhenkce, inaliti ngepini okanye ibala elinomdla. Kwangelo xesha, kudalwe umgibe wokhuphiswano, kwaye uphume ophumeleleyo, kufuneka wazi ngazo.
Inombolo ye-1 - Qinisa
Ibhinqa liwela kwimbangi ye-riverang "eyindoda. Indoda ekhuphisanayo ibona ngokucacileyo usukelo lwayo kwaye iya koyisa. Kodwa umgangatho obuthathaka kakhulu kwiimvakalelo kwaye ngokupheleleyo, intloko ingenelwa kule nkqubo yokhuphiswano. Okwangoku, usukelo loyena mntu unyuliweyo - uba sisibini, ulibale ngayo. Kwaye zonke iingcinga malunga nenye: fundisa imbangi. Yiza nokuphosa emhlophe okanye ukucofa ngokuziphatha nangakumbi, ukucwangcisa uhlobo oluthile lokulungela: yonke le nto yenziwe icingelwa ngaphandle kwefilo.
Kwangelo xesha, yonke ingqalelo yonke ishukunyisiwe kwindoda ukuya kwimbangi. Okwangoku, usukelo lwabo ngamnye wabo luphazamisa kwaye lutshabalalise umdlali welinye iqela, hayi indlela yokuphumelela okungakumbi kujongeka phambi kwentanda yakhe. Kwaye ume ecaleni kwaye ubukele le nkqubo, ijongeka ngathi ngabafazi ababini babhaptiza omnye komnye ngeTumokov, bathetha i-knuckles, benza into emnandi. Kwaye injongo, apho bangena khona kubugcisa bemfazwe, abasayi kufezekiswa, kuba bobabini bayishiya kwicala elahlukileyo. Bona, bezivelela ezona zikhaphukhaphu, zenzakalise kwaye omnye komnye, kunye nabo.
Yulia Lansk, ingcali ekukhetheni isibini esifanelekileyo somtshato
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Inombolo ye-2-Ukuzixabisa
Ukuba umfazi ungena kukhuphiswano olunjalo, oko kubukhali kunciphisa ixabiso layo emehlweni omnyulwa wakhe. Ubonakala ekhwaza esithi: "Ndithathe, ndingcono!". Kodwa imithetho eqhelekileyo yentengiso ayisebenzi kubudlelwane bakho. Oku kulunga ungahamba phakathi kwemigca kwaye ukhethe okuthengiswa ngexabiso eliphantsi. Ukufumaneka kutsala umthengi wohlobo oluthile lwemveliso yempahla, kodwa ekukhetheni indoda indoda idlala indima engxamisekileyo ngokupheleleyo. Abameli besini esomeleleyo sokuzingela amaxhoba abo, boyise imiqobo, boyise. Bagxotha umvundla, kwaye bengayijongi kwifom egqityiweyo.
Xa umfazi elwele indoda, wazibonakalisa ngaphezu kwento efikelelekayo. "Intengiso! Kuphela apha! Zonke iiruble ezintlanu! " Ukuphuma kwe-hunter kuphelelwa ngokupheleleyo, kuba akadingi umnwe ngomnwe, uza kuqhuba impempe yakhe yokuqala okanye inyathelo ngamehlo. Umfazi osasazo olwenziwa ziintshukumo ezingcono kunexabiso lokunciphisa, ukulungele ukuphumelela nangaliphi na ixabiso, naziphi na iindlela. Ngaba kunokwenzeka kule meko ukuyiyoyisa?
Umgibe inombolo 3-Ukuphakama konyulo
Ukukhuphisana, abafazi bahlakulela iimvakalelo zabo. Umfanekiso oyindoda uyakhula ngamehlo abo, ubaluleke ngakumbi. Izimvo zixinekile, umnqweno uyaphucuka, uxinzelelo lweemvakalelo luyanda kwaye lunamandla kwaye lunamandla. Bakhathazwa ziingcinga, batya amava. Oku akuseyindoda nje enovelwano kangangokuba ndingathanda ukuzama ukwakha ubudlelwane, kodwa ekuphela kwenjongo ebomini, oyena waziwa kakhulu.
Kwaye kokukhona idluliselwa kule ngxabano, kokukhona intsingiselo yabakhetho bakho iyakhula, nangona ingenzi kwanto. Ngenxa yoko, into efakwe umntu ovuthayo wendoda, enokude ngokuhambelana nenyani eyaneleyo. Imithetho yentengiso sele isebenza apha: Ukuba imfuno iphezulu, isithembiso siyakhula ngexabiso.
Inombolo 4-Uloyiko lokuphulukana ne-rophy
Kumlo wendoda, uthando lomfazi luyakhula ngokukuko. Yena uyazithobela, uyayikhuthaza into awayeyimangalisa kwaye eyona ilungileyo. Kunye noku, uloyiko lokuphulukana nalo olukhethiweyo luyakhula, olube lubutyebi bokwenyani. Olu loyiko lukhuthaza okona kuxhomekeke kubuntu bakhe, ukothuka kunokuziva ngathi akangekhe afezekise. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, sele ityalekile iinyanga ezi-5 ukuba iyoyise kwaye ibambe le ndoda - eyona rophhlo ilungileyo kunye 'ne-mogican ".
Kwangelo xesha, le ntokazi igcwele emntwini, kubonakala kuye ukuba kukho abazingeli abaninzi, kwaye ke kufanelekile ukuba bambelele kuyo. Kuyanyanzeleka kwaye kuyathandeka. Ibhinqa elinjengeelethe, liphindaphinde kwaye liphinde lizilinganise emehlweni akhe. Yena, ukuphela kwelona lilungileyo, kwaye ubona abanye ebomini bakhe. Waphulukana nengqondo kunye nokucinga okugqwesileyo. Kungatsho ukuba uzilahle njengomntu ongeneleleyo.
Xa umfazi elwela indoda, wazibonakalisa ngaphezu kokufikeleleka
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Inombolo ye-5-umona kwimbangi
Umzabalazo onokhuphiswano unobangela. Ekuqaleni, imbangi iqala ngokuchanekileyo kuba umfazi ucinga - nokuba ungaphantsi komhlaba, onzulu kwishawa - ukuba yesibini yeyesibini. Umhle ngakumbi, onomdla ngakumbi, osebenza ngakumbi, unethamsanqa, kwaye ngenxa yoko ukhetho lwakho lube kukukholisa kwakhe. Kwaye ezi ngcinga zibangela umdla ongaqhelekanga kwimbangi kwaye uzivelele.
Ukuthoba ixabiso layo okungenani emehlweni akhe, kwaye kwangaxeshanye - kwaye emehlweni abanye, eli bhinqa liqala ukubonakalisa imbangi, ibhola ngaye, xelela into embi kwaye engafanelekanga. Ubonisa ukungangqinelani kwakho, ukungaqiniseki kubuchule bakho kunye nokukwazi kwakho. Kwaye uba njengomfazi osele emdala ohleli kwiqumrhu elaphukileyo.
Ungayiphepha njani imigibe yokukhuphisana?
1. Yoyisa lonke uloyiko phambi kwabasemncinci kwaye mhle ngakumbi kunawe.
Inkcazo ethi kuphela amantombazana amancinci anembonakalo yemodeli asetyenziswayo kwimfuno-bubuxoki. Kwindoda ethandekayo, inyulu yakhe ihlala ingoyena mfazi mhle emhlabeni.
2. Musa ukunikezela ukuze unyanzelise ukhuphisana nabantu bakho.
Vumela abanye bazihlazelele, belahle ixabiso emehlweni endoda. Musa ukubandakanyeka kumzabalazo wobudenge, ke ngoko uya kukuziphatha ngokwaneleyo kwaye uya kujongeka ngakumbi. "Kwaye ndiyongeza i-yogurt eSaladi, hayi i-mayonase," kwiimpikiswano ezinjalo, nokuba ibikho "i-pan" yokhuphiswano kwiMithwalo enjalo.
3. Ngaphantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko, zive ukuzithemba kwaye zihlaziyekile.
Ukuba unesizinzo esifanelekileyo, kwasekwa umfanekiso, ngaphandle koko, usebenzise ixesha lokuziphatha, awusoze ube neengxaki nakweziphi iimeko.
4. Ukutsala indoda yakho, ibe yeyenye kuye.
Ukuzisebenza ngokwakhe, ngokukhula ngokuqohlakeleyo njengomntu, ukutyhila ubufazi bakhe nokuzibeka ngokwakhe indima yomfazi, ukubambelela kwisicwangciso esiliqili kunye namaqhinga, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana isiqingatha sakho.
Kumzabalazo wendoda, uthando lomfazi luyakhula ngokukhululekileyo
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Kodwa ungadibana njani nale nto, ekuphela komntu? Ukwenza oku, kuya kufuneka wenze amanyathelo afanelekileyo kwicala elifanelekileyo. Ndiza kukuxelela i-pro Amanqanaba amathathu asisiseko.
Inyathelo lokuqala: Uhlalutyo lwakho "ndingunamhlanje"
Kwinqanaba lokuqala kufuneka uziqonde, unjani okwangoku. Kwaye uqale ukusebenza ngokwakho, ukuqonda apho unamathele ebuthathaka. Zeziphi iimpawu kunye nezakhono awonelanga? Zeziphi izinto ongakhutshelwanga? Yintoni ekufuneka uyisebenzele ukuze uveze eyona ndlela iluncedo?
Inyathelo lesiBini: Umfazi
Wenza isicwangciso sokuphucula ukuphuculwa kwakho kwaye ulandele ngokucacileyo. Ngaphandle kokutshiza, ukungaphazanyiswa, seta inani lemisebenzi kwaye uzenze. Kwinkqubo, uze uzithelekise ngentombazana okanye kunye nendlela ethile efanelekileyo, kodwa kodwa kuwe. Bona ukuba ubunjani kwaye nentsimbi. Nokubangcono ... kwaye ungcono kakhulu ...
Inyathelo lesithathu: Ukudala iimeko zokhetho
Kuya kufuneka wenze zonke iimvelaphi ezinokubakho ukuze ukhethe indoda, eyona ilungileyo phakathi kokona kulungileyo. Ngokutshintsha ngokwakho, upheka undiphelise intsha ukuba ifanelwe ngumntu ophumeleleyo. Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba umfazi onjani ufuna umntu onjalo indlela yokukhokela kuye nendlela yokwenza usapho olonwabileyo.
Umfazi wokwenene uhlala ethanda ukwenziwa kwayo.
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Ukusuka kwi-Pua - kwibhabhathane!
Umfazi uguqulwa, utshintsha, wakhela ngokwazo kuzo zonke iindlela. Usebenze umfanekiso wawo wangaphandle, ushiya umntu obhinqileyo kwibhinqa kwibhinqa. Ukuphucula ubuntu bakhe, wenza ilizwe langaphakathi langaphakathi, ufumana uthando ngokwakhe kwaye uzithemba, ukulahla inkululeko yexesha elidlulileyo. Utyhila ngokwesondo kwaye ukuba neemvakalelo. Iqala ukusetyenziswa ngokufanelekileyo ulwimi lomzimba. Ukunxibelelana ngempumelelo kunye namadoda afunda i-Psychology yabo. Kwaye oko kufanelekile, kuyazi Ukwahluka kwakhe.
Umfazi onjalo akanakuhlangana ngendlela yakhe indoda enqwenelekayo.
Ulinenekazi lokwenyani elifanelwe kukwamkelwa komibini eluntwini kunye nokuthandwa kunye nothando lwesini esomeleleyo. Kuyavumelana, kwaye zonke iinkcukacha zomfanekiso wakhe zinxibelelene kakhulu kwihlabathi langaphandle, eliyijikelezileyo kunye nehlabathi layo elingaphakathi. Yonke le nto yenza umkhosi onamandla wangaphakathi, otsala abantu abaphumeleleyo.
Ukuba nayo yonke le nto, unokuba ngumqondiso wobufazi kunye nomtsalane, uya kufakwa ngqwalaselo kunye nononophelo, uya kufumana ulonwabo eluthandweni kwaye uzimisele ukuba ngumfazi nomama.
Ndikunqwenelela ukuba udibane nesiqingatha sakho, fumana ulonwabo lobuqu, dala usapho oluhle. Kwaye ndiza kukunceda ngale nto: I-Julia Lansk yakho, ingcali ekukhetheni isibini esifanelekileyo somtshato.