"Molo maria!
Igama lam ndinguIvan. Mhlawumbi awuyi kuyiphendula ileta yam, kodwa ndisagqiba kwelokuba ndithathe ithuba kwaye ndibhalele kwiQonga leebhinqa. Madly ndifuna ukuva uluvo kwicala elichaseneyo ...
Ndifuna ukutshixa kwangoko ukuba andifuni ukukhubekisa nabani na. Kwaye mhlawumbi abanye baya kuba banomdla ukuba bajonge imeko kwelinye icala. Wonke umntu uyingxaki eyaziwayo: Amadoda ahlala eswelekile ngesondo. Ndadibana ke nge-29. Ndihlala neminyaka yam ethembekileyo njengeminyaka emi-2. Igumbi elinye, kodwa eyethu. Ndiyasebenza, ndiphethe imali ekhaya. Yonke iqalile kakuhle: Ikherothi yothando kunye nayo yonke into ... uyintombazana ethambileyo, iphinde iqaqanjelwe kwakhona. Ubukrelekrele-ubuhle, uqoqosho - ngokubanzi, umfazi ophuphayo. Kodwa une-thabatha elincinci - uluphantsi kuyo yonke into. Imvakalelo enjalo ephila abanye. Ndihlala ndiziva ngathi into ayiyonto ingakhululekanga kuye, kodwa yona ayiceli nto. Kuya kufuneka uqikelele ngeminqweno yakhe. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha iintombi zibuza. Kwaye ngequbuliso, ukusukela oko, sanika isini: Emva koko wenzakalisa intloko yakhe, ke andifuni, ke isizathu sokuba kubonakala ngathi iyohlwaya into ngale ndlela. Ndididekile ngandlel 'ingenziwa. Yenza intombi ngeentombi-akusasebenzi. Nceda, nceda, uluvo lwakho, ukuba kunokwenzeka, Nika Ingcebiso ... "
Molo!
Enkosi ngeleta yakho kunye nenkalipho yakho. Ngolonwabo ndiza kunika uluvo lwakho.
Imeko iqhelekileyo kakhulu. Kwaye abo banzi bobubi bajongeka njengengqondo. Inyani yile yokuba kwinkcubeko yethu, ayizukubonisa ngokuvuza ukungabi nasohlela, ivakalise ityala kwaye libonisa ubundlobongela. Ezi ziqholo zihamba, njengommiselo, kwintsapho yomzali. Uninzi lwethu ukusukela ebuntwaneni lusasazwa ukuba luhlazo ukuba yonke into kufuneka yenziwe ukuba kufuneka ukwazi ukunyamezela. Oko kufanele ukuba amantombazana amiselwe kwaye athambile, akwazi ukuthoba ii-angles, inxulumene nokungakhathali nokungaqwalaselwa kwendoda. Kwaye kwezi meko zigqithisileyo-ngokubanzi ukuzincama ngokwakho kunye nemidla yakhe ngenxa yosapho. Amadoda, athi, aqonde le nto ifanelekileyo, kwakhona, kuba kuluntu lwethu mamkelwe. Kwaye yintoni ekhoyo? Iimvakalelo zezi, zifuna indlela yokuphuma. Eyona nto ilula iya kuba yindlela yokuziphatha enomsindo, eveziweyo nje kwinto yokuba umntu akaziveliyo ngokuthe ngqo iminqweno, amabango, izikhalazo. Ngokonwaba, oku kwenziwe ngokungangqalanga. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha umntu akazizo 'ezohlwayo "umntu owonileyo. Kwaye akukho ntweni igqithileyo apha. Yaphuke i-stereotype yentsebenzo kunzima, kodwa mhlawumbi. Apha eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu iya kudala imeko yokuzithemba kubudlelwane. Ukuzama ukuthetha ngandlela zonke nangezinye iindlela zokuqonda ukuba kwizicelo kunye nokugxeka ubudlelwane bakho abuyi kutshatyalaliswa, kodwa ngokuchasene noko kuya kuba ngcono. Yintoni olungele ukudibana, jonga ezinye izinto. Kubalulekile ukuba uchaze ukuba awusoloko uqonda ngokuchanekileyo iingcebiso kwaye ungahlali ubaqatshelele kwaphela. Zama ukubuza ukuba yintoni enokuthanda ntoni kwisiqingatha sakho kule meko kwaye kule, umzuzu othile. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba ukulungele ukumnika. Kuya kuba luncedo ukubuza: "Ngaba ndiyaqonda ukuba ngoku ufuna ..." (kwaye ufowunele into). Oku kuya kunceda ukwenza unxibelelwano luqondakale ukuba bobabini. Ingxaki yeengxaki azizange ikhokelele kwinto elungileyo. Yonke into ifuna ukuxoxwa. Kwaye rhoqo inyathelo lokuqala kufuneka senze isiqingatha esiqinileyo. Hlala phantsi;)
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