Ngeli xesha ndiza kunika abafazi aba-2 abahlukeneyo abaneZimvo malunga nendlela ulwazi olwahluke ngokupheleleyo olufihlwe ngayo emva komxholo ochubekileyo.
Ukulala kwephupha lokuqala : "Emva kwesondo esingathinteleki, esingayikhumbuli konke, ndicela indoda:" Masiphinde siyikhumbule! "Ke ndifuna ukubonga, kodwa kungakulungelanga. Ndikhangela, Akakufanelanga, iqhekeza elifutshane elinje, liye landijonga, le nto ke aliphakami.
Kubalulekile ukuthi kangangexesha elithile iphupha lisebenza kwiqela lonyango ngenxa yesihloko sobudlelwane bodwa. Uya kuba nendlela ende yokukhululeka ukuze azikhulule uthando oluqhelekileyo, kuba kude kube lelukholo kubudlelwane babuza ngokukhawuleza kwaye bathanda ukuthandwa, ubudlelwane baphelile. Wabona eli phupha ngenxa yophando lwakhe kwesi sihloko.
Ibonisa ukuba iyakubona ukusondela kwindoda esuka kwimeko yendlala engagunyaziswanga. Njengokuba umntu etyhutywe entlango entlango, efumana i-oasis, wasilahleka ekuphelisweni kwentuthumbo, neziselo, ide ithulule. Okufanayo kwiphupha liyimeko yokusondela kweyona nto isondeleyo - "Guard" kwilaphuli, ngokungathi kwenzeka. Ijongeka njenge-ack xa iphulukana nemvakalelo yokunxibelelana naye xa sibelana ngesondo. Ngendlela, abafazi baziswa kwiinoveli zothando zihlala zikholelwa ukuba le yinto eqhelekileyo. Yintoni onokuyiva ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo luphawu lokuchaneka kwakhe kunye nenkanuko yasendle. Okubangela umdla kukuba, kutheni le nkalo iqondwe kangaka, xa siphulukana nobulumko esitratweni, etolongweni, emsebenzini, emva koko sibizwa ngokuba "sikhangele impilo. Kwezinye iindawo, siyazi ukuba kuya kufuneka unxibelelane nawe kuyafuneka ukuzenzela ixesha ngalinye, kwaye nangaphezulu nangaphezulu.
Ngoku masibuyele ephupheni. Ukubuyela ekuqiniseni, uzama ukwakha umfowunelwa ngaphandle kwemeko yentsilelo, kodwa kwezinye iinjongo-kwaye ade angasebenzi. Ngokwenyani, ijongene nento yokuba yena neqabane lakhe malunga nokwenza uphawu olusondeleyo apho zombini ezi zasimahla ziyinto eyenzekayo kwaye aziyazi kakuhle into eyenzekayo, akukho mbono.
Iphupha lomnye umfazi: "Ndiphupha ukuba ndinomntu. Sihlala naye egumbini lam, kucacile ukuba ityala lihamba ngesondo. Ukwi-Silk Babrobe ngomzobo "wekhukhamba", ndibabona ngokucacileyo. Kodwa ngequbuliso wasasaza imilenze yakhe, akukho lingrie phantsi kweBhacrobe, kwaye ndiyabona ukuba akukho nto kwindawo yamalungu amadoda, ngaphandle kweelokhwe ezinkulu. Ndimjonga entlokweni, kwaye uyaphendula: "Ubufune iqabane, hayi indoda." Ndivuke kule nto. "
Apha iphupha libuyisela umva. Kwimeko esenyongweni, imifanekiso ephuma ebuthongweni ibonisa amanxeba ayo akwisihloko sesondo. Amanxeba acacileyo abantu kwaye acaca kancinci- kumfazi. Ukulala kumbonisa ukuba iqabane elikhuselekileyo "elikhuselekileyo elingekayi kuchaphazela inkalo yesini yolwalamano lwabo. Kwaye ekugqibeleni kuya kusondela ngakumbi kuyo. Ukuba isondela, kwaye ingokwabelana ngesondo iya kunokwenzeka, apha ... Siza kunika iphupha lokucingisisa ngesihloko, amanxeba engqondo kwisihloko esithandekayo uzama ukuphiliswa ngokufumana iqabane elikwi-sex.
UFreud wamangalela ukuba amandla esini asimahla ngokwesondo kuthi, ehamba kwaye efumana ukuphuma ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ngohlobo lokuyila, ukuzisebenzisa, kunjalo, isitshixo sempilo yengqondo kunye nobukho bomntu. Okunzima kukuthintelwa ngaphandle kwedrama kwesi sihloko, kokukhona kunzima ukuqhubela amandla ethu okuxabisa ngokukhululekileyo.
Sinqwenela amaphupha ethu ukuba ave izithembiso zamaphupha abo kwaye ziqhubeke.
Kwaye ngawaphi amaphupha akho? Imizekelo yamaphupha akho ethunyelwa ngeposi: inforhit.ru. Indlela, amaphupha alula kakhulu ukubhala phantsi ukuba uza kubhala phantsi ukuba uza kubhalwa khona ukuba uza kubhala phantsi ukuba uvule kweli phupha.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin