Umxholo wesini, mhlawumbi enye yeyona miphefumlo inqabileyo kuye nawuphina umntu. Ilizwi elinye elingakhathaliyo elivela kumfazi linokuhlalisa izintso apho indoda ilwela ixesha elide. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda iqabane lakho, kwaye alichaphazeli amaxesha anokucaphukisa indoda yakho kwaye ayonakalise ngokuhlwa. Sigqibe kwelokuba sifumanise ukuba loluphi uloyiko lwendalo esondeleyo kakhulu rhoqo kumgangatho onzima.
"Kuthekani ukuba ayisebenzi!"
Nawuphi na umntu ufanele azi ukuba umfazi wakhe akukho mntu ubhetele, kwaye ke iingcinga malunga nokusilela ebhedini zinokukhula zibe yiphobia yokwenyani. Kubalulekile ukuba umntu obhinqileyo aqonde ukuba ibaluleke kangakanani umntu obalulekileyo kuye, ungakhathazeki mazwi athethwayo kwaye uchukumise ukuphembelela iqabane. Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba indoda yakho ineengxaki zesini, musa ukugxila kule ngqwalaselo, akukho mfuneko yokubacaphukele ngenxa yokusilela ebhedini. Endaweni yoko, mncede akwazi ukujongana nengxaki - indoda iya kuba nombulelo ongazenzisiyo.
"Kuthekani ukuba akayithandi!"
Intsomi edumileyo ithi umntu unomdla kuphela kolonwabo kuphela. Nangona kunjalo, ukugweba ngophando, amadoda kwiimeko ezininzi kuchaphazela ulonwabo lwamaqabane, kuba ukuvunywa komfazi kunokumphakamisa oyena mntu ulithandayo. Ukongeza, kunye nabafazi, amadoda amaninzi ahlangabezana nezihlunu zenkangeleko, i-tummy, inkqubela phambili yokulahleka kweenwele kunye nezinye izinto ezinokuzicheba iinwele kunye nezinye izinto ezinokuthi zizenzele uthando ngaphakathi ubumnyama. Njengakwimeko yangaphambili, akunyanzelekanga ukuba ichaze iqabane lakho iintsilelo zalo ezinqabileyo, kuba umsebenzi wakho kukunceda umntu wakho ukuba aboyise izinto ezikhoyo, kwaye hayi "ukhule" entsha.
Umntu ubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba uyaphambana ngaye
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"Kodwa kuthekani ukuba ..."
Ewe kunjalo, ukuphikisana ukuba nayiphi na indoda eyoyike imbopheleleko, isidenge, kuba ayikho kwaphela. Ukanti uninzi lwamadoda luye kwimbono yokuba umfazi unokunyaniseka kuye kwaye, mhlawumbi, efuna indlela yokumbopha kuye. Njengomthetho, ubudlelwane obunjalo buphawulwa ngamadoda asinda kumava angathandekiyo ngomfazi owayesakuba ngumfazi. Kubalulekile ukunika ukuqonda umntu ukuba ungumfazi obaneleyo wokuba nesini asiyo indlela yokuphucula isikhundla sakho, uchitha ixesha elithile kunye kwaye ungalindeli kwanto omnye komnye.
"Ungathini ukuba uyandivuka!"
Kwaye omnye uloyiko oludumileyo umntu - umfazi uya kumsibamba ngowona mzuzu ungaqhelekanga. Kubantu abaninzi, izinto ezincinci ezinjengeesokisi ezithandekayo ebhedini okanye ezinye izinto ezinomdla zeqabane azinantsingiselo, kodwa ke thina sonke sithanda ukuziphathela amaxesha ngamaxesha, ukuba, kwakhona, akufuneki, kwakhona, akufaneleki Nditsho nezinto ezihlekisayo kakhulu-indoda ayinakukwazi ukuba yimali yokuba yinto yokugculela emfazini.