Khawufane ucinge ngosapho apho abantu abangabalulekanga, abangengabantu abaziimfihlo abangahleliyo kwaye bangancumi, kwaye lonke ixesha behamba kunye ne-vious yemvakalelo kunye nendawo yomoya. Vumelana, kwimozulu enjalo, umntwana akanakulindeleka ukuba wonwabe.
Ukongeza, izazinzulu ziqinisekisile ukuba owona msebenzi uphambili wokuhleka kwabantwana kukuvuselela uphuhliso. Abantwana baqala ukuncuma malunga neenyanga ezimbini ubudala, kunye noncumo lokuqala, uninzi lwazo, luxelisa umama. Ewe, kwaye umnqweno wokunxibelelana uvuka kubantwana ngaphambi kokuba akwazi ukuthetha, ngokubona wonke umntu oncumzelayo umntwana enoncumo, enobuhlobo.
Sele kwiinyanga ezintathu okanye ezine, umntwana unokuthanda ukuhleka, asabele ekuziphatheni kwethu. Ewe, iintsana aziziqondi iziqhulo ezithethwa ngabantu abadala, kodwa ukuba ukuhleka ngobubele kuya kuviwe egumbini, umntwana unokuxhasa ukuzonwabisa indalo iphela.
Vumelani, ziva imvakalelo yabanye - amandla afanelekileyo, kwaye ebekwe kwiminyaka engaphambili. Ke, kufutshane neenyanga ezili-9 ubudala, umntwana uyakuqonda ukuba xa utata eyokuthenga okanye ekhonkotha, umama ubonakalisa indlela uloliwe avakalayo ngayo, umntwana wabo unokwahlula umdlalo wenyani, Kwaye uyayenza ngokuhleka.
Abantwana beminyaka emibini okanye emithathu bayayithanda ihlaya ngento emangazayo, ubhala Tata.a.ru. Isiqendu esihlekisayo sekhathuni okanye utata watsiba phantsi kwesofa kunokubangela ukuba baziinyembe. Kodwa ke, chaza ukuba bahleke ntoni na, abayi kuba nako. Kumaxesha anje, ukuhleka kuthetha malunga nokukwazi kwabantwana ukubona umfanekiso wehlabathi ngokupheleleyo kwaye kwabele amaxesha angahambelani kwiNkqubo-sikhokelo Jikelele.
Ukuba ufundisa umntwana kwasebusaneni ukuba ahambe ebomini ngoncumo olubanzi, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuzisa iziqhamo zazo! Kwixa elizayo, uya kukonwabela imidlalo kwaye anxibelelane noontanga, ukuba ahlole ngokufanelekileyo iimeko zobomi aze akwazi ukusombulula iingxaki ngaphandle koloyiko. Yonke into ithi uqeqesho lokuhleka kwakungekho lilize, kwaye umntwana wakwazi ngokupheleleyo ubuchule bentlalo ebomini bakhe.