Ngokuchasene nengxaki umtshakazi phambi komtshato olindele ngovuyo, xa intanda yakhe iza kuba ngumyeni wakhe osemthethweni, umtshato yintlekele ethile, etshintsha. Wonke umntu ulungiselelwe umtshato, kwaye umtshakazi unyanzelwe ukuba alibale ngeealarm zabo, ethe cwaka ethe cwaka ethe cwaka. Kwaye oku akuthethi ukuba akonwabanga. Hayi nje indawo eninzi kumtshato wangaphambi komtshato ukuba uthethe ngokuthandabuza, uloyiko kunye noxinzelelo.
Ke ngoko, yonke le nto iwele kwibhinqa eliselula eliphuphe, lihlangabezane ngandlela thile namava, ngandlela thile bafumana intetho yabo.
Ke, iphupha lomnye wabafundi bethu, oya kutshata kungekudala:
"Ndimi kwindlu kagogo, nam abanye abantu. Omnye wabo waxelela ukuba umyeni wam wayenothando, kodwa ngoku akasaphili, emva koko banikela ngelo xesha ukuba wayenxibelelana ngendoda ngasese, kwaye le ndoda yabulawa ... bendikhathazekile, ndade ndaphelelwa lixesha, emva koko Ndilandele izikrelemnqa zelori. Ekuqaleni ndandifuna ukumbulala ngesitshetshe, ndilahle isitshetshe, kodwa alindithululela, ndabaleka. Emva koko, isiqwenga malunga nesibini esilupheleyo. Eli bhinqa libuya entolongweni okanye luhlobo oluthile, lwadibana nomyeni wakhe, kwaye babemhle kunye, bonwabile, kwaye ngaloo mfazi bubulewe ebusuku. I-Bymy ... iphupha lonke yayiyingqwangaba emnyama, itsilight. Kwaye ke le ndoda ikhulileyo yabulala esitratweni esitratweni, kwaye umfazi wakhe uhlala ehleli. "
Ke, qwalasela uMesanez. I-heroine yethu ikwindlu kamakhulu wakhe. Okulandelayo kulandela uthotho lokufa kwelinye lamaqabane okhulileyo. Kumhlaba kabuhlungu, ndiyacinga ukuba ndide ndide ndide. Ngokungathi ephupheni, uyatsiba yonke amashumi eminyaka awayeyiya kuhlala, aze abe ngumakhulu ", umntu kwigumbi lakhe, afumana iqabane lakhe ngaphandle kwakhe.
Ukuba ukhala ngokufutshane iphupha-lithi enye yamaqabane aliyi kuba kungekudala okanye kamva olo thando, nokuba lomelele kangakanani na. Kwaye ubudlelwane bugqityiwe.
Xa abantu Abaselula badibana nje, abazithembi kwezi ngcinga. Kodwa umtshato yinto enye. Nokuba awucingi ngayo, siyayazi kwenye indawo emphefumlweni esecaleni kolu mntu kufuneka adibane nobudala, emva koko ukufa.
Umxholo wokufa kunye ne-farewell yenye yezona zinzima. Owona mbhali udumileyo kunye ne-psychotherapist iRwin Yal ithi ungoyiki onamandla lonto loloyiko lokufa. Ikwafumaneka kancinci ebutsheni, kwaye ubudala buyabonakala ngakumbi. Ayinakukoyiswa kwaye ingahoyi. Kuyo ke, bonke abantu ngaphandle kokukhetha. Kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuba uphila njani naye, ukuqonda ukuba akunakuze kubekho abantu esibathandayo kunye nabantu esibathandayo, kunye nabo kunye nobomi bethu.
I-heroine yethu ijongene neprojekthi yobomi bakhe njengentsapho. Kwaye oku kuse ebomini, kuquka isiphelo sakhe.
Kuyenzeka ukuba ngoncedo lwephupha elinjalo, inomdla kwiialamu zawo kunye neenkxalabo ezingenakufikeleleka kubudlelwane bexesha elide.
Unokucebisa iqhawe lethu ngobulumko kwaye usebenza ngononophelo kumaphupha akho ngoku - bayamnceda ukuba akhathazeke ngento enxulumene nesithunzi, imiyalezo engahambelaniyo nomyeni wakhe wexesha elizayo amthanda umntu ngaphandle kwakhe. Kwaye ayisalungiswa.
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UMaria Zngqoskova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wonyango kunye noqeqesho lokukhula komntu kwiZiko lokuRhweba uMarika Hazin.