Ngokwemvelo, ndizakuqala inqaku lingalimeli ngamaphupha, kodwa yintoni enomdla kumanyano olukhulu kakhulu. Ukuncancisa yinkqubo yebhayoloji ekhoyo njengokuba abantu bephila. Imisebenzi emininzi ibhaliwe kwaye iibhiliyoni zabafazi ziphumelele le nkqubo ngamava abo. Kukho iimfundiso ezahlukeneyo malunga nokugqiba ukondla umntwana, xa ibangela ukonakala kwengqondo. Kodwa ekugqibeleni, umama ngamnye usombulula lo mbuzo ngokwabo, esebenzisa ingcebiso eqokelelweyo okanye eyabo intuition. Malunga nomzekelo wencam enjalo, iya kuxelela iphupha le-heroine yethu.
"Bazama ukundimemela iNkundla okanye i-ofisi yomtshutshisi ngenxa yokunikela ubungqina ngomsebenzi wam. Wonke umntu unzulu, amahemuhembe ayo, onokuthunyelwa entolongweni, nangona iNkundla ilufundisisa nje ngamanyange amabini abuza into. Phambi kokuba ikhaya lam, sihlala sicinga ngento endiyifunayo yokuthetha ukuba akukho ntetho inokubakho, kuba into leyo ibambene kwaye ibambene. Ngomhla wetyala, ndicela uxolo kum ijaji eyintloko, othi andinampazamo ukuba ndicela uxolo ngokucinga ngam ngokungafanelekanga. Ndikushiye bonke ukrokrela kwaye andisasebenzi. Ndiyabulela, ndikhala, ndithi andazi ukuba ndingakwazi ukuphatha njani, kodwa nakondla umntwana wam ngamabele, kuba kuya kufuneka ndifunde kakhulu. Kwaye nasephupheni, ndiyaqonda ukuba akasayi kulala elambile, endaweni yoko, iya kuba sisiganeko esothusayo. "
Iphupha le-heroine yethu libonisa indlela eyalelwa ngayo umntwana wakhe. Ngamanye amagama, ukunamathiselwa kwinkqubo yokondla akunjalo kuphela kwaye kungabi kakhulu emntwaneni, kodwa amaphupha ethu anayo. Iphupha libonisa intlekele eyahlukeneyo kunye neendlela ezinokukhetha kuzo eziya kufuneka ziyeke. Kwaye kungenxa yakhe iyothusa kwaye iphazamisekile kunaye umntwana.
Kwangelo xesha, kwananye ephupheni, uyaqonda ukuba ukondliwa yinkqubo engenayomfuneko ebomini. Ngoku umntwana unokwenza ngaphandle kwakhe, oko kuthetha ukuba lixesha lokuba ulungele ukuhamba naye ukuya kwinqanaba elitsha lokunxibelelana.
Oomama abancinci, abahlengikazi, bayazi lo mzuzu: umntwana unokuhlala ephazamile, tshintsha, uzolile okanye ulale ngesifuba, kodwa ungayi kwi-18 iminyaka ubudala? Kukukuwe nje umama, kodwa kwixesha elizayo, xa umntwana engasafuneki ubisi ukutya namanzi, kuya kufuneka ufumane iindlela zokufumana iindlela ezintsha zokunxibelelana kwaye uthintele i-incamation esele ikho. Okanye kuvela njengokuhlekisa: "Umntwana uthathwa njengabanjwa xa iziko liphela."
Kwimeko yamaphupha ethu, kuya kufuneka akhe unxibelelwano olutsha nosana lokumfundisa kwaye lizolile, tshintsha ngezinye iindlela. Sinqwenela ithamsanqa kuye!
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UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin