"Mholweni!
Ebomini bam lalilibalibuhlungu kakhulu. Ndifuna ukuyifumana kwaye ujonge inkxaso. Kutshanje ndinomtshato, kodwa azange kwenzeke. Ndikunye nomfilini wam, ndadibana kungekudala phambi komtshato. Ngokukhawuleza sathandana sithandana kwaye singokoqobo emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa wandenza isigwebo. Ndavuma ngaphandle kokucinga. Yonke into yayilungile. Sasicinga ngeholide, uhambo lomtshato. Kodwa iveki ngaphambi komtshato, ndafumanisa ukuba wanditshintsha ... kwaye yayisisidenge, inxila inxilile i-bar kunye nabahlobo abakhethiweyo apho. Umtshato waphule, ngokwemvelo, ulonwabo lwethu lwatshatyalaliswa. Ndilahlekile ngokupheleleyo, andazi ukuba ndingaqhubeka njani. Andihambelani entlokweni yam, oko kunokwenzeka. Wafunga kum eluthandweni, kwaye bekucacile ukuba ezi mvakalelo zinyanisekile! Ngoku uyazisola kakhulu ngesenzo sakhe. Ifuna uxolelo. Ndiyamthanda, andifuni kuphulukana, kodwa andazi ukuba ndihlala njani nako oku. Xolela okanye hayi. Ndididekile, ndifuna kakhulu ukuva okungenani ingcaciso ethile eyenzekayo, ubuncinci ndiyiqonde le meko. I-inna
Molo, i-INNA!
Ndinombulelo ongazenzisiyo kuwe ngenkalipho yakho kunye nokungafihli. Ndicinga ukuba abafundi abaninzi bandijoyine.
Ewe, ukuhlangana nomlingane weqabane lam, thina ngandlel 'ithile siyiva kakuhle. Siyaqonda ukuba lo ngoyena mntu ndifuna ukuya ebomini kunye, ninyamekele omnye komnye, babelane ngazo zonke iintlungu kunye novuyo. Kodwa phakathi komtshato kunye nomtshato, uninzi lwabantu luthanda ukulinda ixesha ukuba libe ngcono ukuze sazana, siqhele, siqhele, sandise umgqatswa kwaye sithengwe njalo ...
I-Psychology yabela amanqanaba athile okuphuhliswa kosapho. Ingcali yengqondo yaseMelika yaseMelika uJay Hayy ichaza le thuba ilandelayo:
1. Ukucoca ixesha-xa abantu abancinci bedibana, kodwa abahlali kunye.
Umtshato ngaphandle kwabantwana-ukusuka ekuqaleni kokuphila kunye okanye ukutshata ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana wokuqala.
3. Ulwandiso - Intsapho Neentsapho Yaselula: Ukuzalelwa komntwana wokuqala ngaphambi kokuzalwa komtwe.
4. Ukuzinza - iSigaba somtshato oqolileyo. Eli lixesha lemfundo yabantwana, eliqhubeka de umntwana wokuqala alishiya indlu.
5. Inqanaba apho abantwana bayeka khona indlu.
6. "Indlwane engenanto" - amaqabane aphinda abuye emva kokumka kwabo bonke abantwana.
7. I-Monostadium - isigaba apho umntu ovela khona amaqabane ahlala eyokusweleka kwenye.
Inguqu ukusuka kwelinye inqanaba ukuya kwenye ayisoloko igudile, iingxaki zinokwenzeka. Kwaye kusengqiqweni, kuba ubomi butshintsha kakhulu, iintsingiselo ezintsha zivela kubudlelwane, ekugqibeleni, abantu bafumana imeko entsha. Kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuba ngandlel 'ithile iqhele.
Kubonakala ngathi utshintsho olukhawulezileyo oluvela kumtshato emtshatweni lwabangela isandi elomeleleyo kumkhethe wakho. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, umtshato uthetha ikakhulu kukuhamba komgama phakathi kwabantu ababini, ukwandisa uxanduva lolwalamano. Njengoko kungengavakali bengamangalisi, kodwa ukuvutha komsindo ku-Emva wokungena emtshatweni kwenzeka kunqabile, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha nakwiimeko apho abantu bafunyanwa khona ixesha elide. Kwaye ihlala ingumqondiso kwinto yokuba elinye lamaqabane akakulungelanga ukukhululwa okukhulu ngakumbi.
Ewe, ukungcatshwa kwabangela ukonakala kubudlelwane bakho. Kodwa nangayiphi na imeko, kuyavakala ukuzama ukuyifumana, okanye ukubhenela kuncedo lwengcali. Ngapha koko, ubudlelwane baqala kuphela, kwaye yonke into isenokutshintsha kakhulu.