Indima katata ebomini bomntwana kunzima ukugxininisa kakhulu, nangona kunjalo, abaninzi basaqinisekile ukuba umama udlala eyona ndima iphambili ekukhuliseni. Okukhona indoda iqinisekile ukuba indima yakhe kwelona candelo liphezulu, eyomeleleyo iyakholelwa kuyo, ngakumbi amadoda ahlala ethuthunjiswa nguwo: "Ngaba ndiya kuba nguBawo olungileyo?" Ngaba ndiza kuba nako ukuba nguBawo olungileyo? "
Ukuba wena okanye indoda yakho inamathela kwithiyori ukuba indoda ihlala ikwi-puckup, ifundwe ngakumbi- siyakwazi ukukukholisa.
Yindoda kuphela enokubonelela ukuba olona lungelo luyimfuneko, olusilela kubantwana abakhule kwiintsapho ezingaphelelanga.
Utata akaniki mama ongaphantsi
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Utata akasayi kuqwalasela umntwana "mi-mishna"
Ngesibindi sabona okanye uqhelene noomama abancinci abangahlukanisi okwesibini nomntwana, bahlala besanda kwaye baguquka njengekiti, hayi nomntu. Rhoqo, abafazi abanjalo abakwazi ukwahlula kunye nale mvakalelo ixesha elide kwaye baphalaze bonke ububele emntwaneni, bejikeleze i-hyperopic, enokuchaphazela kakhulu i-psyche ngaphandle kwengqondo engaphandle.
Ootata, njengomlawuli, yeyabantwana ngakumbi, kunqabile ukuba basinde kwaye bathethe nomntwana njengoko besithetha nabantu abadala. Kwindawo enjalo, umntwana ulula kakhulu ukuba ayisebenzise intetho eqhelekileyo, uphuhliso lukhawuleza.
Utata ukhetha imidlalo esebenzayo
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Ootata banokunika imidlalo esebenzayo yomntwana
Ukuba umama uyalela i-vertor ye-vertor yokubhala i-bill, emva koko indoda izama ukuchitha ixesha kunye nomntwana ngaphandle okanye ukudlala imidlalo esebenzayo kunokuthanda umntwana wokuphosa umntwana. Oomama bahlala bejonge kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo ngenkuthalo, kodwa kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba amava afuneka.
Utata uphuhlisa izakhono
Indoda esemthethweni ayicacanga indlela oxoka ngayo kwaye ungazenzi nto, nje ukuba intloko kayise inomzuzwana xa umntwana eqala ukuthatha inxaxheba kubomi be Baby: ithatha kuzo zonke iintlobo zomsebenzi, ufundisa ngokuchanekileyo ngomzimba wakhe, umntwana usekwe unxibelelaniso.
Utata wakhe, umntwana uzimele ngakumbi
Xa umntwana ekhula kwintsapho epheleleyo okanye utata, nangona wayekude, kodwa unomdla kubomi bonyana okanye intombi, umntwana unengqondo engafaniyo nenye into endala enokwenza icombulule ikakhulu umbuzo. Ngenxa yoko, isebe lendalo lezinto eziselula lezinto eziphilayo lenzeka kuMatery, kwaye kungekudala lenzekileyo, kuya kuba lula ukungena emntwaneni.
Umntwana uzimele ngakumbi
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