Avela phi aba bafazi badabileyo, esibona ngawo yonke imihla? Bahamba nathi kwizithuthi zikawonke-wonke kwaye ngoko nangoko siqonda ukuba umntu unengxaki zokuzithemba.
Ukuzithemba kuqala ukwenza ebuntwaneni, ngeli xesha kuxhomekeke kubudlelwane babazali kwintombazana encinci: Ukugxekwa rhoqo kwabo bambalwa abanokutshabalalisa ngengqondo eyomeleleyo.
Ukuzithemba okungaphantsi kokuzithemba kuqala ukuvela kwisikolo samabanga aphantsi xa abantwana behluleke zaba ziinkampani ezincinci kwaye bachonge inkokeli yabo, njengoko uqonda, intombazana ekwinkcazo yethu ayibakho. Kwaye kuphela ugqirha wengqondo onobuchule uyakwazi ukutshintsha isimo sengqondo ngaye, ngaphandle kwalonto, ibhinqa eliselula lineengxaki ezininzi kwixesha elizayo.
Inkosikazi inzima ukuthatha isigqibo nangaliphi na isenzo
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Uninzi lwalumangalisa ukuba ujikeleze indlela abangqongileyo. Ngapha koko, yonke into ilula, siya kuxela iimpawu eziphambili zokungaqiniseki. Ukuba uqaphela kakhulu ngokunxulumene nawe, cinga ngayo kunokwenzeka, okwangoku ungabutshintsha ubomi bakho.
Ibhinqa alinyamezeli izincomo kwidilesi yakhe
Sikwazile ukufumanisa ukuba zonke iingxaki nge-psyche zihamba kwasebuntwaneni, okuthetha ukuba ukuqonda ngokwabo bathathe apho. Ukuba umntu obhinqileyo uqala ukudumisa, bathetha ngamandla akhe, kwaye endaweni yokwamkela izincomo, iqala ukuzithethelela kwaye ivume ngokuchaseneyo - okuphantsi komntwana, ukuba ukhona Kulungile njengabo bonke abanye, ukuba akubi kakhulu. Ngofakelo olunje kunzima ukukholelwa kuwe.
Kunzima ukuba angavumi
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Uhlala ehleli
"Ndiqhelana njani nale ndoda, ilunge kakhulu kum!", "Andiyi kuyithenga le nto, ndityebile kakhulu!" Uqhelekile? Uninzi lunentombi ezifana neentombi ezithethelela ukudityaniswa kwabo kwezizathu eziqinileyo ezingezizo.
Umfazi akakwazi ukuba uthini "Hayi"
Ukusukela kumfazi ongaqinisekanga kuxhomekeka kuluvo loluntu, luya kuhlala luvumelana nazo zonke izindululo, nokuba aziyithandi. Kwenye indawo ngaphakathi kwayo iyamelana, kodwa ivulekile ukwala umntu ayinakukwazi - ngequbuliso abayi kuyiqonda kwaye abayi kuphinda banxibelelane.
UYAJONGA IXESHA
Abantu abanjalo kunzima kakhulu ukwenza isigqibo kwaye bangaphambuki kwindawo ekhulelwe. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, umfazi ongaqinisekanga uya kucinga ixesha elide, emva koko ahangele umsebenzi onoxanduva lomnye umntu, kuba le yeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo yokungaphenduli ngezenzo zakho.
Abantu abanjalo bambi kumfowunelwa
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