Kwixesha, xa ibhinqa liziva lizimela ngaphandle kwenani elininzi, kwaye "liyanceda" kule ngubo yiyo yonke le ndawo siyingqongileyo: zosapho, abahlobo, abahlobo, abahlobo, abahlobo, abahlobo. Sizame ukufumanisa ukuba intwana eneminyaka engama-30 ubudala ihlala njani ehlabathini apho abafazi kunye noomama abavuyayo.
Imeko yoMbutho ngokungakhathali
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Uloyiko olusisigxina lokugwetywa
Kuphela livila aliyi kuchaza ibhinqa eliselula ngaphandle kokungabikho "losapho oluqhelekileyo", kufanelekile ukwenzela umphambili weminyaka engama-30 ubudala. Nangona kunjalo, vumelani ngokwabo - ubumangaliswe ngabafazi abaqhelekileyo abangakhange bafumane imali kunye nabantwana abaliqela kwiminyaka embalwa. Ngoku ungayiva le meko kumava akho.
Ukuba "unethamsanqa" kunye nezalamane, emehlweni apho usapho luphela kuphela injongo yomfazi, hlala unzima kakhulu. Ngo-20, okwangoku awukabimisekiwe ukuba lixesha lokucinga ngomtshato. Hayi. Uqalisa nje ukufunda ubomi bomdala, kodwa kufutshane nokuchulumanca kwentsapho: Umama wakho uqalisa ukoyisa izalamane ezinde ngentlawulelo: "Ewe, ewe, kungenjalo, ewe?" Kwaye umama wam sele eshiywe ukuba angakunqande phambi kwezalamane. Kodwa emva kwethuba elithile, iya kuqala ukukhathazeka umbuzo wokuba nesizungu, kunye nengcinezelo ngaphakathi kwesangqa esikufutshane ukuze ihlale inzima.
Sukuzithoba ngokwakho
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Ngeli xesha, ngeli xesha andifuni kuchitha ixesha lakho komnye umntu: Udanile, unako ukuyeka ukuhambahamba kwihlabathi liphela, thenga yonke into oyibonayo, yenze into oyithandayo. Kwaye umntu makanciphise ubomi bakho?
Kwimeko apho ilizwe liphela lingafuni ukukuqonda, akunakwenzeka ukuba kuchaphazele ufakelo lwakho. Izihlobo kunye nabahlobo banokungazi yonke into: Mhlawumbi ubuyifumene izandla ezininzi kwaye iintliziyo, zingaphi abantu, njengokuba la madoda avele ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Kwaye ngubani onokuqinisekisa ulonwabo emtshatweni? Akukho mntu waziyo ukuba ngubani oza kuba ngumntu onjalo noxolo onokuthi uxelele kwi-ofisi yobhaliso. " Kwaye uya kubandezeleka kolu lwalamano uya kuba, kwaye ungasondeli, ozama ngenkuthalo ukutshata.
Isizungu sinokwenzeka kunye nomyeni
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Xa ingcinga yomtshato iya kunityelela ngaphandle kongenelelo lwangaphandle-kuphela kule meko ungaqala ukukhangela umntu. Ngokukodwa ukusukela ngoku ayiyongxaki konke konke, kufanelekile ukujonga ngeenxa zonke kwaye uya kuwabona amanzi, enesizathu esithile esingazange sinikele ingqalelo. Yenza ukuthanda kwentliziyo kwaye ungavumeli abanye baphile ubomi bakho.