Iphupha lokuphula ngaphandle kweofisi ye-strey kwaye uvule ishishini lakho? Ixesha elide ufuna ukusebenza kuwe kwaye uyeke ukufezekisa imiyalelo yabasemagunyeni, kodwa awazi ukuba aqale phi? Woyika ukuba ukuba uyawushiya umsebenzi ozinzileyo, awukwazi ukwenza imali konke konke?
Uloyiko lwethu luhlala lusinyanzela ukuba silahlekelwe koko sinokufumana ukuba soyika. Amathandabuzo acima zonke iintlobo zamathemba, musa ukunika umbono wokubamba, iphawula umntu kwisakhelo esiqinileyo, esoyika ukuphuma.
Uloyiko luyasithintela kuthi. Kodwa ivela phi? Kwaye njani ukohlula?
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Masijongane.
1. Sihlala sisoyikisa amanani.
Iinkcukacha-manani zedatha eqokelelweyo. Ngokuphathekayo ukuthetha, le yindlela "yenzeka ngayo kwisininzi." Kwaye oku "kakhulu" kusenza sinikezele izandla. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngokweenkcukacha-manani, ezingama-90 kwezi-100 zokuqalisa ukhula kumnyaka wokuqala. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka phantse wonke umntu, kuya kwenzeka kum?
Kule meko, akufuneki ukuba ulingane "nonke". Kutheni uqinisekile ukuba uza kuba nesiphumo?
Wonke umntu unendlela yakhe. Ungavela kubunzima obungaphelela kwaye ube yinto engaphandle ko "uninzi".
2. Soyika ukuphuma kwindawo yokuthuthuzela.
Umntu usoloko esoyika ukushiya indawo ukusuka kwisithuba, into ekufuneka itshintshe ebomini. Ngakumbi ukuba ucinga ukuba ucinga ukuba ulindelwe ngakumbi.
Ndiza kukuxelela malunga namava am.
Ngaphezu kweminyaka elishumi ndisebenze ngempumelelo kwinkonzo yengqondo kaMasipala. Kwaye ngokukhula komsebenzi, yonke into yayilungile - ndikhulele kwi-psychologist elula kwiNtloko yeSebe. Kwinkqubo yomsebenzi, kwakukho amava amakhulu (bobabini abathengi kunye nabaqeqeshi), ulwazi oluninzi, izakhono, kodwa emva koko baziva ukuba umdla ekusebenzeni ulahlekile, kwaye ndifuna ukuqhubeka. Okwalo mzuzu ndaziqonda ukuba, ukuba ngoku andinguye "uRvan" apha, ndiyakwazi ukukhohlisa apha kwipenshoni, kodwa andifuni kufihlakala.
Umsebenzi ozinzileyo uhlala usinika ukukhohlisa nokuthembeka. Nokuba umsebenzi uphantsi. Rhoqo ngenyanga ufumana malunga nenani elifanayo, ungacwangcisa iindleko zakho. Awudingi ukuba unexhala lokuba imali iya "ifike" kancinci okanye awuyi kufumana le nyanga konke konke.
Nangona kunjalo, umi endaweni yoko. Awunampumelelo.
Into entsha ukuqala ihlala isoyikisa, kodwa zama ukucinga ngekamva.
3. Amantombazana akakhathalelanga umngcipheko. Esi sisiseko samadoda.
Umfazi ngumsitho wojoliso uhlala uthathwa ngummelwane. Ngenxa yoku, siphazamisa ngakumbi kwaye silumkele ngakumbi. Asithandi ukuba semngciphekweni, iyayeka kakhulu.
Mhlawumbi kunjalo. Kodwa apha unokufumana indlela yokuphuma kule meko.
Ngekhe ndigqibe ngalo naluphi na ukuqalisa (kunye "nomncedisi wakho ebomini" nguye) ukuba awunguye umntu othandabuzayo, ugqirha wezengqondo kunye nomsunguli weprojekthi - iVIVIM KHOLTOV.
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4. Ukuba yingcali kwishishini lakhe akwanele.
Kuyimfuneko ukuba usebenzise iindlela zokukhuthaza, isiseko sorhwebo. Unokuba yingcali yengqondo entle okanye ingcali enamava, kodwa ukuqalisa incinci, kodwa ishishini.
Kwaye ishishini lelinye.
Kuya kufuneka ukuba uqonde intengiso, i-niche yakho yabathengi, ukwazi ukwakha isithembiso sexabiso, sazi abo bakhuphisana, phuhlisa intengiso. Konke oku kufuna ukukhula komntwana omtsha, mhlawumbi phambukele ngokupheleleyo, ulwazi.
Kodwa yonke into iyinyani! Yonke into inokufumaneka, ukufunda, ukuhlalutya, ukuqonda yonke into. Funa nje ukuncamathisela umzamo omncinci.
Ke, ukuba umsebenzi wangasazi novuyo, kwaye ude uphuphe ixesha lokuqalisa, isenzo.
Khawufane ucinge ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni kuwe kwiminyaka embalwa, ukuba kusafuneka usebenze ngalo msebenzi. Kwaye emva koko cinga ngendlela onokutshintsha ngayo ubomi bakho ukuba uvula ishishini lakho. Ndicinga ukuba uya kuziva umahluko. Impumelelo kwimisebenzi emitsha!