Kunzima ukucinga ukuba umntwana-uthatha umntwana ngaphandle kokufunda kakuhle. Makhe sithathe isigqibo malunga nemixholo: Imbeko elungileyo-yintoni?
Ngokuyintloko:
- Ukuchaneka (i-hygiene yobuqu, indlela yokuziphatha kwetafile, isimo sengqondo sokuqonda izinto, ukususwa kwenkunkuma).
- Incoko enesidima, yitsho kakuhle, enkosi, ucele uxolelo).
- Imfesane (ukuzithoba kwabancinci, isilwanyana).
- Ukunyamezelana (ukuhlonipha kunye nentlonipho kwabo bangafaniyo nawe: Abantu bolunye ilizwe, inqanaba lemfundo, ubutyebi, njl.njl.).
- Inkcubeko yoNxibelelwano (imbeko kubadala, kumfazi, amandla okunika uncedo lwabo).
Iingcali zengqondo ziyakhala ukuba ulwazi lubaluleke kakhulu kwizenzo zabazali. Ukunxibelelana nomntwana, kwanele ukugcina iimpendulo kwimibuzo emibini entlokweni yam: "Ndenza ntoni?" Kwaye "kutheni le nto ndiyenza le nto?" Ke kutheni ufuna imbeko, kutheni kubaluleke kakhulu ukugonya ukwaluphala? Nyaka ngamnye kuluntu lwethu ngakumbi nangaphezulu. Ukuba umntu ovela kubudala obutsha ufunda ukuba abe nobude, ukuba athobele imilinganiselo yokuziphatha, ekulula ukuyiveza ngokungqongqo, ke oko kwixesha elizayo ithethwe lula kuyo nayiphi na indawo yentlalo, iya kuba nakho ukwakha a ubudlelwane kwiqela, ziya kuthembela.
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Uninzi lwabaphambukeli baphambene kakhulu, abazabalazela ukuhambisa abantwana babo. Umzekelo, i-on-and-umntwana omnye ukusuka eBerlin uyazi ngokuqinileyo igama elinye - iDanke (Enkosi). Utata oqhelekileyo wayefunda intombi yakhe ikwandisa intombi yakhe uSophie enkosi, unenyanga nje ezisithoba. Kodwa ayinamsebenzi, kuba inokutsala intloko kwaye incume. ULeonardo oneminyaka emibini ubudala ukusuka kwiVenice, ejonge abazali, sele efundile ukuba alawule ngefolokhwe kunye nesitshetshe. UAlexander oneminyaka emibini oneminyaka emibini evela eSri Lanka wafundisa ngekho intsingiselo kuphela, kodwa nezandla zabo. Bamkelwe kakhulu. Kwi-Sri Lanka, abantwana abaneedayisi bafundisa ngononophelo ukuba baphathe yonke into ephila, bazame ukungakhubeki mntu. Kukho nokufunda nokuhlonela abadala. Ke, bonke oomakhulu apha igama lika-Accochi, oko akunandaba, umntwana wakhe ngumntwana okanye akunjalo. EJamani, oomama bahlala beguqukela kubantwana babo besebenzisa uyilo lwexeshana (i-konjiketiv II). Ijika inesibongozo kakhulu isibongozo, iya kuvakalisa into enje: "Ngaba ungazisusa iithoyi zakho?". AmaJamani aqhele ukuze anxibelelane kwaye angafane abuze enye into ngqo.
Ukuziphatha okuhle okuqala ngamasuntswana "akunanto". Nantsi ubuncinci bamazwe aphesheya kwitayitile ye "Flatleman okanye inenekazi". Akunakwenzeka:
1. Khetha empumlweni.
2. Impumlo yokuthambisa.
3. Ukugula okuphuma kwinto ethile kwizikhonkwane.
4. ZIYABONAKALA ILeqanda etafileni.
5. Thetha ngomlomo.
6. Skat kwisitulo.
7. Ukulwa ngaphandle kwesizathu.
8. Khetha iithoyi.
9. Ukuthatha izinto zabanye abantu.
10. ukuphazamisa ukuthetha.
11. Thetha ngokuvakalayo ngezothutho, xubusha abakhweli.
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Zonke ii-moms, endikwazi ukulawula, ndidibanise kwinto enkulu: Kuyimfuneko ukuqala kwakho. Akunakwenzeka ukuba ufundise umntwana ukuba agobe iithoyi zakhe ukuba ngaba izitya zoomama zinee-cosmetics zasasazeka kwindlu. Oomama abaninzi bathetha ngendlela yokufundisa imbeko kunzima ukwahlukana nokukhuliswa xa kunjalo. Emini, ukuba umama uhlala enxibelelana naye ngokusondeleyo nosana, uya kuhlala eguqula ingqalelo yakhe kwindlela aziyisule ngayo imilenze yendlu, apho kufuneka wenze ntoni na xa uyenza. Kuyinyani ukuba ufundise umntwana ngemithetho engamkelekanga ngaphandle kokunyanzelwa, amaxesha ngamaxesha achaphazela indlela aziphethe ngayo.
Abantwana bahlala bevuya xa bethetha iintsomi kuzo. Ke ngoko, iimayile zidlula kulwimi lwe-Allegory kunye namabali omlingo. Okanye baphendukela uncedo kwiingcali, kuba isihloko sendlela elungileyo siyenzile uninzi lweentsomi ezifundiswayo, imibongo, iikhathuni kunye nemidlalo. Olu khetho lulungele ngokugqibeleleyo kweRekoxo, ukusuka kwiminyaka emithathu ukuya kwesixhenxe. Kukho abo oomama abaqinisekileyo: akunyanzelekanga ukuba bakhawulezise ubume bomntwana-njengoko ingqondo ivuthwa, iya kufikelela kuyo yonke into. Kubalulekile ukuba benze umoya wothando olungenamiqathango kunye nokwamkelwa komntwana abengowomnye umntu. Benza isikhokelo sivumelekile, sukubaphazamisane nentetho yazo zonke iimvakalelo. Kwigama, phantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko aziphumi umntwana kwaye ungayiqhubi phantsi kwemigangatho. Abazali abanjalo, benza zonke iimeko zophuhliso, ziphelelwe ecaleni. Babukele ngononophelo kuphela indlela umntwana wabo aguqukele kumntu ofundileyo, njengabo.
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Qala nawe. Nikela ingqalelo kwindlela oziphethe ngayo kunye nembonakalo, ekhaya, kubudlelwane bakho nomyeni wakho nasekhaya. Iimfuneko zabantwana ziqala ngeemfuno zazo.
Xhasa zonke iziqalo zomntwana. Umhlobo wam uTimoti yiminyaka eyi-3.5 kuphela ubudala, kodwa ngovuyo unceda umama wakhe ukuba apheke: ibetha iqanda, iintyatyambo nge-cheke yekhekhe kwikhekhe. Ungontanga wakhe waseSysatoslav - ngokwakhe uthatha i-mop. Aba bantwana azange bajikene ezine, kodwa bangenza njani ngokuzingca zezamidlalo zabantu abadala! Thatha umzekelo kumntwana wakho, nyuse umsebenzi emphefumlweni wam. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, ukudunyiswa, ngaphandle kwesiphumo.
Iintsomi zefayili, iikhathuni, izinto ezenziwayo. Kubalulekile ukuba ufunde kuphela, bonisa, thatha, kodwa uxoxe. Ngubani uligorha elifanelekileyo? Uza kufika njani umntwana kwindawo yophawu oluphambili? Ke yonke into icingelweyo ifundile ngcono. Umzekelo:
Umdlalo "I-Euseik kunye ne-GEMS emihlanu yemilingo" iya kudibanisa amazwi athobekileyo ezingqondweni zomntwana.
I-fale-phelelo "i-alfabhethi ye-alfabhethi" iLlumnila vasilyeva-Gangnus iya kunceda ukubethelela izakhono zokuziphatha zabantwana. Umbhali ubhenela emntwaneni nakumzali.
Iikhathuni malunga ne-cota leopold-umzekelo obalaseleyo wobubele kunye nobuhlobo.
Ifilimu (okanye incwadi) v. Ingxowa yeapile yeapile "ziya kufundisa umntwana ukuba abe nesisa, akabawa.
Umbongo we-S. Marshak "isifundo siyintlonelo" sinokufundwa yintliziyo kunye nevoti kumaxesha afanelekileyo.
Cwangcisa iiholide. Ngaso nasiphi na isihloko, yithi "usuku lwegqabi eliluhlaza lokuqala". Ngelixa kukho ukulungiselela umbhiyozo, unokufunda kwaye uhombise igumbi, ukupheka, inkonzo yetafile, imidlalo yeNtlanganiso, imidlalo yabantwana ngokubanzi. Amangeniso anjalo aya kufundisa umntwana ukuba aziphathe nabantu, abambelele etafileni, afumane iindwendwe. Ndamkela iiholide ezinjalo, bendilungiselela ixesha elide, ndaye ndabonisana nomama, ndeza neendlela ezintle nothotyelo.
Imicimbi edibeneyo iya kuzisa uthando emsebenzini. Ngcono xa intombazana inceda uMama, kwaye inkwenkwe inguTata. Umzekelo, intombi yam ihlala indinceda ukuba ndilayishe kwaye ndilayishe impahla yangaphantsi komatshini wokuhlamba, ukuqala ezimbini ngomsila wonyaka. Oonyana bakaTata banokwenza ukuba umntu ofele iintaka, lungisa isherifu eyaphukileyo. Ukuqala, kwanele ukuzisa nokugcina izixhobo.
Nika umntwana ukuba aqole. UMaxim ukusuka kwiminyaka emibini ubudala izisa isitulo sikagogo xa esiya kutyelela. Umama Maxim akaze ambuze: ukumka, inkwenkwe iguqula ngokwakhe inyathelo lokuqala.
Iimeko zemodeli. Wena nomntwana uya kuba nephulo lethiyetha okanye ukuwela ixesha elide, apho imeko ingaqhelekanga kwaye kukho imigaqo yokuziphatha. Okanye amaxesha akhubekisa abantwana kwindawo. Ke ngale ndlela kuwe. Splash isicatshulwa somsitho ozayo, kwaye emva koko uyidlale kwindima.
Khumbula ukuba abantwana bahlala beziphethe ngendlela efanelekileyo xa benganamsebenzi. Nangona kunzima, gcina ukuzola ngaphakathi, ungene kwinto yokuba umntwana uza kubaphatha kakuhle. Yibani. Kuba umntwana unokulibala ukuhlamba izandla zakhe ukuba ugcwele iimpembelelo zohambo, akufuneki ukucoca amazinyo angakhathali. Nikeza ukususa ii-toys kunye, ngokufuthi umntwana onovuyo uyenza kunye nabazali bakhe. Nantoni na oyikhethayo, musa ukulinda iziphumo ezikhawulezayo. Thanda umntwana wakho kwaye ungalibali: ungumzekelo ophambili kuye.
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