Elinye lawona mandla ngamaphupho anawuphi na umzali yindawo yabantwana evenkileni. Ngumntu ozinzileyo ngokweemvakalelo unokuziphendula ngokuzolileyo kwi-kukhala yomntwana embindini wesihlwele kwindawo yokuthenga. Ngelishwa, uninzi lwabazali luye kuyo yonke into, ukuba kuphela umntwana obanjiweyo kwaye wayeka umdla. Emva koko, sagqiba kwelokuba sifunde indlela yokuziphatha ngendlela enjalo ukuze iphinde ibe ngaphezulu nangaphantsi.
Yenze ibali
Umntwana okhulileyo, okukhulu ngakumbi kwimpembelelo yamazwi obuzali. Khawufane ucinge ukuba umntwana uthenga embindini wevenkile yokugcina imali: Zama ukutshintsha ingqalelo yakhe yonke into ethile, umzekelo, umbonise into ethile kwishelufa elandelayo: "Khangela, into entle ye-cocoa intle! Masithathe? " Rhoqo olu tshintsho lwanele ukuba umntwana abe nomdla kwinto entsha, kodwa kuphela ukuba uyazi ukuba awunamsebenzi wokukucenga-uhlala ume ngokwakho.
Nokuba yeyiphi na abantu abahamba ngayo
Kukho kuphela wena nomntwana wakho. Ezona zikujikelezile azikhathali imeko yakho, zinikela ingqalelo kuphela kwisandi esikhulu. Umsebenzi wakho kukuzisa umntwana, kwaye ngale nto kufuneka uxinezeleko kuphela kuyo. Okokuqala, kufuneka uzolile, emva kwalo mntwana uthole. Emva koko, ngaphandle kokusetyenziswa kwalo naluphi na ubundlobongela, qala ukuthetha nomntwana, yitsho ukuba uyayiqonda indlela ekunzima ngayo kuye, kwaye ubuye kumaqhinga okutshintsha.
Yenza uluhlu
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Bhala iimvakalelo zakhe
Umntwana uyalila, kuba etyhuthelwe ziimvakalelo, ezingakwaziyo ukuwaxela abantu abadala ngenxa yobudala. Kule meko, kuya kufuneka umncede umntwana wakho, ukuba ahlwayela naye kwinqanaba elifanayo aze athi: "Uyacaphuka, ndiyaqonda, kwaye ndibuhlungu kangangokuba akukho buhlungu ngokwenene ukuba asinakuyithenga. Ukhathazekile, ke ufuna ukulila. " Kwangelo xesha, kubalulekile ukuba singanikeli ingqalelo kubahlohli "ababukeli" kwaye bathabatha kancinci umntwana ecaleni kude kube yindawo enqwenelekayo.
Cwangcisa ukuthenga kwakho
Eyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yokuphepha i-hysteria 'elunxwemeni "iya kuba kukudala isiko elinje: umntwana ngaphambi kokuba uye kwivenkile ubhale kwinqaku leliphi ixesha lokuxoxa malunga nokuthenga. Masithi, kuhambo oludlulileyo oluya evenkileni, wena kunye nomntwana wabona into yokudlala ngelo xesha kwakungekho mali, -Yizisa kuluhlu olulandelayo. Kule meko, umntwana akasayi kuba neemvakalelo ukuba uyala kuye onakalisayo.