Ukukhula komsebenzi kunikwa amabhinqa amaninzi anzima ngakumbi kunamadoda. Akukho mntu uya kuphikisana noku, kuba sonke siyaziqonda izinto kunye nobunzima bokwakha umsebenzi kwilizwe lethu. Kwaye le asiyongxelo yevoti, iqinisekisiwe ngophando oluninzi apho abantu baphawula ukuba abantu, hayi isini esifanelekileyo, sinokunyusa ileli yomsebenzi.
Ezo meko zihlala zikhokelela ekuvelisweni kweemvakalelo zokungazithembi kunye nokuzithemba ekungakwazini kwabo ukufumana ukwanda. Kodwa oku akunjalo, nawuphi na umfazi onokuphumelela ekusebenzeleni kwakhe ukuze aza kuqwalasela ngokufanelekileyo.
Zibeke usukelo
Inyathelo lokuqala lokufumana umsebenzi ophumelelayo kukubekwa ngokuchanekileyo kwenjongo. Amadoda nabafazi abaninzi bayawugcina lo mthetho, sichitha ixesha elininzi ekucwangcisweni kweholide okanye ukuya kumhla, kodwa phantse singacingi ngento esifuna ukuyiphumeza kwicandelo lethu lobuchule.
Umsebenzi wakhiwa njengesakhiwo, ikwafuna icebo eliqingqiweyo kunye neprojekthi equlunqwe, ke iyimfuneko ukuba yenzeke kuqala. Kuya kufuneka uphendule imibuzo yakho:
-Ufuna ntoni ekugqibeleni?
-Yintoni injongo yakho?
- ngawaphi amanyathelo ekufuneka ewenza ukufezekisa okufunwayo?
Kuya kufuneka ukwazi ukusondela kwinjongo, unikwe amandla akho. Ukuba namhlanje usebenza njengomlindi, emva koko kwiiveki ezintathu akunakulindeleka ukuba ube ngumphathi wevenkile yokutyela.
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Fumana ukuba kutheni ufuna impumelelo
Xa izicwangciso zokufezekisa impumelelo kwi-PAYP yenziwa, kuyimfuneko ukuqonde ukuba ufuna ntoni kanye kanye. Izizathu zempumelelo enqwenelekayo inokuba yeyona yahlukile:
-Umnqweno wokufumana imeko entsha kunye nokwamkelwa;
-Umnqweno wokufumana imali eninzi yokuthenga imoto, amagumbi okanye ithuba lokufumana ithuba lokuhamba rhoqo kwihlabathi liphela;
- umnqweno wokuvela kwintsimi yabo, hamba ngaphaya kwemisebenzi enesidima, sebenza kwiiprojekthi ezinomdla;
-Umnqweno wokubonisa zonke iimpawu zakhe aze abe yinkokeli.
Ngapha koko, kunokwenzeka ukuba bafune impumelelo kwaye ngenxa nje yokufezekiswa ngokwayo, izinto ezinokwenzeka.
Ukuziqhelanisa, kuhlala kukho izizathu ezimbalwa, kwaye kokukhona, okona kunamandla okhuthazwe impumelelo, impumelelo oyiyo egxalabeni.
Ukuqonda into ekukhuthaza ngqo ukuba ufezekise impumelelo, unokulungiselela ngcono ukukhuthaza izitepsi zamakhondo omsebenzi, kulula ukoyisa nayiphi na imiqobo, kuba uya kusiqonda isizathu sokuba wenze imizamo.
Fumana ixesha lakho kunye nabathandekayo
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Lungiselela Impumelelo
Umfazi ngamnye kufuneka alungiselele impumelelo kwaye athathe uxanduva lomsebenzi ophumelelayo. Impumelelo ebomini ngamadoda nabafazi banezinto ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba indoda igxile kwizibonelelo zenyama, ke umfazi akanakulibala ngaye. Kuya kufuneka ukuba uziva wonwabile, kuba, engalibali iinjongo zayo, kuyafuneka ukuba sijonge kwedwa, izalamane zabo kunye nabathandekayo. Abantu abathandekayo akufuneki bazive belityelweyo kwaye banesithukuthezi ngelixa unyuka ngezitepsi. Kwaye akufuneki ulibale ngenkangeleko yakho nempilo yakho.
Le mpumelelo iza kumfazi xa engathandiyo kuphela umsebenzi wakhe, kodwa naye, ephila ngokwakhe, ehlala naye, uhlala eyindoda, engayithathi inkoliso yendoda.
Ingxaki enkulu kwindlela eya empumelelweni ikwaninzi kokuvala izimo zengqondo kunye neenkqubo, sithintela obizwa ngokuba lokoyika. Ngamnye wethu wafumana ukusilela okuninzi kubo bonke ubomi, siqhele kwaye sinokuphila, kodwa impumelelo yokwenyani ikwiyunithi kuphela. Kodwa ifihliwe ayiphumeleli kuphela, ukuziqonda kunye nezibonelelo zezinto ezibonakalayo, kodwa nezinto ezininzi ezingathandekiyo:
-Ukunkqantoso ogwebo, ohlala uthelekiswa nokoyika ukufa;
-Koyika ukuvumela iimpazamo;
-Koyika ngaphambi komona, njl.
Ibhinqa kufuneka likhululwe kuzo zonke izitshixo ezivimba indlela yakhe yokuya emsebenzini. Xa uyazi malunga nokufakelwa, kulula ukuzibona ngokwakho, ukuqonda nokuba ukhuphele. Kule meko, ukufezekiswa kwempumelelo kuya kuba lula kwaye kuya kuthatha ixesha elincinci.