Ngelixa omnye abazali bathumela umntwana kubakhulu, efuna ukuchitha i-odwa kunye nomnye, okunye ukusuka kubudala bokuqala bafundisa umntwana onesilinganiselo se-upebscy. Xa endlwini, ihlonipha ilungelo lokufumana indawo yomntu, iingxaki zokubonakala ngequbuliso ze-chad i-chad ayiveli - udla ngokunkqonkqoza emnyango ngaphambi kokungena. Ngaba usacinga ukuba awuyifuni? Apha ngezantsi kukho izizathu ezininzi ezitshintsha ikhosi yeengcinga zakho.
Akukho lolawulo
Ngelixa ugcina umbono entlokweni yam, ukuba umntwana angene kwigumbi lokulala ngexesha elingalunganga, iingqondo zakho zikroliweyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba awukwazi ukuphumla kwaye ukonwabele inkqubo endaweni yexhala elingabonakaliyo. Ii-Intanethi zezesondo zicebisa ukuba zinyanzelwe ukubeka iJekold okanye inqaba emnyango, nje ukuba umntwana azalwe. Ke unokukhula ngokukhuselekileyo, ulale ngaphandle kwengubo yangaphantsi - kwilizwi, hlalani ngathi ubungaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana. Nokuba ungcono, ukuba uyifaka itshixa ebhokisini ngeethoyi zerhasi kunye nengubo yangaphantsi, eya kuthi iphele imibuzo engafunekiyo kwimeko yokufunyanwa ngengozi yezi zinto.
Beka isitshixo emnyango
Imfundo ene-diaper
Kunzima ukuvumela amanani, bangaphi abantu abakhalazile ngokuphulwa kwendawo yabo yabazali babazali babo. Nangona kunjalo, ngaba ukhona umntu owayecinga ukuba bangaphi abantwana abaphula indawo yabazali? Akunakwenzeka, kwaye ngelize. Umzuzu obalulekileyo wokufundisa kukubonisa umntwana oyihloniphayo umda wakhe wokuthuthuzela kwaye ungacingi ukuba awuyigqume ngaphandle kwemvume. Ukunkqonkqoza ngaphambi kokungena kwigumbi labantwana, musa ukuhleka ngaphandle kwemfuno kwigumbi lokuhlambela kwaye ungachukumisi izinto zakho zeChad. Ukubona abazali besondela kuye, umntwana uya kuqalisa ukamkela imbeko. Le mithetho iya kuqhutywa kwinqanaba elingaziyo kwaye iya kudlala indima ebalulekileyo kwixesha elizayo - wonke umntu uyawahlonela abantu abaphakanyisiweyo kwaye bafuna ukuba ngabahlobo nabo.
Umntwana kufuneka alale ebhedini yakhe
Ukungena kwindawo yayo
Ukwazi ukuba ucango lwegumbi lokulala lwabazali luvaliwe kwinqaba, umntwana akachukumisi ukufudukela ebhedini yakho. Umkhwa wabantwana kungcono ukuyeka kwingcambu, ukuze kungabikho ngxaki kamva, xa uswele indawo ebhedini yakho ngenxa yomntwana elele kwindawo yenkanyezi. Kungcono ukulandela imizuzu emi-5 egqithisileyo kwi-crib yakhe kwaye uxelele i-fale-ke umnike ixesha kwaye ungazenzakalisi. Kwimicimbi yemfundo, kungcono ukungavumeli imvumelwano: Abantwana balumkile ngokwaneleyo ukuba bakwazi ukweyisela ukubonakaliswa kobuso kunye namagama athambileyo ukuze baphembelele nantoni na.
Ndixelele izimvo, wenza ntoni? Vumela umntwana angene ngaphandle kokunkqonkqoza okanye angavumeli kwigumbi lokulala ngokubanzi?