Nawuphi na umfazi uyayazi indlela indoda enokutyezwa kukungafani ngokulula kwesondo, ukwenzela izizathu eziliwaka elingahambelani nenyaniso. Ingxaki kukuba abafazi abaninzi bangavumi ukuba baphosakele, benika umntu okwiphepha lokuthandabuza kwakhe kumtsalane kumfazi wabo. Sigqibe kwelokuba siqokelele ezona ngcebiso zisebenzayo eziya kunceda ukuba bachaze umntu ukuba umntu ngokuhlwa namhlanje akasayi kubakho ngxaki yangokuhlwa.
Chaza ixesha
Akufanele uphendule isigwebo sendoda: "Hayi, andifuni," kukhathazeka kakhulu. Indoda iyakuthatha oko ukuba inikezele kamva-kanye njengento engenantsingiselo, usayala. Okanye iqabane linokuphendula ngobuchule obukhulu. Nika ukulibaziseka, umzekelo, ndixelele ukuba uyakumka ngomso okanye nangaliphi na ixesha. Indoda esele ikho le nto iya kuyeka ukukopela.
Oonobangela bomfazi banokwanela
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Akukho rhabaxa
Siyaqhubeka nokulandela amaqhinga okunoxolo kwaye sikuphephe nakuphi na ukungathobeli nakuqala ekuqaleni. Ukuze angavumeli imbambano, inyibiliki ithoni kunye nethoni yoqoqosho - amadoda ahlala ephendula ngokuphendula ngobukrelekrele kakhulu. Eyona nto imbi kakhulu-ukuchaza iintsilelo zendoda okanye ukuqala ukwenza ukuzonwabisa, mhlawumbi, eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuphanga ubudlelwane abungekho. Lawula iimvakalelo zakho.
Ngaba unayo enye indlela?
Eyona ndlela intle kwaye unganikezeli ukunxibelelana ngesondo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye kuthi phe ukubelana ngesondo ngokuqonda kweklasikhi. Rhoqo yenzeka kuloo mzuzu ungathandekiyo xa inzala yeqabane ivusa kwi-incoak ye-piak yomjikelo wakho wokuya esikhathini xa umntu obhinqileyo ecinga ngesondo ucinga. Kutheni ungazami ukuzinqumla kwindawo yokufumana amandla kunye nesondo lesini somlomo? Kunqabile ukuba le ndoda iyacaphuka malunga noku.
Yazisa izicwangciso zakho kwangaphambili
Njengomthetho, ukuvuma ngokuhlwa unothando, thina sinika ithemba kwindoda. Kutheni ungamlumkisi kwangaphambili, uzisa ingxoxo ebalulekileyo ukuze uthanda nje ngokuhlwa okuhle, kodwa ungabi qhiya ubusuku obumnandi. Kubalulekile ukuba ungabhatali apha, kodwa ukunyaniseka, kutheni namhlanje andikufanelekanga ukuba ndingavumi ukwala kwakho iqabane, kwaye ukuxhathisa kwakho kunokuvuselela iimvakalelo ezimbi zeqabane.