Ngokweenkcukacha-manani, uqhawulo-mtshato yenye yezona meko zobomi zizothusayo zobomi. Abantu badlula kumtshato oqhubeka ngokuthe nkqo nolu hlobo lwengxaki njengokupeyinta, ukuwa kwezinto zokukhohlisa, ukuqhutywa kunye nokuzahlulahlula-hlulwa kwepropathi kunye no-on-ukwahlulwa kwemisebenzi yabazali. Ukongeza, isibini esixhaphakileyo sidlula kugwetywa kunye noogxa babo. Inqanaba elinzima lokwahlukana nokukhutshwa kufuneka lugqitywe ngokupheleleyo malunga neminyaka emi-3.
Le leta ingezantsi ithumele umfazi edlula ngoqhawulo-mtshato emva komtshato omde. Kubalulekile ukuthi uqhawulo-mtshato lubuhlungu, lusoyikiso kwidilesi yakhe nezityholo zokuba le ntlekele ilungele yena. Esi sibini sinomntwana okhulileyo oye waphila ngokwahlukeneyo iminyaka emininzi.
Ke: "Umhlobo wandinika imvulophu, ukuba ungasathethi-thetha ukuba ungubani. Ndaye ndabona ukuba yayivela kumyeni wangaphambili, njengakwimvulophu bekukho iifoto zam nomntwana wam. Ifoto i-stack yayinkulu, kodwa iifoto zam zingama-5, kwaye eminye imifanekiso yingxaki enzima. Ndivuka ndisothukile. "
Ewe kunjalo, ulala ubuka parano, uloyiko lwendoda enedaisy nomsindo wakhe wabonakaliswa kuye nomntwana wabo. Xa iminyaka emininzi yabafazi ihlala phantsi kobomi okanye ingqibelelo, ke uloyiko olo luvakale ngokupheleleyo. Ukulala kunceda ukukhululwa kwe-snovices kuxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo apho wayehlala khona iminyaka emininzi. Kwaye malunga noku, ukulala kubonakala ngokucacileyo ngenxa yokutolika.
Kodwa okwangoku, ndandingakhokeleli ngengozi kumzekelo wephupha, njengoko unokucingisisa ngesihloko soqhawulo mtshato kunye nokuhlulelana. CO COAK, kodwa utshintsho loKhetho lweNkcubeko luhambelana nesihloko soqhawulo mtshato. Malunga ne-100-50 kwiminyaka eyadlulayo yayinehlazo elikhulu kune. Xa isibini sifike kwisigqibo, mamela ntoni abangenanto yakwenza, ke uqhawulo-mtshato lulithuba lokuzikhulula kwimvumelwano yomthwalo.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho utyekelo lokufumana iqabane lakho langaphambili: "Uyakuze ke, wandibetha, akasebenzi." Ukumamela amaqabane akhoyo, ungabambelela intloko kwaye ungxame ukuze ufumane umntu oxela ngayo. Nangona kunjalo, musa ukundilahlekisa. Ngazo zonke ezi zinto zibhinqileyo, esi sibini sihlala kunye kangangexesha elithile, ngamanye amaxesha sikuyo iminyaka emininzi. Kwaye ngandlela thile zezona gusha mhlophe zimhlophe, ecaleni koko kwakuphila indoda eyingozi indoda, yakwazi ukuyisika kwaye iphinde yaziphindezela. Ubudlelwane bosapho bucebisa ukuba umdaniso uphakanyisiwe phakathi kwamaqabane. Umyeni ubetha, kodwa kwicala lomfazi, inkxaso ebanzi kunye nothando lwabantwana, iqabane lohlwaywa ngokuduma kunye nokwaliwa kwabo bathandayo. Okanye umfazi uyaguquka, kodwa unyanzela ukuba unetyala ngokhathalelo olukhethekileyo kunye nokungafundiswa ngumyeni wakhe.
Ke ngoko, mna ndicebisa ukuba ndikhangele kwizinto ezoyikisayo ngomyeni ka-Oriya, kodwa kwindlela yonke ilungu losapho, kwaye kuqala kumfazi wakhe wonke, azinzanga, kwaye nangokuzibonakalisa ezimbi zibangela ukuba ezona zinto zimbi nezimbiza zimbi .
Ungazibeki kwimpazamo: Abafazi banxilisayo okanye iziyobisi zeziyobisi zifuna umyeni onjalo, kwaye amadoda afuna umfazi ongalunganga okanye umfazi oxhomekeke kuye.
Ngaphezu koko, ukuba uthanda ukuhlasela kwaye ugxeke iqabane lakho, buza imibuzo: Kutheni le nto uyifunayo? Ngaba udala njani iimeko zobundlobongela okanye izoyikiso kubudlelwane bakho?
Kwaye ngamaphupha ethu, le yimibuzo eluncedo. Oku kuyakwenza ukuba inkqubo yoqhawulo-mtshato ibe yeyokwenyani kwaye ubudlelwane kunye nomntu owayefudula kakhulu kwaye acocwe.
Sinqwenela ithamsanqa lakhe! Kwaye ulinde imizekelo emitsha yamaphupha. Imizekelo yamaphupha akho ethunyelwa ngeposi: [email protected].
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin