Mhlawumbi, ebomini bethu yayingumntu ozokusenza siqiniseke ukuba amadoda aqwalasele abafazi njengento ethandekayo kwaye akukho nto. Akusoloko kunjalo, kunjalo, kodwa loo madoda adibana, kodwa akahlali ehlala eqonda ngokulula. Sinika imiqondiso eyi-6 ukuba le ndoda ayinazinjongo zinzulu kuwe, kwaye indlela yokwenza - qhubeka unobudlelwane okanye uzigqibezele.
Ufumana imiyalezo kuyo kwaye ufowunela kuphela ngokuhlwa.
Ngokwesiqhelo umntu ongacwangcisanga ukufaka unxibelelwano lwexesha elide nomfazi, babize iiyure ezithile, masithi, unxibelelana kuphela ekupheleni kosuku lokusebenza ngeempelaveki-umqondiso ombi, ukuba ubala into engaphezulu kwe nje ebhedini.
Ayingawo onke amadoda anqunyulweyo malunga neqabane elisisigxina
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Uhlala ethandana nawe
Ewe kunjalo, nangasiphi na isibini apho kukho amahlaya "ngezantsi kwebhanti", nangona kunjalo, xa imixholo encomekayo iba yinxalenye yencoko yakho, kufanelekile ukuba icinge ukuba iphakathi kwakho. Kwindoda elungiselelwe kakhulu, kulungile ukuba nomdla kungekuphela nje ngento oyinxibayo phantsi kwengubo, kodwa kwaye ushushu kangakanani ngaphambi kokuba uphume endlwini.
Awuzange ube nomhla wokwenyani
Ewe, ayingawo onke amadoda athabathela ekubenithandana, abantu abaninzi ekunzima nje ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zabo, nangona kunjalo, kwanamadoda athi, 'amadoda antsonkothileyo "aya kukwazisa, enye into engakhelwanga Unazo izicwangciso ezihamba kude, kule meko kwaye imihla ichitha ixesha kunye nemali.
Unokuzama ukuhlala kude
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Akafuni ukuba nesidlo sakusasa
Uchithe ngokugqibeleleyo usuku olungazange lube ngesondo kangako, kodwa endaweni yokugubungela kwaye ndikunqwenelela ubusuku obuhle, le ndoda iqala ukulilungisa, le ndoda iqala ukulilungisa. Isizathu sinokubakho: ekuqaleni ukuvuka, thabatha umakhulu kwagqirha, ifikile kwasekuseni - nantoni na eshiyekileyo. Ukuba le meko iphindaphindwa ukusuka kwixesha ukuya kube kanye, thetha kakhulu ngendoda.
Awunguye "kubahlobo" kuyo nayiphi na inethiwekhi yentlalo
Ukuba indoda ayi "kukhanya" kwiiakhawunti zakho, mhlawumbi akafuni kwazi iindawo ezikujikelezileyo ngawe. Isigqibo esingaqhelekanga xa abantu besakha ubudlelwane obukhulu. Kwenzeka ukuba indoda ayingomsebenzisi osebenzayo kwi-instagram efanayo, kule meko isenokuba sisizathu. Nangona kunjalo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba unabahlobo kunye nosapho ebomini bokwenyani, onalo kanye, kodwa ukuba le nto ayenzeki, buza umbuzo ngqo ngqo.
Akasebenzi kumabali akho
Udibene kwi-cafe: ubuneveki etyebileyo kwaye awuyi kulinda ukuba uxelele yonke indoda, kodwa endaweni yomntu onomdla ufumane inkangeleko, ngokungathi kukuthatha ixesha elithile onalo uvunyelwe ukuba "Khuphela". Akayi kukubuza imibuzo malunga nosapho lwakho, zihlobo, akunamdla. Cinga ukuba ufuna ubudlelwane obunjalo.
Ukuba akazizi abahlobo bakhe-uphawu olubi
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