Ukusebenza ngomfanekiso, sihlala sicinga ukuba wonke umntu uthathele ingqalelo: Ukuthathwa "ekuphumeni" kunye nomsebenzi weempahla ezintle, izihlangu ezifanelekileyo, ibhegi, isikhafu, isikhafu. Sijongeka sihle kwaye sizama ukudlulisela kwabo bakujikelezileyo umyalezo othile. Siyiyile yonke inyathelo lemihla ngemihla, siziva sikwiimeko.
Kwaye emva koko ... Ngequbuliso, imozulu enemvula ifakiwe, ukunyanzela ukuba sifumane iambrela kagogo wasemkhulu kwisisele kunye neentyatyambo. "Ungayigculeli emvuleni, igama elifanelekileyo ?! Le yiambrela! .. Kutheni le nto uchithe phezu kwakhe ?! "
Ke izindlu ziyabanda, kwaye sinxiba iisokisi ezifudumeleyo ezifudumeleyo ze-woboles kwi-roll. "Ngokufanelekileyo! Kwaye akukho mntu ubonayo! "
"Kwaye kwivenkile yeemveliso onokuthi uyokuya kwisuti yezemidlalo! Kwaye ebusika-kwaye konke kwisikhephe! Ngokwenyani, neurochko! Kwaye, ngandlela, unokuhamba nomntwana! "
Ngaba uyaziqonda wena okanye umntu ovela kubahlobo? .. Ngelishwa, ndingatsho kwisenzo esinikelwe yimizekelo ixhaphake kakhulu. Kwaye ngamnye kubo ubonakalisa ukuba umsebenzi owomfanekiso awuzange wenzeke. Umfanekiso ngumbono opheleleyo, urhulumente, ukubonisa ubungqina. Umfanekiso ongumChutyhali kukuqhubeka kwethu, ukuzithemba kwethu kwaye uzithande, nto leyo, enjengako, ibonakaliswa ngokwenyani, ngokweenkcukacha.
Ukuba sele ithathe icebiso eliyimpumelelo leempumelelo zempumelelo zempumelelo kwaye uzinxibe njengemaski-olu asilotshintsho lomfanekiso. Oku kukuthi kuphela, umdlalo. Nje ukuba imeko ihlukane nemeko esemgangathweni, obalwa, ukusuka phantsi kwetyheli eqinileyo eqinileyo kubonakala kuyinyani. Kwaye wena unelungelo lokuthanda izinto ezipholileyo kunye nentiyo ", ii-hairpins", zithanda isitayile esihlaziyiweyo ngakumbi kunye nemibala ethile. Kuwe, awuyi kuvakalelwa: Iimpawu zakho kunye notyekelo luhlala lubonakala luhlala lubonakala, ludala imvakalelo yeziphoso, ukuba umfanekiso wangaphandle wadalwa kubuxoki. Kodwa enyanisweni, ngokwenene iimpawu zakho kunye neminqweno yakho yeyona nto ixabisekileyo! Ngabo oko kufanelekile ukubeka kwisiseko somfanekiso! ..
Ke wenze ntoni? Ukufuna ukutshintsha umfanekiso, hlaziya iimfuno zakho kunye namathuba. Yenza uluhlu lwento oyiyo kwaye uthande, kunye nento ofuna ukuyitshintsha. Sikwachaza iimfuno zendalo esingqongileyo: ikhowudi yokunxiba emsebenzini, ishedyuli yobomi bakho, amanqaku ommangalelwa wenkcubeko. Ngokweziphumo zohlalutyo lwezi datha, uneyona nto inomdla kwaye inzima: Khangela ukuzithobela, kwaye ezinye, zibalulekile kuwe ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo (izihlobo, ...).
Ngokwahlukeneyo ufumana ingqalelo ekuqwalaselweni kweemeko zoxinzelelo okanye ezingaqhelekanga. Oku kunokubandakanya: Ukutshintsha okubukhali kwemozulu, ukugula, ukuhamba, ukuhamba kwindawo entsha kuwe (umzekelo, ukuvula umboniso), iingcango ezingxamisekileyo kwindlela, ukwazini, izehlo ezisemthethweni, njalo njalo kwi. Uya kwenza ntoni ukuba ungena kuyo yonke enye yazo? Unxiba ntoni kwaye uthathe nawe? Ukuba utsala kwindawo yokuthuthuzela yangaphambili, ke usebenza le nqanaba: hlalutya ukuba uhlale uhleli kwaye uhlukunyezwe kumfanekiso wethu omtsha nakwizizalisa zengqondo. Kutheni le nto kungazange kubekho utshintsho lwangaphakathi?
Kukho enye iphepha elilungileyo elilungileyo - Imeko ye "thuthuthu elikhulayo", njengoko ndibabiza. Umzekelo: Ukunikwa kwempahla yasekhaya, ukuhamba nomntwana, uhambo lwesixeko ... usazabalazela ukubeka umntu omdala, "Yintoni inceba"? Ke malunga nokuzithemba, ewe, kudala kakhulu ukuba ndingayithetha. Kwaye kuthetha ukuba, kuyimfuneko ukuqala emsebenzini kolu lwalathiso, kwaye emva koko utshintsha umfanekiso wangaphandle.
Ngokufanelekileyo, nganye nganye into yakho ifanele kukuqhubeka kwakho. Kufuneka ikhethwe ngokungqinelana nemeko ethile, isebenze kwaye ibe mkelekile. Kuphela kuxa ungatsho njalo malunga nayo yonke i-skerb kunye nempahla yakho, uya kuba nakho ukuzonwabisa ngokwakho: Umfanekiso weChukugnt uphuhlisiwe!
Ngethamsanqa lokukhangela ngokwakho!
Ukuba unemibuzo malunga nesitayile kunye nomfanekiso, ulinde ukuba bathumele i-imeyile: [email protected]
IKaterina Khooklova, umcebisi womfanekiso kunye nomqeqeshi wobomi