Ebuntwaneni, yonke intombazana yayidlalela "intombi kamama" kunye nodoli - ukuhlaselwa kwalo mzekelo wawunegalelo kuphela ekuvunyweni kwabantu abangqongileyo. Umdlalo ufundisa umntwana imithetho esisiseko yokuxhalaba nge-resebors, eya kuba luncedo kwixesha elizayo, nje ukuba intombazana yamadlelo igqiba ekubeni ngumama. Kuluntu lwanamhlanje, umda wobudala, xa kufanelekile umntwana, ikhula kuphela. Abantu batyhalela imfuneko yokuba abazali babe semva kwaye basondele kakhulu kuma-30 bacinga ngokusekwa kosapho. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba ufuna ukuba ngumama, jonga ii-ricks kwezi zinto zilandelayo.
Cela iqabane lakho
Eyokuqala, apho yaqala khona ukulungiselela umzali - incoko enyanisekileyo nomntu omthandayo. Ukuba umyeni wakho ubhaptize kwi-quect ye-Peaks kwaye akafuni ukuva malunga nobabalo, kutheni le ngxaki? Thatha isigqibo kunye xa ungamnika umntwana ixesha elaneleyo lokumkhathalela kwaye unike uthando nenkathalo. Ukutsala umama kwenye ngethemba lokuba le ndoda iqhele umntwana - isisombululo esikrwada. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngenxa yokuba uza kuba ngabazali abaneminyaka engama-35 okanye iminyaka emi-5-7 ubudala. Kuyinto enobuchule kunokukhathalela i-chad yoogogo kunye ne-nanny okanye owonakalisayo okwishumi elivisayo kuloo nto wayeyixhaphakile elona minyaka ilungileyo ebomini.
Iqabane kufuneka lilungele ukuba ngumzali.
Yiba yinyani
Thabatha ngempumelelo, iintlanganiso ezihamba rhoqo nabahlobo, i-spark engenamsebenzi kubudlelwane, ezemidlalo kunye noba umama akunakwenzeka. Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba inkxalabo yokuzalwa isandula ukuthabatha phantse yonke imihla - amandla okanye ixesha lokuhamba ngenqanawa kwi-cafe kunye ne-cinema ayizukuqala. Kuya kuba lula kuphela emva kweminyaka emi-2-3, xa umntwana eza kukhula aze aye eKindergarten. Kude kube lelo xesha, ungumqeshi ochaza izicwangciso zakho zosuku. Ukuba awukulungelanga ukwanda okwethutyana isingqisho sobomi obusekwe kakuhle, oko kuthetha ukuba kufuneka wenze nomzali.
Lungela ukusebenza ngaphezulu
Ngo-2014, iSebe lezoLimo lase-US lilungiselele ingxelo, ngokuthiwa ukuba abazali bachitha khona malunga namawaka angama-300 eedola ukukhulisa umntwana ngokuzalelwa ebudaleni, elingana nezigidi ezingama-20. Siyathandabuza ukuba zonke iintsapho zikwazi ukuchitha malunga namawaka angama-90 amawaka e-ruble ngenyanga, kodwa ukuba ufuna ukubonelela umntwana ufanele ngokwenene ubomi, le mali inesizathu. Wena nendoda yakho kuya kufuneka nisebenze kwimodi yoqeqesho ukuze ninike indlaliki ukuya kwimfundo, ukuhlawula izinto zokuzonwabisa kunye nokuzonwabisa.
Kuya kufuneka usebenze nangaphezulu kunangaphambili
Sebenza ngaphezulu komlinganiswa
Ukuba uhlala ungoyiki emsebenzini, kwaye kubomi bakho bobuqu, kwaye uye kwingxabano kwi-Trifles, ubunye ayisiyeyona nto ibalulekileyo. Umntwana omncinci uya kuhlala ekhala, waphula yonke into ngeenxa zonke kwaye uziphatha kakubi ukuya kwi-5-7. I-psyche eqinileyo - idipozithi ekufundiseni ilungu elisempilweni loluntu, hayi i-neurotic. Cwangcisa ndikunye nawe ukuba uyakusebenza ekuhlazelweni kwaye uzame ukuthintelwa. Iya kusindisa i-nerve yakho kwaye isuse izifo ezininzi, okuthetha ukuba ubomi buya konwaba kwaye buya kukuvumela ukuba ukonwabele abazali ngokupheleleyo.