Ukungena kwinqanaba elitsha, yenza into entsha-ihlala isoyikisa. Ndinamaxesha anjalo xa ndingafuni ukwenza, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba iya kuphola. Ungazinceda njani ukoyisa oku koyika okanye ukungafuni?
Umgaqo 1. Lilonke ngaphakathi ngokwakho kwaye wenze ntoni kwixesha elizayo ngokuqinisekileyo. Ndihlala ndiyenza loo nto, kwaye oku ayisiyonto oza kuyiza kwimigaqo yakho ngenxa yesiphumo esingathethekiyo. Lo ngumzuzu xa esoyika, kodwa kufanelekile.
Umgaqo 2. Isoyikisa, kuba kuhlala kukho abantu abangazixhasi kwaye bengayilungisi, kodwa kwicala lakho kuphela iiyunithi, abanye bayakuhleka, kutheni siphuma apho, asikokwenu. Ke ngoko, asinikeli ingqalelo kubantu abathandabuzayo, kwaye ukuba umbono wabantu uyanibetha, uze uzibuze lo mbuzo: "Yimalini le gunya kum?" Ndicinga ukuba impendulo ayizukuzenza ilindile.
Umgaqo 3. Sukulandela umthetho wonke umntu ofanele enze ishishini labo. Kuba wonke umntu makakwenze oko akuthandayo. Ukuba uyayithanda-yiyinge le nto kwaye uyenze!
Umgaqo 4. Kungcono ukuyenza kwaye uzisole ngento engenayo kwaphela. Ndihlala ndinamathela kulo mthetho, njengoko ndithanda ukufumana, kuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba kunjalo? Kuthekani ke ukuluma i-elbows kwaye ucinge ngento enokuba yintoni.
Umgaqo 5. Isicatshulwa esihle endizikhumbulayo ngo-2012: "Kuya kufuneka woyike ukufa, kodwa uBomi obungenanto," ngenxa yokuba ungakhange uyenze into endiyifunayo, kunye neyakho Ubomi babungquphe - emva kwakho akukho nto iseleyo, ngaphandle kwengcwaba.
Ke ngoko, ndikhetha ukuyenza, hambani ukuze niphile kwaye uphile obu bomi nge-buzz. Le yimvakalelo yobomi: Shiya into emva kwakho, phila njengoko ufuna, hayi njengomntu owayethetha nawe kunye nomnye umntu ofuna umntu. Kuya kufuneka umamele kuphela entliziyweni yakho!