Ngelishwa, iinkampani ezimbi ezenziwa kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo azikahlali kwixesha elidlulileyo, kwaye akukho lula ukulungisa into kungekudala. Akukho mntwana uyi-inshurensi eneempembelelo ezimbi zoontanga, nangona kunjalo, ngabazali abakhethekileyo abanokwenza ukuba imiphumo yeyona nto ithandayo yomntwana wabo ayizukukhathazeka. Yintoni eyenza oomama nootata kwimeko enzima?
Akukho bugqwirha
Ukurhanelwa kunika ubundlobongela, kwaye ukuba kwenzeka ukuba umntwana wakho akwiqela labanye abantwana okanye abakwishumi elivisayo, kunye naye utitshala, okanye abazali nabanye, okanye eyona nto ibalulekileyo enokuza entlokweni yakho - Qala umgxeka umntwana wakho, ukuthuka abahlobo bakhe abatsha kwaye ubeke izithintelo ezinzima. Uya kufowuna kuphela ungoneliseki kabukhali kwaye, ndikholelwe, umntwana uza kufumana iindlela zokwenza izithintelo kwaye abuyele kwindlela yobomi eqhelekileyo. Ngapha koko, iNtloko yabazali inokukhokelela ekubeni igqitywe, kwaye xa ngaphambi kokuba umntwana abe nenxaxheba kunye nawe amaxesha amaninzi ebomini, ngoku iyakufihla yonke into. Veza umonde kwaye unganikezeli-xa kungekho uphondo, iyakufumanisa ulwazi olufanelekileyo luya kuba lula kakhulu.
Sukugxeka umntwana wakho
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Tshintsha ingqalelo yakho
Rhoqo inkampani engendawo iba ukutshintshwa kwenkampani yabazali. Kwisingqisho sobomi bobomi, xa abazali besuka emsebenzini omnye abangena ekhaya, kodwa kwenye iofisi, kuya kuba nzima ukufumana ixesha lomntwana. Umntwana ukhangela indlela yokuphuma kwimeko xa engakwazi ukunxibelelana naye, kwaye ehlala emfumana kwindawo engeyomfuneko. Ukugxeka kulo mntwana kunzima. Zama ukuphinda ujonge indlela yakho yokuphila ukuze ube nexesha elaneleyo alikho kuphela wena kunye nezinto ozithandayo, kodwa nakwiimvakalelo zomnye umntu obaluleke kakhulu- umntwana wakho.
Unganyusi umntwana
Ingxaki yokubuyisela umva-ubonisa ingqalelo engafunekiyo kakhulu kwiinkanuko zomntwana, ekunzima ukuzitsalela umnxeba. Uninzi lwabazali lukrokrela ukuba lona tyaba ngoMculo ofanayo, uyiqwalasele ukungcungcutheka, okubi xa umzali eqala ukuhlekisa ngeetalente zomntwana, ebonisa ukuphakama kwakhe. Ngokwemvelo, umntwana uza kukhangela inkxaso ejikelezwe ngabahlobo, kwaye akukho mntu waziyo ukuba bathini abantwana okanye abakwishumi elivisayo.
Yiba nomdla kubahlobo bomntwana wakho
Ngaba uyazi ukuba ngubani onxibelelana nomntwana wakho? Olunye ulwazi lunokuqhayisa nabazali, ngakumbi abo basebenza ixesha elongezelelekileyo. Ngaba uqinisekile umntwana wakho ukuba afowunelwe ngabantu abamchaphazela kakubi? Zama ukuzifumana. Bacele ukuba batyelele, ngokwemvelo, ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Awunakho nokulungiselela nantoni na ngokuthe ngqo, phakamisa umntwana ngandlela thile kumema abahlobo bakho ukuba bahlale ekhayeni lakho, kwaye ngaxeshanye, nabo, babe sekhaya. Mhlawumbi emva kokuba uqhele nabantwana, tshintsha umbono wakho, nangayiphi na imeko, uya kuba nethuba lokuvavanya inqanaba lengozi.